Guest guest Posted April 30, 2003 Report Share Posted April 30, 2003 Oh Moe, you certainly are not one of the people I was referring to honey! One girl hasn't been in this group since a couple months after was born, and the other is from another group, I promise it's not you! I DO consider you my friend, always have! I am so sorry that you even thought it was you I was referring to. I know it is hard for those who have been ttc for such a long time, this is the main reason I asked if it would bother anyone, my sharing about ttc again. I truly was trying to avoid offending anyone, and this person took it personally like I was slapping her in the face with it. I wasn't, I was " trying " to be considerate of other people's feelings, but I guess I can't please everyone. I feel very bad for this person, she HAS been ttc a long time, and I try to be supportive to everyone, but I guess she just has her own issues to deal with. Without the support of this group, I would be lost. Sure, I would function without all these ladies, but it is so nice to have a group of people that KNOW what you are going through. Especially with the reversal, even my best friend didn't " really " understand why we wanted to shell out $7,000 just to be able to have more children. Of course, she is pregnant with her 2nd and that is all they want ever, which just isn't me. I cannot imagine not wanting more children, but that is just me. If I could afford to have 12 kids, I'd do it in a heartbeat. I love being pregnant, and I love being a mom. It's something I have always wanted. More than a happy marriage even! LOL! When I had a, I was not married to her father, but we were together for 6 years. I almost married him, but thank God I didn't because He had other better plans for me. He had Jon in mind for me, and I just had to wait till it was time to meet him. Thank God I did. Sorry for rambling. Your post means a lot to me. It means a lot that I actually make a difference in other people's lives. I truly care about each and every one here, including you, and I am sorry you ever doubted that you were my friend. You have had a hard road to travel since I met you, and I wish there was more I could do for you. If there ever is, all you have to do is ask. (((((hugs))))) Hart Wife to Jon, Love of My Life Mom to 4: Arianne (16) ~ a(8) (4) ~ (My TR Baby - born 6/20/02) Glory to God and Many Thanks to Dr. Levin http://www.geocities.com/thehartclantx/Thehartclantx.html Ladies, I have a question... > Just a question so that I do not end up offending anyone... > > We will be ttc again, not militantly, but ttc all the same. My question is, should I share the details with the group like everyone else does, or would you guys rather I just kept them to myself? I do not want to offend or anger anyone, or make anyone jealous that has been ttc for a long time, so I am fine just keeping our progress to myself, but I want honest feelings. I am not going anywhere, I'll always be here for all of you, but if anyone prefers that I do not update on our progress, please feel free to let me know. > > The reason I ask this is because when I did get pregnant with Bean, there were a handful of people who were very ugly about it due to jealously or whatever, and I am human, no one wants others to be rude to them. When I announced my pregnancy with , I had several " friends " - at least I thought they were my friends, that just stopped speaking to me. Sad, but true. > > Anyway, if anyone has any feelings on the subject, please let me know either personally or in a post. > > Hart > Wife to Jon, Love of My Life > Mom to 4: > Arianne (16) ~ a(8) > (4) ~ (My TR Baby - born 6/20/02) > Glory to God and Many Thanks to Dr. Levin > http://www.geocities.com/thehartclantx/Thehartclantx.html > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 1, 2003 Report Share Posted May 1, 2003 , Thanks for always being there. OK, here is what you can do for me. Give me bean. lolol Joking. Just continue to share her with me and the group. I am so tired of wanting this and having to wait. I know that is the story behind alot of people. Its ok. I know there have been times that you have posted and I never said a word. There is no excuse for that. As a friend I should be there for you, and everyone else. You all are always there in my times of need. Love you, Moe Ladies, I have a question... > > > > Just a question so that I do not end up offending anyone... > > > > We will be ttc again, not militantly, but ttc all the same. My question > is, should I share the details with the group like everyone else does, or > would you guys rather I just kept them to myself? I do not want to offend > or anger anyone, or make anyone jealous that has been ttc for a long time, > so I am fine just keeping our progress to myself, but I want honest > feelings. I am not going