Re: Today would have been...

[Guest guest]

Hey Dana,

Sorry to hear you are having a rough day. I really think the clomid

might have something to do with it. I've heard from some of my

friends that the longer you take it, the more it can lead to feelings

of depression. I have a friend that would just start crying for no

reason. But, I'm sure your coworker's shower couldn't have helped

the situation.

My coworker announced her pregnancy right after I had 3 miscarriages

and a month before my ep. It was really hard for me. She just gave

birth on Sunday. I felt like I should have thrown her a shower at

work before she went on leave because I'm her closest friend there.

But the truth is I didn't have the mental energy to do it. I think

she probably understands because I've told her about all my ttc

woes. If anything, the birth of her child has made me realize how

much time has passed me by. I'm imagining you are feeling the same

way.

Keep your chin up. Tomorrow is a new day and the beginning of a new

chance for success! Good luck on your U/S. Hope there are lots of

good follicles on the left.

[Guest guest]

Hey Dana,

Sorry to hear you are having a rough day. I really think the clomid

might have something to do with it. I've heard from some of my

friends that the longer you take it, the more it can lead to feelings

of depression. I have a friend that would just start crying for no

reason. But, I'm sure your coworker's shower couldn't have helped

the situation.

My coworker announced her pregnancy right after I had 3 miscarriages

and a month before my ep. It was really hard for me. She just gave

birth on Sunday. I felt like I should have thrown her a shower at

work before she went on leave because I'm her closest friend there.

But the truth is I didn't have the mental energy to do it. I think

she probably understands because I've told her about all my ttc

woes. If anything, the birth of her child has made me realize how

much time has passed me by. I'm imagining you are feeling the same

way.

Keep your chin up. Tomorrow is a new day and the beginning of a new

chance for success! Good luck on your U/S. Hope there are lots of

good follicles on the left.

[Guest guest]

Dana

Let me first start off by wishing you my deepest

sympathies for you and and your little one. I

know there is nothing I can say to take the emptiness

away today but you are right you are continuing to

move forward and you will be given that special gift

again. Remember you do have your little angel looking

over you and she wants you to smile, even though it

seems so hard to sometimes.

As for your co-worker, she has no understanding of

what you have been through, unfortunately she is too

selfish to see your pain, she isn't worth your time.

You take all that energy and you take care of

yourself. I will be thinking of you tomorrow and lots

of luck on your u/s.

++++++++++++++++++++thoughts and I hope you wake up

and have a great day tomorrow. Again, I am sorry for

your day.

--- gradstu12@... wrote:

> Hey yall,

>

> I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face

> as I have just realized

> that today was my due date for my little angel. I am

> so shocked as I don't

> know how it caught me so unprepared. I have walked

> around in a daze today. My

> evil co-worker who is at this moment in labor, had a

> shower at work today. It

> was AWFUL!! I mean I am happy for her, but she has

> been such a bitch to me

> about the whole baby thing.

> Anyway, it's just a new level of sorrow for me,

> however I am continuing to

> move forward in hopes I will get another chance to

> be a mommy. Tomorrow is my

> u/s and I am keeping my fingers crossed that things

> will go well.

>

> Dana

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been

> removed]

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Dana

Let me first start off by wishing you my deepest

sympathies for you and and your little one. I

know there is nothing I can say to take the emptiness

away today but you are right you are continuing to

move forward and you will be given that special gift

again. Remember you do have your little angel looking

over you and she wants you to smile, even though it

seems so hard to sometimes.

As for your co-worker, she has no understanding of

what you have been through, unfortunately she is too

selfish to see your pain, she isn't worth your time.

You take all that energy and you take care of

yourself. I will be thinking of you tomorrow and lots

of luck on your u/s.

++++++++++++++++++++thoughts and I hope you wake up

and have a great day tomorrow. Again, I am sorry for

your day.

--- gradstu12@... wrote:

> Hey yall,

>

> I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face

> as I have just realized

> that today was my due date for my little angel. I am

> so shocked as I don't

> know how it caught me so unprepared. I have walked

> around in a daze today. My

> evil co-worker who is at this moment in labor, had a

> shower at work today. It

> was AWFUL!! I mean I am happy for her, but she has

> been such a bitch to me

> about the whole baby thing.

