Guest guest Posted July 27, 2004 Report Posted July 27, 2004 Dawn - While we can't choose our family members, we can certainly choose how much we allow them into our lives. Good move. I'm sorry that she has been so hurtful to you. Barbara Quote
Guest guest Posted July 27, 2004 Report Posted July 27, 2004 Dawn Please, definetely call your dr today and find out what is making you feel so lethargic! Maybe its your meds, maybe something else, but whatever the case, please be looked at. It sounds very cold, but she was a very important topic in my visits with my psychologist. I remember him telling me that I can love her, but I do not have to > like her! That is how I have felt on the inside for a very, very long time!!! Your psychologist is right Dawn, you dont have to LIKE someone to LOVE someone. She will always be your sister and there will always be a part of her that you will remember as being special and important enough to love her, but her current actions dont warrent you having to love her. She has been a sourse of pain to you for awhile and that can make anyone dislike a person. Dont feel guilty about it, its a fact of life and Im sure anyone here can say that they have people in their lives that they too love but dont necessarily like. Take care of yourself Dawn and let us know how you make out at the Dr k? Hugs Donna Quote
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