anywhere, I'll always be here for all of you, but > if anyone prefers that I do not update on our progress, please feel free to > let me know. > > > > The reason I ask this is because when I did get pregnant with Bean, > there were a handful of people who were very ugly about it due to jealously > or whatever, and I am human, no one wants others to be rude to them. When I > announced my pregnancy with , I had several " friends " - at least I > thought they were my friends, that just stopped speaking to me. Sad, but > true. > > > > Anyway, if anyone has any feelings on the subject, please let me know > either personally or in a post. > > > > Hart > > Wife to Jon, Love of My Life > > Mom to 4: > > Arianne (16) ~ a(8) > > (4) ~ (My TR Baby - born 6/20/02) > > Glory to God and Many Thanks to Dr. Levin > > http://www.geocities.com/thehartclantx/Thehartclantx.html > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 1, 2003 Report Share Posted May 1, 2003 , Thanks for always being there. OK, here is what you can do for me. Give me bean. lolol Joking. Just continue to share her with me and the group. I am so tired of wanting this and having to wait. I know that is the story behind alot of people. Its ok. I know there have been times that you have posted and I never said a word. There is no excuse for that. As a friend I should be there for you, and everyone else. You all are always there in my times of need. Love you, Moe Ladies, I have a question... > > > > Just a question so that I do not end up offending anyone... > > > > We will be ttc again, not militantly, but ttc all the same. My question > is, should I share the details with the group like everyone else does, or > would you guys rather I just kept them to myself? I do not want to offend > or anger anyone, or make anyone jealous that has been ttc for a long time, > so I am fine just keeping our progress to myself, but I want honest > feelings. I am not going anywhere, I'll always be here for all of you, but > if anyone prefers that I do not update on our progress, please feel free to > let me know. > > > > The reason I ask this is because when I did get pregnant with Bean, > there were a handful of people who were very ugly about it due to jealously > or whatever, and I am human, no one wants others to be rude to them. When I > announced my pregnancy with , I had several " friends " - at least I > thought they were my friends, that just stopped speaking to me. Sad, but > true. > > > > Anyway, if anyone has any feelings on the subject, please let me know > either personally or in a post. > > > > Hart > > Wife to Jon, Love of My Life > > Mom to 4: > > Arianne (16) ~ a(8) > > (4) ~ (My TR Baby - born 6/20/02) > > Glory to God and Many Thanks to Dr. Levin > > http://www.geocities.com/thehartclantx/Thehartclantx.html > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 1, 2003 Report Share Posted May 1, 2003 , Thanks for always being there. OK, here is what you can do for me. Give me bean. lolol Joking. Just continue to share her with me and the group. I am so tired of wanting this and having to wait. I know that is the story behind alot of people. Its ok. I know there have been times that you have posted and I never said a word. There is no excuse for that. As a friend I should be there for you, and everyone else. You all are always there in my times of need. Love you, Moe Ladies, I have a question... > > > > Just a question so that I do not end up offending anyone... > > > > We will be ttc again, not militantly, but ttc all the same. My question > is, should I share the details with the group like everyone else does, or > would you guys rather I just kept them to myself? I do not want to offend > or anger anyone, or make anyone jealous that has been ttc for a long time, > so I am fine just keeping our progress to myself, but I want honest > feelings. I am not going anywhere, I'll always be here for all of you, but > if anyone prefers that I do not update on our progress, please feel free to > let me know. > > > > The reason I ask this is because when I did get pregnant with Bean, > there were a handful of people who were very ugly about it due to jealously > or whatever, and I am human, no one wants others to be rude to them. When I > announced my pregnancy with , I had several " friends " - at least I > thought they were my friends, that just stopped speaking to me. Sad, but > true. > > > > Anyway, if anyone has any feelings on the subject, please let me know > either personally or in a post. > > > > Hart > > Wife to Jon, Love of My Life > > Mom to 4: > > Arianne (16) ~ a(8) > > (4) ~ (My TR Baby - born 6/20/02) > > Glory to God and Many Thanks to Dr. Levin > > http://www.geocities.com/thehartclantx/Thehartclantx.html > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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