Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 Hey all, I was just looking thru my medical records from my pregnancy and resulting miscarriage (4-04). I was a little over 13 weeks pregnant and I hadn't yet found out what the sex of the baby was. My husband and I had talked soon after the m/c and had both felt at the time that we were happy we hadn't known the sex of the baby, as we felt it would be harder to cope. My OB did not tell us anything about the sex of the baby at the follow up appt after the m/c, just said that it was not grossly abnormal. Going thru the records today, I stumbled upon the sex of the baby (boy). I kind of figured it would be in there, and I was actually glad to finally know. So, now I am wondering if I should tell my husband I know, or if I should just let him go on thinking we will never know. I don't even want to mention it to him that I know, as I am afraid to upset him. At the same time, I feel like I have to tell someone. Has anyone else gone thru something like this, deciding whether or not to keep something from your spouse? Any suggestions? I know " communication is key " , but I am really afraid of upsetting him. Thanks. , 24, BU/SU?, 1 m/c Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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