Guest guest Posted July 4, 2004 Report Share Posted July 4, 2004 Maureen, I think that the adults who stare at you are just as curious as the 'young kiddies' and no doubt ARE wondering why such a young person is having such difficulty getting around. To me, that shows interest and some empathy and caring on the part of the person who's staring. If they didn't give a hoot about you, they wouldn't give a second look. When I give a smile or friendly 'hello', more often than not, a meaningful conversation ensues and it's a perfect time to increase public awareness of our disorder. Most are genuinely interested. Very often, they will even praise your courage and attitude, too. A pat on the back, even from strangers, is always nice. Dolores > > > When I am out in public with my walker or cane, people can be so > rude > > with their staring. I find it is mainly young kiddies or older > > people. The young kiddies of course dont bother me at all, because > it > > is just plain curiosity for them but it is the older ones that annoy > > me. I think they stare because they wonder why such a young person > > (47) has to use the walking device aids and most probably > think " thank > > goodness I am older and I am still going good " . I think that they > > dont realise that they are openly staring at me until i stare them > > down and then they smile and quickly turn away. I have found that > > staring back at them is the best way to stop them from staring at > you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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