> Anyway, it's just a new level of sorrow for me,

> however I am continuing to

> move forward in hopes I will get another chance to

> be a mommy. Tomorrow is my

> u/s and I am keeping my fingers crossed that things

> will go well.

>

> Dana

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been

> removed]

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Dana

Let me first start off by wishing you my deepest

sympathies for you and and your little one. I

know there is nothing I can say to take the emptiness

away today but you are right you are continuing to

move forward and you will be given that special gift

again. Remember you do have your little angel looking

over you and she wants you to smile, even though it

seems so hard to sometimes.

As for your co-worker, she has no understanding of

what you have been through, unfortunately she is too

selfish to see your pain, she isn't worth your time.

You take all that energy and you take care of

yourself. I will be thinking of you tomorrow and lots

of luck on your u/s.

++++++++++++++++++++thoughts and I hope you wake up

and have a great day tomorrow. Again, I am sorry for

your day.

--- gradstu12@... wrote:

> Hey yall,

>

> I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face

> as I have just realized

> that today was my due date for my little angel. I am

> so shocked as I don't

> know how it caught me so unprepared. I have walked

> around in a daze today. My

> evil co-worker who is at this moment in labor, had a

> shower at work today. It

> was AWFUL!! I mean I am happy for her, but she has

> been such a bitch to me

> about the whole baby thing.

> Anyway, it's just a new level of sorrow for me,

> however I am continuing to

> move forward in hopes I will get another chance to

> be a mommy. Tomorrow is my

> u/s and I am keeping my fingers crossed that things

> will go well.

>

> Dana

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been

> removed]

>

>

__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

Dana

Let me first start off by wishing you my deepest

sympathies for you and and your little one. I

know there is nothing I can say to take the emptiness

away today but you are right you are continuing to

move forward and you will be given that special gift

again. Remember you do have your little angel looking

over you and she wants you to smile, even though it

seems so hard to sometimes.

As for your co-worker, she has no understanding of

what you have been through, unfortunately she is too

selfish to see your pain, she isn't worth your time.

You take all that energy and you take care of

yourself. I will be thinking of you tomorrow and lots

of luck on your u/s.

++++++++++++++++++++thoughts and I hope you wake up

and have a great day tomorrow. Again, I am sorry for

your day.

--- gradstu12@... wrote:

> Hey yall,

>

> I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face

> as I have just realized

> that today was my due date for my little angel. I am

> so shocked as I don't

> know how it caught me so unprepared. I have walked

> around in a daze today. My

> evil co-worker who is at this moment in labor, had a

> shower at work today. It

> was AWFUL!! I mean I am happy for her, but she has

> been such a bitch to me

> about the whole baby thing.

> Anyway, it's just a new level of sorrow for me,

> however I am continuing to

> move forward in hopes I will get another chance to

> be a mommy. Tomorrow is my

> u/s and I am keeping my fingers crossed that things

> will go well.

>

> Dana

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been

> removed]

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Dana,

I dread that day already. I'm sorry that it has been such a tough day and

that the woman at work only made it worse. That's really such a shame. I

know you will be feeling better and have that positive gusto back soon, but

sometimes we do get the rug pulled out from under us. Hang in there.

Maggie

[Guest guest]

Dana,

I dread that day already. I'm sorry that it has been such a tough day and

that the woman at work only made it worse. That's really such a shame. I

know you will be feeling better and have that positive gusto back soon, but

sometimes we do get the rug pulled out from under us. Hang in there.

Maggie

[Guest guest]

Dana,

I dread that day already. I'm sorry that it has been such a tough day and

that the woman at work only made it worse. That's really such a shame. I

know you will be feeling better and have that positive gusto back soon, but

sometimes we do get the rug pulled out from under us. Hang in there.

Maggie

[Guest guest]

Dana,

I am so sorry it has been such a hard day for you. I know your angel

baby is looking down on you and wishing you happiness. I will say an

extra prayer for you and your angel baby tonight. I wish you peace...

hugs,

elle

-- In ectopicpregnancy@y..., gradstu12@a... wrote:

> Hey yall,

>

> I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face as I have just

realized

> that today was my due date for my little angel. I am so shocked as I

don't

> know how it caught me so unprepared. I have walked around in a daze

today. My

> evil co-worker who is at this moment in labor, had a shower at work

today. It

> was AWFUL!! I mean I am happy for her, but she has been such a bitch

to me

> about the whole baby thing.

