Guest guest Posted March 30, 2000 Report Share Posted March 30, 2000 In a message dated 3/30/00 7:32:52 PM Eastern Standard Time, NatureBaby@... writes: << What were the most important things that you learned about breastfeeding that got you off to a good start? Thanks in advance. >> The most important thing i learned was correct position......if you don't have that then you are in store for improper latching on and all the nice things that go with it. Martha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2000 Report Share Posted March 30, 2000 In a message dated 3/30/00 7:32:52 PM Eastern Standard Time, NatureBaby@... writes: << What were the most important things that you learned about breastfeeding that got you off to a good start? Thanks in advance. >> The most important thing i learned was correct position......if you don't have that then you are in store for improper latching on and all the nice things that go with it. Martha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2000 Report Share Posted March 30, 2000 In a message dated 3/30/00 7:32:52 PM Eastern Standard Time, NatureBaby@... writes: << What were the most important things that you learned about breastfeeding that got you off to a good start? Thanks in advance. >> The most important thing i learned was correct position......if you don't have that then you are in store for improper latching on and all the nice things that go with it. Martha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2000 Report Share Posted March 30, 2000 Wendi- Just to throw out a quick few things that helped me get started: 1) Breastfed exclusively, no nipples or pacifiers, and nurse EVERY time your baby's hungry or needs comfort. 2) Breastfeeding is natural, but doesn't necessarily come naturally. You're both learning, give yourself time to learn and become comfortable with your new " status " 3) Don't be afraid to ask for help from a qualified source. It could mean the difference between a minor challenge, and the end of nursing. S. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2000 Report Share Posted March 30, 2000 Wendi- Just to throw out a quick few things that helped me get started: 1) Breastfed exclusively, no nipples or pacifiers, and nurse EVERY time your baby's hungry or needs comfort. 2) Breastfeeding is natural, but doesn't necessarily come naturally. You're both learning, give yourself time to learn and become comfortable with your new " status " 3) Don't be afraid to ask for help from a qualified source. It could mean the difference between a minor challenge, and the end of nursing. S. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2000 Report Share Posted March 30, 2000 Wendi- Just to throw out a quick few things that helped me get started: 1) Breastfed exclusively, no nipples or pacifiers, and nurse EVERY time your baby's hungry or needs comfort. 2) Breastfeeding is natural, but doesn't necessarily come naturally. You're both learning, give yourself time to learn and become comfortable with your new " status " 3) Don't be afraid to ask for help from a qualified source. It could mean the difference between a minor challenge, and the end of nursing. S. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2000 Report Share Posted March 30, 2000 I have breastfed 5 children, and pumped for the 6th baby who became an angel. I have breastfed as little as 3 months, and as long as 3 1/2 years.. I am currently breastfeeding my 14 month old, but she seems to be naturally weaning herself.. The child I breastfed for 3 1/2 years, is now almost 4 1/2 but still asks to nurse.. Sometimes I let him.. He is absolutely in love with nursing still.. I feel so bad for him ( Any suggestions????? anyway, my advice would be.. if you plan to breastfeed, give it at least 6 weeks, most babies don't fully get the hang of it for at least this long.. and you might miss out on a beautiful experience if you don't keep at it.. Secondly, don't let anyone tell you size has anything to do with your abilities to breastfeed... small and large breasted women alike can enjoy it successfully. If you have older children, a lady friend of mine suggested having a rubermaid container with special nursing toys, that the older kids could play with only while she was nursing.. That way they looked forward to nursing because of the uniqueness of the playtime.. Hope these ideas help Christi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2000 Report Share Posted March 30, 2000 I have breastfed 5 children, and pumped for the 6th baby who became an angel. I have breastfed as little as 3 months, and as long as 3 1/2 years.. I am currently breastfeeding my 14 month old, but she seems to be naturally weaning herself.. The child I breastfed for 3 1/2 years, is now almost 4 1/2 but still asks to nurse.. Sometimes I let him.. He is absolutely in love with nursing still.. I feel so bad for him ( Any suggestions????? anyway, my advice would be.. if you plan to breastfeed, give it at least 6 weeks, most babies don't fully get the hang of it for at least this long.. and you might miss out on a beautiful experience if you don't keep at it.. Secondly, don't let anyone tell you size has anything to do with your abilities to breastfeed... small and large breasted women alike can enjoy it successfully. If you have older children, a lady friend of mine suggested having a rubermaid container with special nursing toys, that the older kids could play with only while she was nursing.. That way they looked forward to nursing because of the uniqueness of the playtime.. Hope these ideas help Christi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2000 Report Share Posted March 30, 2000 I have breastfed 5 children, and pumped for the 6th baby who became an angel. I have breastfed as little as 3 months, and as long as 3 1/2 years.. I am currently breastfeeding my 14 month old, but she seems to be naturally weaning herself.. The child I breastfed for 