RE: Re: Long time no write!

[Guest guest]

I know what you are talking about. Was always told I have such a pretty face

and great smile. Oh lose the weight honey you will find yourself a nice guy.

I get so tired of hearing that I get real defensive. If he's a nice guy he

should want me for me not how much of me there is....lol

[Guest guest]

Dawn,

You are right. I hear that same thing all the time. You have such a pretty

face. Yeah, so you are implying that the rest of me looks like two pigs in a

sack fighting, but my face is pretty. I could just puke every time I hear that.

I am ready for my body to be as pretty as my face.

Dora

Long time no write!

>

>

> Hello gang,

>

> It's been a while just living life. I have to say I am so happy

since

> surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now I don't even blink

> twice when I have to climb them. I have to say it's almost two

years

> since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my goal weight yet but I

> feel by the second anniversary I will be which is Dec of this year.

> I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't know why I know I must

> have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes I still see myself

as

> that fat girl and when I put on my clothes they are so big. When I

go

> to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good I look but I'm still

> very negative toward my body image. It's that awful? but I still

have

> to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to me I'm looking behind

me

> because they can't be talking to me right? That's still something

I'm

> not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that still feels a little

> shell shocked?

>

> Dawn

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[Guest guest]

Amen!!! My husband and I met after I was almost as large as I am now. He loves

me and adores me for me. He is supportive of me loosing the weight because he

knows I need to do it for my health. But not once has he ever said that he

wants me to loose for an appearance issues. We got married in October and my

wedding dress was a size 32. I am huge, but I was determined that it was not

going to stop me from having a wonderful wedding. He married me fat and still

loves me. You deserve someone who accepts you for you and loves you the way you

are.

Re: Re: Long time no write!

I know what you are talking about. Was always told I have such a pretty face

and great smile. Oh lose the weight honey you will find yourself a nice guy.

I get so tired of hearing that I get real defensive. If he's a nice guy he

should want me for me not how much of me there is....lol

[Guest guest]

what a great story....lol