> Anyway, it's just a new level of sorrow for me, however I am

continuing to

> move forward in hopes I will get another chance to be a mommy.

Tomorrow is my

> u/s and I am keeping my fingers crossed that things will go well.

>

> Dana

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Dana,

I am so sorry it has been such a hard day for you. I know your angel

baby is looking down on you and wishing you happiness. I will say an

extra prayer for you and your angel baby tonight. I wish you peace...

hugs,

elle

-- In ectopicpregnancy@y..., gradstu12@a... wrote:

> Hey yall,

>

> I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face as I have just

realized

> that today was my due date for my little angel. I am so shocked as I

don't

> know how it caught me so unprepared. I have walked around in a daze

today. My

> evil co-worker who is at this moment in labor, had a shower at work

today. It

> was AWFUL!! I mean I am happy for her, but she has been such a bitch

to me

> about the whole baby thing.

> Anyway, it's just a new level of sorrow for me, however I am

continuing to

> move forward in hopes I will get another chance to be a mommy.

Tomorrow is my

> u/s and I am keeping my fingers crossed that things will go well.

>

> Dana

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Dana,

LOVE LOVE to you...I am so sorry you have had such a tough day. I am glad,

though, that you allowed yourself to feel that pain instead of holding it all

in. At least you'll get a break from the evil co-worker for the next 6

weeks or so...what a wench. Good luck with your u/s...just remember that

your turn is coming. When you finally deliver your baby, you can go show him

off to the evil one and giggle since your baby will be sooo much cuter...time

has a way of evening the score... In the meantime know you have all of us

rooting for you and keeping you close in thoughts and prayers...LOVE KJ

[Guest guest]

Dana,

LOVE LOVE to you...I am so sorry you have had such a tough day. I am glad,

though, that you allowed yourself to feel that pain instead of holding it all

in. At least you'll get a break from the evil co-worker for the next 6

weeks or so...what a wench. Good luck with your u/s...just remember that

your turn is coming. When you finally deliver your baby, you can go show him

off to the evil one and giggle since your baby will be sooo much cuter...time

has a way of evening the score... In the meantime know you have all of us

rooting for you and keeping you close in thoughts and prayers...LOVE KJ

[Guest guest]

Dana,

LOVE LOVE to you...I am so sorry you have had such a tough day. I am glad,

though, that you allowed yourself to feel that pain instead of holding it all

in. At least you'll get a break from the evil co-worker for the next 6

weeks or so...what a wench. Good luck with your u/s...just remember that

your turn is coming. When you finally deliver your baby, you can go show him

off to the evil one and giggle since your baby will be sooo much cuter...time

has a way of evening the score... In the meantime know you have all of us

rooting for you and keeping you close in thoughts and prayers...LOVE KJ

[Guest guest]

(((HUGS))) It's okay...you'll get your turn...and we'll all be there to

share your joy. I hope you feel better.

M

>

> Hey yall,

>

> I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face as I have just realized

> that today was my due date for my little angel. I am so shocked as I don't

> know how it caught me so unprepared. I have walked around in a daze today. My

> evil co-worker who is at this moment in labor, had a shower at work today. It

> was AWFUL!! I mean I am happy for her, but she has been such a bitch to me

> about the whole baby thing.

> Anyway, it's just a new level of sorrow for me, however I am continuing to

> move forward in hopes I will get another chance to be a mommy. Tomorrow is my

> u/s and I am keeping my fingers crossed that things will go well.

>

> Dana

[Guest guest]

(((HUGS))) It's okay...you'll get your turn...and we'll all be there to

share your joy. I hope you feel better.

M

>

> Hey yall,

>

> I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face as I have just realized

> that today was my due date for my little angel. I am so shocked as I don't

> know how it caught me so unprepared. I have walked around in a daze today. My

> evil co-worker who is at this moment in labor, had a shower at work today. It

> was AWFUL!! I mean I am happy for her, but she has been such a bitch to me

> about the whole baby thing.

> Anyway, it's just a new level of sorrow for me, however I am continuing to

> move forward in hopes I will get another chance to be a mommy. Tomorrow is my

> u/s and I am keeping my fingers crossed that things will go well.

>

> Dana

[Guest guest]

(((HUGS))) It's okay...you'll get your turn...and we'll all be there to

share your joy. I hope you feel better.