3 1/2 years, is now almost 4 1/2 but still asks to nurse.. Sometimes I let him.. He is absolutely in love with nursing still.. I feel so bad for him ( Any suggestions????? anyway, my advice would be.. if you plan to breastfeed, give it at least 6 weeks, most babies don't fully get the hang of it for at least this long.. and you might miss out on a beautiful experience if you don't keep at it.. Secondly, don't let anyone tell you size has anything to do with your abilities to breastfeed... small and large breasted women alike can enjoy it successfully. If you have older children, a lady friend of mine suggested having a rubermaid container with special nursing toys, that the older kids could play with only while she was nursing.. That way they looked forward to nursing because of the uniqueness of the playtime.. Hope these ideas help Christi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2000 Report Share Posted March 30, 2000 Hi Listees! My wonderful breasts have furnished three children with nutrition and antibodies, and lovely snuggles, for a combined time of 21 months. I couldn't have done it without the midwife who helped me birth my first baby and my mum who had all sorts of tricks up her sleeve!! Jackie (Student Midwife) UK breastfeeding > As the list owner I have to ask that we bring the topic back around to > breastfeeding. I don't want hurt feelings and women leaving because of a > misunderstanding or miscommunication. I would greatly appreciate if we can > return to the supportive atmosphere that we are all here for. Maybe I can > redirect the conversation. I am working on an online class and booklet that > teaches breastfeeding basics. It will be geared towards those that really > don't know much about breastfeeding but I want it to be inclusive. I would > appreciate any suggestions or comments that you think would aid me putting > this together. What were the most important things that you learned about > breastfeeding that got you off to a good start? Thanks in advance. > > Wendi > http://www.lactivist.com > breastfeeding info & resources > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! > 1. Fill in the brief application > 2. Receive approval decision within 30 seconds > 3. Get rates as low as 2.9% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR > Apply NOW! > http://click./1/2646/0/_/410002/_/954462528/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Give the Gift of Life Breastfeed! > http://www.lactivist.com > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2000 Report Share Posted March 30, 2000 Hi Listees! My wonderful breasts have furnished three children with nutrition and antibodies, and lovely snuggles, for a combined time of 21 months. I couldn't have done it without the midwife who helped me birth my first baby and my mum who had all sorts of tricks up her sleeve!! Jackie (Student Midwife) UK breastfeeding > As the list owner I have to ask that we bring the topic back around to > breastfeeding. I don't want hurt feelings and women leaving because of a > misunderstanding or miscommunication. I would greatly appreciate if we can > return to the supportive atmosphere that we are all here for. Maybe I can > redirect the conversation. I am working on an online class and booklet that > teaches breastfeeding basics. It will be geared towards those that really > don't know much about breastfeeding but I want it to be inclusive. I would > appreciate any suggestions or comments that you think would aid me putting > this together. What were the most important things that you learned about > breastfeeding that got you off to a good start? Thanks in advance. > > Wendi > http://www.lactivist.com > breastfeeding info & resources > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! > 1. Fill in the brief application > 2. Receive approval decision within 30 seconds > 3. Get rates as low as 2.9% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR > Apply NOW! > http://click./1/2646/0/_/410002/_/954462528/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Give the Gift of Life Breastfeed! > http://www.lactivist.com > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2000 Report Share Posted March 30, 2000 Hi Listees! My wonderful breasts have furnished three children with nutrition and antibodies, and lovely snuggles, for a combined time of 21 months. I couldn't have done it without the midwife who helped me birth my first baby and my mum who had all sorts of tricks up her sleeve!! Jackie (Student Midwife) UK breastfeeding > As the list owner I have to ask that we bring the topic back around to > breastfeeding. I don't want hurt feelings and women leaving because of a > misunderstanding or miscommunication. I would greatly appreciate if we can > return to the supportive atmosphere that we are all here for. Maybe I can > redirect the conversation. I am working on an online class and booklet that > teaches breastfeeding basics. It will be geared towards those that really > don't know much about breastfeeding but I want it to be inclusive. I would > appreciate any suggestions or comments that you think would aid me putting > this together. What were the most important things that you learned about > breastfeeding that got you off to a good start? Thanks in advance. > > Wendi > http://www.lactivist.com > breastfeeding info & resources > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! > 1. Fill in the brief application > 2. Receive approval decision within 30 seconds > 3. Get rates as low as 2.9% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR > Apply NOW! > http://click./1/2646/0/_/410002/_/954462528/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Give the Gift of Life Breastfeed! > http://www.lactivist.com > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2000 Report Share Posted March 31, 2000 > I am working on an online class and booklet that > teaches breastfeeding basics. It will be geared towards