Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 My heart goes out to you. I was where you are just seven short months ago when my father was dx. It is overwhelming, but it does get better. At first, it's hard to sort through all of the information here and make sense of everything. Pam's suggestion is great and she gave you some good links. I have found it to be true that there is no set " staging " of this disease. What I have also found is that my father will go through a period of somewhat rapid decline followed by a period where he seems to " plateau " for a while. For me, I have new questions all the time as my father's symptoms worsen or when he develops something new. You will find a wealth of information in this group. There are many knowledgeable people here who are more than willing to patiently answer any question you may have. I am constantly amazed that someone has an answer for every question asked. It seems that no matter what someone is dealing with, someone else in this group has dealt with the same issues. So, welcome, although I'm sorry you have to be here. Ask away! --- elizabarker@... wrote: > My Mother has just been diagnosed with MSA. We have > been trying to > learn all we can. I must say that that it is > overwhelming. At a > minimum, we're scared and confused. It just seems so > overwhelming. I > have tried to do research and it is coming along. > However, it feels > as if I have just gotten in on the middle of a > conversation that I > know nothing about. > > Can someone please tell me how to go about beginning > at ground zero > and working my way up? There is so much information > out there that it > is difficult to know where to start. My mother has > just been > diagnosed (thankfully my sister (her caregiver) > decided to change her > neurologist, or she would have gone undiagnosed. She > has her second > visit soon). > > Can anyone please tell me what stage she might be > at? > > She is 72 years old. She began falling 2-4 years > ago. Her gait and > speech has changed dramatically over the last year > or so. Sometimes, > she will take a step even when she senses it is not > safe. It is as if > she knows it is unsafe, but cannot understand what > might happen. She > has uncontrollable tremors mostly in her hands (but > sometimes in her > feet). She has started wearing Depends now, as she > has trouble > controlling her bladder/bowels. She began becoming > fatigued easily > about two years ago. She is confused very easily. On > top of all this, > she is in the early stages Alzheimers and has > Crohn's disease. Also > has sometimes uncontrollable nosebleeds, is this > related? > > We don't know where to turn. It is almost unbearable > to wait until > her next Dr's appointment. We can't stand not > knowing how much time > we have left with her. We love her so much. > > This website is great, we've gotten some really good > information. But > there is so much to digest, we are just so confused. > > > > If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may > unsubscribe by sending a blank email to > > shydrager-unsubscribe > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 Eliza, MSA does not have real stages as PD has. Often the patient is becomes wheelchair bound fairly quickly, then stays there for many years. Others walk aroung for 20 years or more and have other problems, but don't need a wheelchair. The nosebleeds are not normal as usually MSA patients have low BP. Ask you doctor about the nosebleeds. Confusion is always a sign that she should be checked for infection, often a UTI. Is she getting speech and physical therapy through Medicare? That can help the speech problem and possibly prevent infections. Take care, Bill and Charlotte in Herndon, Virginia, USA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 Welcome, though sorry you are here. I joined the list for my mother, too, who was diagnosed with Parkinson's, then less than 2 years later, with MSA. My mother Joyce died at 71 from complications. She had much imbalance, too. She was told never to walk unassisted, but didn't pay much attention to that good advice. I hope if your mother is falling that someone is with her all the time. Pam gave you good leads. Also, being on this list will expose you to lots of MSA issues--some will apply to your mother and some won't. My mother didn't have any BP problems, but shared the others. She, too, had problems with incontinence. The best you can do is be knowledgeable, be aware of any sudden decline (that may signal an infection to be addressed), make sure your mother exercises (even range of motion if that is all that is possible), monitor the drugs carefully along with diet. Most of all, be with your mother as much as you can. You don't know the course of this disease: my mother had it for 2 years; others on the list for 22 years. I am sure the dementia just makes everything so much worse. Many have found benefit from Aricept. If your mother is having bowel incontinence, which is common, there is a product that many say is good (I don't remember the name). You are at the right place. Debbie My Mother has just been diagnosed with MSA My Mother has just been diagnosed with MSA. We have been trying to learn all we can. I must say that that it is overwhelming. At a minimum, we're scared and confused. It just seems so overwhelming. I have tried to do research and it is coming along. However, it feels as if I have just gotten in on the middle of a conversation that I know nothing about. Can someone please tell me how to go about beginning at ground zero and working my way up? There is so much information out there that it is difficult to know where to start. My mother has just been diagnosed (thankfully my sister (her caregiver) decided to change her neurologist, or she would have gone undiagnosed. She has her second visit soon). Can anyone please tell me what stage she might be at? She is 72 years old. She began falling 2-4 years ago. Her gait and speech has changed dramatically over the last year or so. Sometimes, she will take a step even when she senses it is not safe. It is as if she knows it is unsafe, but cannot understand what might happen. She has uncontrollable tremors mostly in her hands (but sometimes in her feet). She has started wearing Depends now, as she has trouble controlling her bladder/bowels. She began becoming fatigued easily about two years ago. She is confused very easily. On top of all this, she is in the early stages Alzheimers and has Crohn's disease. Also has sometimes uncontrollable nosebleeds, is this related? We don't know where to turn. It is almost unbearable to wait until her next Dr's appointment. We can't stand not knowing how much time we have left with her. We love her so much. This website is great, we've gotten some really good information. But there is so much to digest, we are just so confused. If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may unsubscribe by sending a blank email to shydrager-unsubscribe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 Don't feel bad about lack of knowledge about MAS, Probably 80% of the doctors have never even heard the terms multiple system atrophy or the old term, Shy Dragger syndrome. Just hang in there and this family or support group will get you through it. God Bless, Jim Stark My Mother has just been diagnosed with MSA > My Mother has just been diagnosed with MSA. We have been trying to > learn all we can. I