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Hi, Everyone -

Well, the sports injuries have actually started for Josh. Three and a half

years ago we were wondering if he would ever walk (or talk) because of the

hypotonia, etc. Now, I had to run him to the doc yesterday at 5:00, then to the

hospital for X-rays - fractured thumb! The fracture is right in the growth

plate so they will have to immobilize the hand/thumb to avoid any future

problems (and additional injury since he still does fall sometimes when he's

really tired). So, we're going today to an orthopedic guy to see what we can do

to set it.

The frustrating part of this (as if the fracture itself wasn't enough) - he

fell on the playground right next to his teacher and an aide. They were

concerned with his lip (he got a small cut on the bottom lip) so they were

giving him an ice cube, etc. He kept holding up his hand (teacher said, when I

called her last night to find out what exactly happened, he cried for only a

minute and then stopped crying) but didn't say anything about it, just held it

up. They thought maybe he scraped it or something so gave it a little kiss and

went back to worrying about his lip. The fall came just before the end of the

day - by the time he got to me on the bus, he couldn't use his hand to hold onto

the bus seat or railing to get off the bus and his thumb was already swollen

quite a lot. He came into my office to have a cracker snack and couldn't hold

the crackers (of course, it's his right hand - just when he's getting really

good at holding things, using pencils and stuff, changing his

own clothes, using the computer!), then started crying a lot. He laid down to

sleep, fell asleep immediately and slept for two hours - I didn't have the heart

to wake him to look at his hand/thumb at that point since he was so tired. But,

when he woke up, I asked a couple of the guys in the office what their op was

and they said it looked like a fracture - that's when I got him to the doc.

If only he could have said something more concrete to his teachers or if

only they could have understood what he was doing with his hand by showing it to

them, then we could have taken care of it all yesterday and maybe he wouldn't

have been in as much pain overnight and this morning!!!! Gosh, I hate this!!!

He's talking but not enough/not with appropriate words at times that he really

needs to - absolutely not his fault and that's not what I'm saying at all. I'm

just so frustrated that my kid has apraxia/dysarthria!!! This is one of those

times, and I can honestly say I don't do this often at all, when I have to say,

Why my kid????

Sherry

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I included a similar scenario when appealing with our insurance company for

speech therapy after my son turned 3. lack of speech ability affects

medical health in that if a child can't communicate that he is hurt, it

could be dangerous or prolong pain.

Hang in there Sherry! I am so glad that you were able to get him

appropriate care. Let us know how his recovery goes.

Tricia Morin

North Carolina

[Morin Family] Sherry wrote:

Hi, Everyone -

Well, the sports injuries have actually started for Josh. Three and a

half years ago we were wondering if he would ever walk (or talk) because of

the hypotonia, etc. Now, I had to run him to the doc yesterday at 5:00,

then to the hospital for X-rays - fractured thumb! The fracture is right in

the growth plate so they will have to immobilize the hand/thumb to avoid any

future problems (and additional injury since he still does fall sometimes

when he's really tired). So, we're going today to an orthopedic guy to see

what we can do to set it. ..... If only he could have said something

more concrete to his teachers or if only they could have understood what he

was doing with his hand by showing it to them, then we could have taken care

of it all yesterday and maybe he wouldn't have been in as much pain

overnight and this morning!!!! Gosh, I hate this!!! He's talking but not

enough/not with appropriate words at times that he really needs to -

absolutely not his fault and that's not what I'm saying at all. I'm just so

frustrated that my kid has apraxia/dysarthria!!! This is one of those

times, and I can honestly say I don't do this often at all, when I have to

say, Why my kid????

Sherry

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This just may be a normal kid thing. When I was 11, I fell off the

monkey bars at a neighbors house. My mom was watching me when this

happened.

For three days it hurt, but everyone kind of dismissed it. I didn't

cry a lot (if any), it was just uncomfortable. Finally, after 3

days my mom took me to the doctors, and I had a broken arm.

Sometimes kids just don't know what to think.

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Hi Sherry,

Sorry to hear about Josh, hope he's feeling better.

Try not to be to upset, i have the same worry about my daughter Ellie, but

saying that i worry about my other two children nearly the same amount and they

have no trouble speaking for themselves.

When i was 3 i had quite a serious leg injury, but because it was internal it

was hard to spot for quite a while, it hurt like hell , but anytime a adult

asked me how it felt, i just said it hurts a little.

That went on for months, i dont know why? I had perfect speech.

Sometimes thats just the way things happen, dont beat yourself up about it.

Just put it down to a casualty of childhood.

Take care,love to Josh. Jane

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Yeah, I think if I hadn't consulted with the two sports fanatics in my office

when Josh woke from his nap on Monday, and they said it looked fractured, I

probably would have held off going to the doc as well - I've sprained or

strained pretty much everything on my body and know that time will heal that

rather than a doc visit. But it just looked weird when I compared his thumb to

the other one (he has beautiful, long, slender fingers - his thumb was

discolored, swollen and had an extra lump on it!) and that little voice in me

said to take him. It is fractured right along the base of the thumb in the

growth plate - he's got a nice blue cast on it now. His speech path said she

thought he was trying to tell everyone something, that he actually was crying

and holding his hand, but they weren't paying close enough attention since they

were more concerned with his lip bleeding (no big deal there). Oh well, maybe

next time they'll get it!

Sherry

luckygmstwife <suzi_knowles@...> wrote:

This just may be a normal kid thing. When I was 11, I fell off the

monkey bars at a neighbors house. My mom was watching me when this

happened.

For three days it hurt, but everyone kind of dismissed it. I didn't

cry a lot (if any), it was just uncomfortable. Finally, after 3

days my mom took me to the doctors, and I had a broken arm.

Sometimes kids just don't know what to think.

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