those that really > don't know much about breastfeeding but I want it to be inclusive. I would > appreciate any suggestions or comments that you think would aid me putting > this together. What were the most important things that you learned about > breastfeeding that got you off to a good start? Relax!! Get comfortable. Micki Mom to Micah 1/12/2000 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2000 Report Share Posted March 31, 2000 > I am working on an online class and booklet that > teaches breastfeeding basics. It will be geared towards those that really > don't know much about breastfeeding but I want it to be inclusive. I would > appreciate any suggestions or comments that you think would aid me putting > this together. What were the most important things that you learned about > breastfeeding that got you off to a good start? Relax!! Get comfortable. Micki Mom to Micah 1/12/2000 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2000 Report Share Posted March 31, 2000 > I am working on an online class and booklet that > teaches breastfeeding basics. It will be geared towards those that really > don't know much about breastfeeding but I want it to be inclusive. I would > appreciate any suggestions or comments that you think would aid me putting > this together. What were the most important things that you learned about > breastfeeding that got you off to a good start? Relax!! Get comfortable. Micki Mom to Micah 1/12/2000 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2000 Report Share Posted March 31, 2000 The most important thing to me about being successful at breastfeeding is to KNOW THAT YOU CAN SUCCEED. I think so many mother's go into it thinking that they will probably fail, or probaby need formula to back things up. Or have so many doubts etc etc. I think if you go into a situation knowing that you cannot fail, than you will not. You direct the path you choose and choose to succeed. There are bumps in the road, but that does not mean failure. It means you face the opportunity to prove to yourself and others that you can overcome them. I went into both of my nursing relationships knowing that I could do it and I did! I went through some problems but got past them! <3 PS This may not be anything specific but I truly believe people set themselves up for failure. That nothing is unlucky or a missed chance, but that people choose where their life leads. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2000 Report Share Posted March 31, 2000 The most important thing to me about being successful at breastfeeding is to KNOW THAT YOU CAN SUCCEED. I think so many mother's go into it thinking that they will probably fail, or probaby need formula to back things up. Or have so many doubts etc etc. I think if you go into a situation knowing that you cannot fail, than you will not. You direct the path you choose and choose to succeed. There are bumps in the road, but that does not mean failure. It means you face the opportunity to prove to yourself and others that you can overcome them. I went into both of my nursing relationships knowing that I could do it and I did! I went through some problems but got past them! <3 PS This may not be anything specific but I truly believe people set themselves up for failure. That nothing is unlucky or a missed chance, but that people choose where their life leads. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2000 Report Share Posted March 31, 2000 What I did to help get bfing off to a good start Read read read everything you can get your hands on before you deliver. Put the baby to breast right after delivery and frequently after. Dont be afraid to ask for help if you are having trouble. Dont be too upset if everything does not work out while in the hospital. I found with my second she was not nursing well and was upset and gave in to the nurses suggestion to supplement Hope this helps a Wendi wrote: > As the list owner I have to ask that we bring the topic back around to > breastfeeding. I don't want hurt feelings and women leaving because of a > misunderstanding or miscommunication. I would greatly appreciate if we can > return to the supportive atmosphere that we are all here for. Maybe I can > redirect the conversation. I am working on an online class and booklet that > teaches breastfeeding basics. It will be geared towards those that really > don't know much about breastfeeding but I want it to be inclusive. I would > appreciate any suggestions or comments that you think would aid me putting > this together. What were the most important things that you learned about > breastfeeding that got you off to a good start? Thanks in advance. > > Wendi > http://www.lactivist.com > breastfeeding info & resources > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! > 1. Fill in the brief application > 2. Receive approval decision within 30 seconds > 3. Get rates as low as 2.9% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR > Apply NOW! > http://click./1/2646/0/_/410002/_/954462528/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Give the Gift of Life Breastfeed! > http://www.lactivist.