Guest guest Posted November 17, 2004 Report Share Posted November 17, 2004 Pam, I won't repeat what I wrote to Janet but this is a problem I believe we all worry about. The effort we must make to " give back " and keep up our end of a relationship is beyond belief. We are working every minute to try to maintain an equal footing (sorry no pun intended) in every relationship we have. Hang in there, this is the place to unload these feelings and sort them out with each other. For me this is the bottom line...how to maintain a quality relationship with the people I love. How to pick and chose what is meaningful in the overall picture with them. I don't have the answer and maybe never will but this is my focus. I'm looking for role models of how others have done it in the past- Not just with RSD but with any long term chronic pain illness. I haven't a clue...yet. HOpe you are feeling better. With love and caring, Lyn Pamela Fredette <patches13033@y...> wrote: .... THEN TO TOP THAT ALL OFF MY HUSBAND IS NOT DEALING WITH MY RSD VERY WELL AND HE SAID HE JUST HAS TO DEAL WITH PROBLEMS ALL THE TIMES AND I DONT SEEM TO GIVE ANY THING BACK TO HIM....WELL HE WAS GONE AWAY FOR 2 DAYS AND I HAD A BAD FLARE UP NOW I FEEL GUILTY FOR TELLING HIM BECAUSE THE FIRST THING HE DID WAS YELL AT ME FOR NOT GETTING THE OIL CHANGED IN THE CAR....I DONT KNOW WHAT I'M DOING WRONG BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO OR SAY ANY MORE.... I PUT ON THE MASK ALSO AND IT IS SO HARD TO HOLD ALL THE PAIN IN AND SO CONFUSING SOME TIMES ..... I HOPE THAT THINGS GO BETTER WOTH YOU ...SOFT HUGS PAM > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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