Guest guest Posted October 25, 2002 Report Share Posted October 25, 2002 I just wanted to write you to encourage you to not give up- until you are ready to give up- I'm certain Dr Palter will give you an honest and fair evaluation of your situation- and tehn you can decide with your dh where to go from here- but I also want to add- that most men are somewhat like your dh- and need to be pulled along on adoption- and even children- remember that marriage needs to meet both your needs- adn try to work on a compromise- I was worried about dh and the adoption ( I think he agreesd to it because I was "losing my mind" after our DD was stillborn) but I swear he's bonded closer with Jaden than the others!!! She's so special to us- If you have any questions I can help with- feel free to ask- but take the time to truly evaluate your desires. If you feel you're too set in your ways for children get involved with some nieces and nephews or something- it's a big transition to having kids- and I look at my childless friends with envy "at times" (when I'm cleaning up vomit and they call me from the beach to see how everyone's feeling-) but I wouldn't trade it for the workd!!!!!! , Mike, Brenna Jordan Ross-born 9/26/97(VSD, PS- open heart surgery 1/29/98), and Jaden Kalyan Ross-born in Cambodia July 15, 2001 home with us forever May 3, 2002, Colin Spencer Ross- born July 27, 2002, Baby Angel born still 11/7/00, and Riley and Snoozer the dogs Join us again next year in remembering the millions of people affected by CHD on 2/14/2003: "A Day for Hearts: Congenital Heart Defects Awareness Day!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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