must say that that it is overwhelming. At a > minimum, we're scared and confused. It just seems so overwhelming. I > have tried to do research and it is coming along. However, it feels > as if I have just gotten in on the middle of a conversation that I > know nothing about. > > Can someone please tell me how to go about beginning at ground zero > and working my way up? There is so much information out there that it > is difficult to know where to start. My mother has just been > diagnosed (thankfully my sister (her caregiver) decided to change her > neurologist, or she would have gone undiagnosed. She has her second > visit soon). > > Can anyone please tell me what stage she might be at? > > She is 72 years old. She began falling 2-4 years ago. Her gait and > speech has changed dramatically over the last year or so. Sometimes, > she will take a step even when she senses it is not safe. It is as if > she knows it is unsafe, but cannot understand what might happen. She > has uncontrollable tremors mostly in her hands (but sometimes in her > feet). She has started wearing Depends now, as she has trouble > controlling her bladder/bowels. She began becoming fatigued easily > about two years ago. She is confused very easily. On top of all this, > she is in the early stages Alzheimers and has Crohn's disease. Also > has sometimes uncontrollable nosebleeds, is this related? > > We don't know where to turn. It is almost unbearable to wait until > her next Dr's appointment. We can't stand not knowing how much time > we have left with her. We love her so much. > > This website is great, we've gotten some really good information. But > there is so much to digest, we are just so confused. > > > > If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may > unsubscribe by sending a blank email to > > shydrager-unsubscribe > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 Don't feel bad about lack of knowledge about MAS, Probably 80% of the doctors have never even heard the terms multiple system atrophy or the old term, Shy Dragger syndrome. Just hang in there and this family or support group will get you through it. God Bless, Jim Stark My Mother has just been diagnosed with MSA > My Mother has just been diagnosed with MSA. We have been trying to > learn all we can. I must say that that it is overwhelming. At a > minimum, we're scared and confused. It just seems so overwhelming. I > have tried to do research and it is coming along. However, it feels > as if I have just gotten in on the middle of a conversation that I > know nothing about. > > Can someone please tell me how to go about beginning at ground zero > and working my way up? There is so much information out there that it > is difficult to know where to start. My mother has just been > diagnosed (thankfully my sister (her caregiver) decided to change her > neurologist, or she would have gone undiagnosed. She has her second > visit soon). > > Can anyone please tell me what stage she might be at? > > She is 72 years old. She began falling 2-4 years ago. Her gait and > speech has changed dramatically over the last year or so. Sometimes, > she will take a step even when she senses it is not safe. It is as if > she knows it is unsafe, but cannot understand what might happen. She > has uncontrollable tremors mostly in her hands (but sometimes in her > feet). She has started wearing Depends now, as she has trouble > controlling her bladder/bowels. She began becoming fatigued easily > about two years ago. She is confused very easily. On top of all this, > she is in the early stages Alzheimers and has Crohn's disease. Also > has sometimes uncontrollable nosebleeds, is this related? > > We don't know where to turn. It is almost unbearable to wait until > her next Dr's appointment. We can't stand not knowing how much time > we have left with her. We love her so much. > > This website is great, we've gotten some really good information. But > there is so much to digest, we are just so confused. > > > > If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may > unsubscribe by sending a blank email to > > shydrager-unsubscribe > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2001 Report Share Posted August 12, 2001 hi my mom was dx with msa back in march she is only 56 and i really need support can anyone help with understanding the progression of this awful illness? melissa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2001 Report Share Posted August 12, 2001 Hi ! I'm sorry to hear about your mom. From what I understand, there is no " set " progression of MSA. My father seems to be going downhill pretty quickly since his dx in January, yet some people on this list are still walking around 20 years after dx. My father can barely walk now and is having trouble with his speech. You've come to the right place for answers and support. This is a great group of very caring people. in OK --- T7311478@... wrote: > hi my mom was dx with msa back in march she is only > 56 and i really need > support can anyone help with understanding the > progression of this awful > illness? melissa > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 13, 2001 Report Share Posted August 13, 2001 Re:T731147B Hi , be pepared you will be getting lots of mail. I know it is frightening when you first hear the words Shy-Drager because it is so uncommon and the prognosis you read about is doom and gloom. It is not all that way, everyone is different. My husband was diagnosed in December of last year. I have to admit I felt a feeling of relief because now there was a name to what was happening to him. I made it my business to learn as much as I could about the Syndrome and although, at times, it is not easy, we are doing O.K. , try, if possible, to keep an up attitude. Most important, let your mother know, or feel, that you are there for her. There will be many changes and she may be embarrassed by some of them. Make her comfortable, accept what is and try not to let her feel sorry for herself.Your mother is only 56 so you must be very young and facing what is happening is not easy. The fact that you are seeking information shows that you are a caring daughter. That certainly is a plus factor. Do the best you can. Try to get as much help as possible. Ask for help and do not be ashamed to accept it. Your mother will benefit by it. I have discovered that all MSA patients are not alike so to talk about 's symptons to you may not be useful at this time. However, if you want to let me know what is happening to Mom and find out if there are similarities, I would be happy to hear from you and to write to you. Take care , Keep the faith Jan. PS. my E. Mail is Jandy70@.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 14, 2001 Report Share Posted August 14, 2001 Hi , My name is Amy. My mother is 54 and was diag. in April 1998. She started showing symptoms in Dec 1997. I am her caregiver. It gets rough alot of times but you will need support for yourself as well! I am very sorry. I just joined a month ago! This group is like a second family to me. Just to read what they are going through and also I can share my daily thoughts and offer help as well. I feel like now I can talk to someone that really cares and knows what I am going through! Please feel free to E - mail me ! DeBuskBunch@... Take Care, Amy Kernersville, North Carolina, USA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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