Re: Bad news: m/c, religion mention

[Guest guest]

-Mikell,

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how you must be

feeling. Just remember you have support in Austin if you need it.

laura

-- In MullerianAnomalies , " Mikell Awwad "

<mikell_awwad@a...> wrote:

> All,

>

> I am very sad to tell you all that we found out yesterday that I

am having a missed m/c. We were very excited about the possibility

of having a child this year and are disappointed that it is not to

be. However, we have accepted the fact that there is nothing we can

do about this but move on and try again. I still believe in my

heart that we will eventually have a baby.

>

> Also, the doctor think that this is chromosomal in nature,

although she said they can not accurately test for this since the

fetus has been dead for almost two weeks. She indicated that since

everything else was progressing normally that she does not think my

uterus was causing any problems. She is very positive that we can

get pregnant again and have a successful pregnancy. This knowledge

in itself has given us hope.

>

> In the meantime, we are focussing on what we can do now that I am

not under pregnancy restrictions. I've been interviewing for a job

and pray that I will be starting it soon. Also, we are considering

taking an overseas trip to visit family that we had been delaying

while we were ttc and subsequently pg. Although we were hoping to

have a baby with us when we traveled, we still feel like taking the

trip would be good for us and now appears to be the right time.

>

> Thank you all for your prayers and support. I don't know what I

would do without this wonderful group of caring women. Knowing that

people are praying for us helps us make it through these dark

times. And knowing that God does still have a plan for us has given

us a sense of peace. He is the one that has given us the desire for

a family. Surely, He will give us the desire of our hearts.

>

> Thank you again for your words of encouragement.

>

> Mikell, 32

> t-shaped uterus

> m/c #1 in process

>

>

[Guest guest]

Mikell ~

I am so sorry for your loss! I have not yet experienced any of

this, so I can not begin to imagine how terribly hard it must be!

You will be in so many of our thoughts and prayers! And thank you

for taking the time to reply to me regarding my headaches. So far

none of you have told me much helpful, but I love knowing people are

out there trying to help us all out! God Bless Mikell... and I am

with you... he gave you the desire and just the same will fill that

in his own way in his own time! Be strong until then though!

~ Marcie

> All,

>

> I am very sad to tell you all that we found out yesterday that I

am having a missed m/c. We were very excited about the possibility

of having a child this year and are disappointed that it is not to

be. However, we have accepted the fact that there is nothing we can

do about this but move on and try again. I still believe in my

heart that we will eventually have a baby.

>

> Also, the doctor think that this is chromosomal in nature,

although she said they can not accurately test for this since the

fetus has been dead for almost two weeks. She indicated that since

everything else was progressing normally that she does not think my

uterus was causing any problems. She is very positive that we can

get pregnant again and have a successful pregnancy. This knowledge

in itself has given us hope.

>

> In the meantime, we are focussing on what we can do now that I am

not under pregnancy restrictions. I've been interviewing for a job

and pray that I will be starting it soon. Also, we are considering

taking an overseas trip to visit family that we had been delaying

while we were ttc and subsequently pg. Although we were hoping to

have a baby with us when we traveled, we still feel like taking the

trip would be good for us and now appears to be the right time.

>

> Thank you all for your prayers and support. I don't know what I

would do without this wonderful group of caring women. Knowing that

people are praying for us helps us make it through these dark

times. And knowing that God does still have a plan for us has given

us a sense of peace. He is the one that has given us the desire for

a family. Surely, He will give us the desire of our hearts.

>

> Thank you again for your words of encouragement.

>

> Mikell, 32

> t-shaped uterus

> m/c #1 in process

>

>

[Guest guest]

Mikell,

I am so very sorry to read this. I posted a few weeks ago. I also

have a T-shaped uterus and suffered an eerily similar experience as

you. I was so hopeful that yours would turn out better than mine.

I would encourage you to do a D & C, if possible, to know exactly the

cause of the m/c. We tried to do one, but I had largely m/c'd the

day before so the results were inconclusive, i.e., not enough

tissue. My RE believes that it was most likely chromosomal, but he

is also concerned about my lining b/c of the DES exposure. I have

since gone on to have a chemical last cycle, and we're about to do a

natural IUI tomorrow.

Take some time to grieve this loss, but I know I was anxious to try

again. We WILL be successful, I have no doubt. There have been

millions of women exposed to DES who have gone on to have healthy

babies. Mikell, you and I will, too!

> All,

>

> I am very sad to tell you all that we found out yesterday that I am

having a missed m/c. We were very excited about the possibility of

having a child this year and are disappointed that it is not to be.

However, we have accepted the fact that there is nothing we can do

about this but move on and try again. I still believe in my heart

that we will eventually have a baby.

>

> Also, the doctor think that this is chromosomal in nature, although

she said they can not accurately test for this since the fetus has

been dead for almost two weeks. She indicated that since everything

else was progressing normally that she does not think my uterus was

causing any problems. She is very positive that we can get pregnant

again and have a successful pregnancy. This knowledge in itself has

given us hope.

>

> In the meantime, we are focussing on what we can do now that I am

not under pregnancy restrictions. I've been interviewing for a job

and pray that I will be starting it soon. Also, we are considering

taking an overseas trip to visit family that we had been delaying

while we were ttc and subsequently pg. Although we were hoping to

have a baby with us when we traveled, we still feel like taking the

trip would be good for us and now appears to be the right time.

>

> Thank you all for your prayers and support. I don't know what I

would do without this wonderful group of caring women. Knowing that

people are praying for us helps us make it through these dark times.

And knowing that God does still have a plan for us has given us a

sense of peace. He is the one that has given us the desire for a

family. Surely, He will give us the desire of our hearts.

>

> Thank you again for your words of encouragement.

>

> Mikell, 32

> t-shaped uterus

> m/c #1 in process

>

>

[Guest guest]

Mikell,

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know that this is a very difficult

time for you and your dh. Take good care of each other. Your strong

faith will help you through this time.

I'll keep you in my prayers,

Sara

SU resected x2

[Guest guest]

I'm so sorry Mikell. I have no idea what to say...other than how

sorry i am. I have never had to experience this, so i have no idea

what you must be going through, but it must be incredibly hard on

both you and DH but don't give up. My thoughts are with you. Take

care of each other.

Ros