M

>

> Hey yall,

>

> I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face as I have just realized

> that today was my due date for my little angel. I am so shocked as I don't

> know how it caught me so unprepared. I have walked around in a daze today. My

> evil co-worker who is at this moment in labor, had a shower at work today. It

> was AWFUL!! I mean I am happy for her, but she has been such a bitch to me

> about the whole baby thing.

> Anyway, it's just a new level of sorrow for me, however I am continuing to

> move forward in hopes I will get another chance to be a mommy. Tomorrow is my

> u/s and I am keeping my fingers crossed that things will go well.

>

> Dana

[Guest guest]

Dana,

I'm sorry you are having a rough time right now {{{{{HUGS}}}}} It must be

so hard to hit these major milestones, especially when you think you are

dealing with everything okay and healing well, then this comes along and

makes you realize you are still very vulnerable. I wish I could take the

pain anyway, but I know I can't. All I can say is just keep focusing on the

future and know that one day soon you will be holding a precious little one

in your arms.

-AmyR

[Guest guest]

Dana,

I'm sorry you are having a rough time right now {{{{{HUGS}}}}} It must be

so hard to hit these major milestones, especially when you think you are

dealing with everything okay and healing well, then this comes along and

makes you realize you are still very vulnerable. I wish I could take the

pain anyway, but I know I can't. All I can say is just keep focusing on the

future and know that one day soon you will be holding a precious little one

in your arms.

-AmyR

[Guest guest]

Keri,

Yes, I wish that I had prepared myself more for it and had planned something

special. but...I didn't and I got through it.

OK, now how did I get pg if I'm gay? My partner and I decided to TTC last

February (we'd been together 3 years at that point) so I talked to my gyn and

he said he didn't do it, but would hook us up with an RE that would and that

was gay friendly. So it turned out to be my gyn's best friend and we got an

appointment for the next week. And we did the first insemination 2 weeks

later (using unknown donor). The first one didn't " take " so we did it again

in July, and that's the one that ended up being my ep.

Dana

[Guest guest]

Keri,

Yes, I wish that I had prepared myself more for it and had planned something

special. but...I didn't and I got through it.

OK, now how did I get pg if I'm gay? My partner and I decided to TTC last

February (we'd been together 3 years at that point) so I talked to my gyn and

he said he didn't do it, but would hook us up with an RE that would and that

was gay friendly. So it turned out to be my gyn's best friend and we got an

appointment for the next week. And we did the first insemination 2 weeks

later (using unknown donor). The first one didn't " take " so we did it again

in July, and that's the one that ended up being my ep.

Dana

[Guest guest]

Dana,

I'm so sorry that you experienced so much sadness today. I wish there was

something I could say to make you feel better, remember your little angel is

with God, that alone is something to be greatful for.

maria

[Guest guest]

Dana,

I'm so sorry that you experienced so much sadness today. I wish there was

something I could say to make you feel better, remember your little angel is

with God, that alone is something to be greatful for.

maria

[Guest guest]

Dana,

I'm so sorry that you experienced so much sadness today. I wish there was

something I could say to make you feel better, remember your little angel is

with God, that alone is something to be greatful for.

maria

[Guest guest]

Dana, I am so sorry that this day caught you by suprise, and I am so sorry about

your rude co-woker. I am not looking forward to the anniv.of our baby's death

either. Heath's sister is preg. exactly the same months as I would have been,

and I don't know how I am going to be when she has her baby, probally a wreck.

She came by yesterday and I have never in my life tried so hard not to look at

someone. It was so hard being around her. I was wondering also how you had an ep

if you are gay? I am newer to the group and I don't remember your story. Also,

good luck with your u/s.----Keri

>

> Hey yall,

>

> I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face as I have just realized

> that today was my due date for my little angel. I am so shocked as I don't

> know how it caught me so unprepared. I have walked around in a daze today. My

> evil co-worker who is at this moment in labor, had a shower at work today. It

> was AWFUL!! I mean I am happy for her, but she has been such a bitch to me

> about the whole baby thing.

> Anyway, it's just a new level of sorrow for me, however I am continuing to

> move forward in hopes I will get another chance to be a mommy. Tomorrow is my

> u/s and I am keeping my fingers crossed that things will go well.

>

> Dana

>

>

>