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Hi

I want to thank you so much for letting all of us know about .

I've been worried about her and have even written to her but she never

replied. Now I know why. My gosh, she's been through the mill. She

was doing so well but if you remember, we all thought full time work

would be to much on her.

Losing her close friend in front of her must have sent her right over

the edge. What a horrible thing to happen to her friend and .

Then her boss... my gosh, no wonder she's down in the dumps and feels so

horrible. The stress is overwhelming for her.

And THEN her dog.... I just want to run over there to hug her and help

her. She's been through so much and I just don't know how she's even

able to stand.

I think all mothers feel that when they're sick, they aren't good

mothers or wives. It's in us to feel that way.... BUT, it's wrong. We

were also born with two arms, two legs, a head and heart just like the

men and the kids have. Her husband and kids will have to learn that

she IS sick and to go with the flow. Kids are bendable and they won't

die for lack of a home cooked meal. is a very good person and

a good mother. Her kids will survive but she needs to take care of

herself first. I hope she was watching Oprah the other day with Dr.

Phil... they talked about woman doing it all and getting so sick and

STILL not taking care of themselves. It was a good one.

No doubt the messages are overwhelming for her. But, she must just

rest, get to the doctors and find out what's going on. Please let her

know that we love her and want the very best for her. She's a great

person and I just wished I lived closer to her.

Take care,

Vicki