Guest guest Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 Cathy, Your relationship with your parents sounds almost exactly like mine with my parents while growing up. I was a daddy's girl when growing up.....if I wanted something, I went and asked my dad, because I knew that if I asked my mom, the answer would be no no matter what, and she'd never mention it to my dad either. Now, the tables have turned since I've been out of the house for 12 years..... My Mom is the one that will do things for me, while my dad is the one that tells me no about everything. My Dad told me and the Girls on Christmas day to leave their house and never bother to come back again, that we wasn't welcome in their house again, don't bother calling or nothing........when I tried to tell him that the reason why we hadn't came down earlier was because I had been sick the whole day....which, my mother was in bed sick herself when we was there so she didn't know what was going on....... It took my dad 2 weeks before he finally called to apologize to me.....I wasn't about to call him first! But, I found out that my Mom chewed him a new *sshole when she found out what he did!!! She called me the next day also and talked to me to make sure that I was alright.......even though I felt like crap and was depressed because of it. So, I do know what you are going thru with your parents......and I know that it's hell. Does your Dad know that you have Bone Cancer? I know that he lives in the same Place that you do......so, that means that your mother does too...... So, that must mean you see them both when you go and see your dad unless he comes to your apartment instead of you going to their apartment.... hang in there Cathy.Your Mother will see her mistakes soon. Tonia -------Original Message------- fishthatsmiles@... wrote: hello. thanks for the kind words. my parents have always been the kindto bury your head in the sand and the problem will go away. when i hadreal bad cancer my mom did not tell my dad. when he came up to visitme he asked er why was i on the cancer floor and she tod him that wasthe only place they had. jpoe told me this and he told my dad that ihad real bad cancer. now i tell my dad myself if there is something iwant him to know. a while back my docotr told joe to call my parents.i have one hour to live. this was 2 a.m. my om told him that she wasnot going to wake my dad up and she would see him later. he callapsed.i did pull through and when he asked why you didn't come to hopsital shesaid it was to early in the moning. she does nt knpow that i have bonecancer. why tell her. she will just say not again. and do not tellyour father because i do not want himup set. she is jealous of therelationship i have with my dad. she doesn't wnt me to talk to him,take a walk with him or anything. oh well. the sky is absolutelybeautiful. it is pink and blue and white and the sun is trying to comethrough. bad day again. dumping syndrome is acting up violentely. whylord. what did i do wrong to deserve this. soryy for whining but justcannot take another second of this monster. thanks for caring andfor listening. i am going to be a bear today. love ya cathy ____________________________________________________ IncrediMail - Email has finally evolved - Click Here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 My Dad told me and the Girls on Christmas day to leave their house and never bother to come back again, that we wasn't welcome in their house again, don't bother calling or nothing Ah the wonderful family get together during the holidays, now on that subject I could write a book and you would swear it was soap opera. I can't believe a father could even say that to his daughter but telling his granddaughters, on those poor little girls, I bet they were very hurt. I do have one story that happened many moons ago which was hilarious, my sister and her first husband were getting a divorce and for some reason even she can't believe what possessed her, she wanted us to come to their house for Christmas, so we all bundle into my parents suburban, Dwight was driving, so as we get to their house my Mother tells Dwight to pull behind my sister's car in case Mike wanted to leave. We go in and say hi and out of my then 5 year old daughter mouth, comes this statement "Uncle Mike Grandma told my Dad to park behind Aunt Debbie's car in case you wanted to leave" I had to go into another room I was laughing so hard. Out of the mouth of babes. hope you are having a good pain day, Lin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 My Dad told me and the Girls on Christmas day to leave their house and never bother to come back again, that we wasn't welcome in their house again, don't bother calling or nothing Ah the wonderful family get together during the holidays, now on that subject I could write a book and you would swear it was soap opera. I can't believe a father could even say that to his daughter but telling his granddaughters, on those poor little girls, I bet they were very hurt. I do have one story that happened many moons ago which was hilarious, my sister and her first husband were getting a divorce and for some reason even she can't believe what possessed her, she wanted us to come to their house for Christmas, so we all bundle into my parents suburban, Dwight was driving, so as we get to their house my Mother tells Dwight to pull behind my sister's car in case Mike wanted to leave. We go in and say hi and out of my then 5 year old daughter mouth, comes this statement "Uncle Mike Grandma told my Dad to park behind Aunt Debbie's car in case you wanted to leave" I had to go into another room I was laughing so hard. Out of the mouth of babes. hope you are having a good pain day, Lin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 Cathy, You sound like me. I knew that it smaller, ALOT smaller, but didn't realize just how much until I measured. I also have learned to hate this monster. Right now it's 53 degrees here in Ridgway, PA, but they are acually calling for the really bad 'S' word here for Saturday night!! Doesn't that stink?!? And yes, that's why we hurt so bad right now. Wish that I had something to take for it, but I don't. My dr is rsd ignorant! Hope that you're doing a little better tonight. Soft hugs, Faith i knew the leg was smaller but >never realized how small. i hate this monster. it is getting colder >here in baltimore maryland. right now 38 degress, now i know why i hurt >so bad. write when you can. cathy > Rock, jazz, country, soul more. Find the music you love on MSN Music! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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