Re: appt.with surgeon today -

[Guest guest]

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There are a lot of nice people out there, and I find the more I reach out and

be a friend, I get back double in return. You must be a nice person for

people to treat you the way they do...let me know what happens after your

appointment. I had a double in June of 2004, and I've never looked back. I

look to

the future, my happiness and my well-being. I find my life has more purpose,

more beauty and more love than I could have imagined and I appreciate the

people and things in my life more than ever before.

Look forward, not back...and know we're all here for you during your journey.

Best,

[Guest guest]

hi had my appt. with the surgen he made this even more real...sared me down I

felt so caged in ...wanted to cry but couldn.t ...the relity of it really is

sinking in I have to now have what they call a pet scan monday to see if thier

is canser anywhere else in my body do I even weant to know....I should have take

a tape recorder in with me because I was listening but not ....does that make

any sence ....he did say that I will be doing cemo at least 8 treatments

....also treatment hrt-2 for 5 years.... I am trying to keep a good attitude but

it is really hard my husband went with me but has not spoken to me sence even

went as far as sleeping in the tent in the back yard last night

.....unreal....but my parent were with me for a couple days took my kids and

dogs back up north with them ....thanks for the boost of incourgement nice to

here from someone who has been thru this bummpy ride ....to know it does get

better...

ssist@... wrote: ,

There are a lot of nice people out there, and I find the more I reach out and

be a friend, I get back double in return. You must be a nice person for

people to treat you the way they do...let me know what happens after your

appointment. I had a double in June of 2004, and I've never looked back. I look

to

the future, my happiness and my well-being. I find my life has more purpose,

more beauty and more love than I could have imagined and I appreciate the

people and things in my life more than ever before.

Look forward, not back...and know we're all here for you during your journey.

Best,

[Guest guest]

This is hitting you real hard.........and also your husband....He

must be scared too. Not that I condone him not speaking or sleeping

in the tent, maybe he is worrying about financial problems also.

But you have to look forwards and not backwards. Now that you know

what you have to fight you will find more ways to do that. Glad

your folks are helping out too. Search the internet and learn as

much as you can about your type of cancer. We are all survivors

and we work hard to maintain our serenity. Peace to you and all

the rest of our group. You are not in this alone....we will walk

with you on this journey, and think of it as a journey. Update us

regularly so that we can be of help.

Get rid of all those bad/negative thoughts and concentrate on the

positive.....you can do it!!!

Janet A

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> There are a lot of nice people out there, and I find the more I

reach out and

> be a friend, I get back double in return. You must be a nice

person for

> people to treat you the way they do...let me know what happens

after your

> appointment. I had a double in June of 2004, and I've never looked

back. I look to

> the future, my happiness and my well-being. I find my life has

more purpose,

> more beauty and more love than I could have imagined and I

appreciate the

> people and things in my life more than ever before.

>

> Look forward, not back...and know we're all here for you during

your journey.

>

> Best,

>

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