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2000 Report Share Posted March 31, 2000 What I did to help get bfing off to a good start Read read read everything you can get your hands on before you deliver. Put the baby to breast right after delivery and frequently after. Dont be afraid to ask for help if you are having trouble. Dont be too upset if everything does not work out while in the hospital. I found with my second she was not nursing well and was upset and gave in to the nurses suggestion to supplement Hope this helps a Wendi wrote: > As the list owner I have to ask that we bring the topic back around to > breastfeeding. I don't want hurt feelings and women leaving because of a > misunderstanding or miscommunication. I would greatly appreciate if we can > return to the supportive atmosphere that we are all here for. Maybe I can > redirect the conversation. I am working on an online class and booklet that > teaches breastfeeding basics. It will be geared towards those that really > don't know much about breastfeeding but I want it to be inclusive. I would > appreciate any suggestions or comments that you think would aid me putting > this together. What were the most important things that you learned about > breastfeeding that got you off to a good start? Thanks in advance. > > Wendi > http://www.lactivist.com > breastfeeding info & resources > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! > 1. Fill in the brief application > 2. Receive approval decision within 30 seconds > 3. Get rates as low as 2.9% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR > Apply NOW! > http://click./1/2646/0/_/410002/_/954462528/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Give the Gift of Life Breastfeed! > http://www.lactivist.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2000 Report Share Posted March 31, 2000 Wendi, In response to your question about what most helped us get off to a good start with breastfeeding-----for me, it was just having a very strong attitude that this (breastfeeding) was 'how it was gonna be'. There just was no alternative for me, I knew my body was designed to do it and no matter what, I was going to achieve it for myself and my baby. I did not keep bottles or formula around, I educated myself through breastfeeding class, videos, friends who'd breastfed and books. I enlisted the support from my husband before the baby was born telling him that even if it doesn't get off to a smooth start (which for us thankfully it did) and if I'm feeling like I want to quit NOT to let me, to keep reminding me this is how we're going to nourish and nurture our baby (and anything else that I would need to hear to keep me encouraged to continue). Maybe this wasn't the type of answer you were looking for, it's nothing so concrete as a method or problem solving strategy. I also know there have been plenty of women who've also had the strong will and healthy attitude towards it but have unfortunately had some troubles. I just know for me that keeping the mindset that 'this is it' was probably the most help I gave myself and thank goodness I had a healthy, full term baby who was eager to nurse so it went off without a hitch! Hope my thoughts were helpful! Fawn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2000 Report Share Posted August 2, 2000 LOL too funny! I have heard about those bfing classes from my American friends, a lot of them got bad info as well as not much help... Michele I don't know how many are familiar with the WIC program. Just a brief overview for those that don't know what it is. It's a government program that provides supplementary food for pregnant women, breastfeeding women...infants and children. They provide things such as milk, eggs, cheese, juice, beans, cereal, pb, ..... ANYWAY...I have been going to wic now for about 9 years. I have breastfed all 6 of my boys and plan to this one. FINALLY....yesterday they told me I wouldn't be required to take their breastfeeding classes anymore:o) LOL....oh man...I wondered how long I would have to go and hear the same things... I even have a breastfeeding counselor...that has breastfed ONE...yes 1 child...ugh...PULEEEZEEE.... Anyway...one less thing I will have to think about. , Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2000 Report Share Posted August 2, 2000 LOL too funny! I have heard about those bfing classes from my American friends, a lot of them got bad info as well as not much help... Michele I don't know how many are familiar with the WIC program. Just a brief overview for those that don't know what it is. It's a government program that provides supplementary food for pregnant women, breastfeeding women...infants and children. They provide things such as milk, eggs, cheese, juice, beans, cereal, pb, ..... ANYWAY...I have been going to wic now for about 9 years. I have breastfed all 6 of my boys and plan to this one. FINALLY....yesterday they told me I wouldn't be required to take their breastfeeding classes anymore:o) LOL....oh man...I wondered how long I would have to go and hear the same things... I even have a breastfeeding counselor...that has breastfed ONE...yes 1 child...ugh...PULEEEZEEE.... Anyway...one less thing I will have to think about. , Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2000 Report Share Posted August 2, 2000 I've been on WIC in two different sates and to my knowledge neither one offered breastfeeding classes. And they certainly were not mandatory because I didn't take them. Even though it is not needed for you experienced nursing moms, I'm sure it is helpful to new mothers. Blithe > << esterday they told me I wouldn't be required to take their breastfeeding > classes anymore > > This is so funny, I have been doing wic for 14 years including pregnancy, and > they still make me go to the breastfeeding classes.. even thought I could > teach it!! > > thanks for bringing up about wic.. its a great program > Christi > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2000 Report Share Posted August 2, 2000 I've been on WIC in two different sates and to my knowledge neither one offered breastfeeding classes. And they certainly were not mandatory because I didn't take them. Even though it is not needed for you experienced nursing moms, I'm sure it is helpful to new mothers. Blithe > << esterday they told me I wouldn't be required to take their breastfeeding > classes anymore > > This is so funny, I have been doing wic for 14 years including pregnancy, and > they still make me go to the breastfeeding classes.. even thought I could > teach it!! > > thanks for bringing up about wic.. its a great program > Christi > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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