Guest guest Posted November 12, 2004 Report Share Posted November 12, 2004 Tracey, Stay strong. I'll provide a couple of thoughts, some of which I suspect that you already know. Hopefully they are not too long. 1. I suspect that your husband does not complain and perhaps does not bring things up because, ignoring the cancer for a second, he is a 33 year old guy with pride. I suspect that his first priority continues to be (or he wishes it to be) to look after his family and in that role, he will try to insulate you just as I do with my family (I'm a 40 yr old stg IV). Yes, my wife calls behind my back and yes, I get a little upset when she does it, but only for 5 minutes or so. In fact, sometimes I'll ask her what the doc told her because she calls and asks questions that sometimes I do not ask. 2. PET Scans are done for restaging or evaluation of metastatic disease. Most doctors do not use them for routine screening - if you know where a tumor is, the CT Scan provides an adequate mechanism, usually, by which to evaluate progression. At some point in time, detection of further metastatic disease is relatively inconsequential - one is going to get the same systemic treatment no matter what. Further examination may actually do more harm than good in terms of stress. Bones are an exception - I think docs want to know when the disease gets into the bones, because it can be painful and unlike many other spots, radiation can help. At the same time though, I think that bone scans are equally appropriate, if not more appropriate, for detection of disease in the bones. 3. I do know for a fact that PET Scans are covered under medicare. I think if you feel strongly about it, and insist, you should be able to get one done. If you look around the web enough, you can even find the medicare billing code. 4. I don't think that being on medicare reduces coverage that much or puts you in a separate class of treatment. The fact that any insurance is anteing up the money for Avastin, which is very expensive, is indicative that you're still getting aggressive treatment. I am an active duty type, and my coverage is nothing more than a medicare equivalent. Although my doctor/facility choices are limited, I think that within that domain I do pretty well and have everything available. Welfare = Medicaid (not medicare) or no capability to pay at all. These are state programs. It is in these cases where people have to be admitted to ERs or wards in teaching hospitals to get treated, not medicare. Do you have to pay copays up front or entire bills? Copays are understandable. If it is otherwise, Perhaps a good discussion with the billing department can clear things up - if that doesn't work, maybe dropping a line to your local congressman will help. I don't think it should be that way. 5. As you know, cancer drugs are pretty strong stuff. Considering the potential consequences of not taking them, the side effects or risk has to be pretty elevated in order to justify witholding them for fear of damage, unless the patient specifically requests such. I think the same thing is true for Avastin. The two major side effects are hypertension and retardation or reversal of wound healing (for < 30 days after surgery). One would want to avoid it for wound healing, as the infection from a separated colon can kill you way before the cancer could. Hypertension, although it can lead to stroke or heart failure, can usually be controlled. Bottom line - if you are concerned about the risk of heart attack and think it is more serious than the risk of the cancer, pin down your doc and make him justify to you that he can keep the risk under control. Hope this helps. All the best. Joe http://www.cancerdaytoday.blogspot.com > > I have some questions about my husbands treatment. He is stage IV > colon cancer. He has fought this for four years now. He is only 33. > He has been on the normal regiments until he went through an > olyiplatin trial. now he is on avastin. He complains about a lot of > shoulder pain. He won't clarify if its the muscle or bone. he does > not want me to know. He has complained about hip and knee pain in the > past. He tells his Dr minimum details of what is wrong and gets mad > when I call up there. I think he is afraid to know. About two months > ago he had what sounded like a heart-attack. I called the Dr and they > sent him for testing. The results were " prolonged use of highly > dangerous chemicals " . they put him right back on the same regiment. > Could this not be a sign that he will have a life threatening heart- > attack if he keeps using the same meds? He had cat scans two weeks > ago. they showed no new growth or new points of concern. He has spots > on the pancreas and inflamed lypmh nodes in his stomach. We were > pleased that the results showed not changed. My problem is up until a > year and three months ago, he was getting pet scans. I know they show > much more clearly about what is going on. My husband went from good > insurance to none for three months , now he is on medicare. Now the > Dr makes us pay up front for each treatment. I am afraid they have > lowered his level of care so that they don't have to be out more > money on treating him. I feel like they treat him like a welfare > patient, and only do what they have to do. I am afraid it is in the > bone. I don't know that muscle pain or arthritis might be a coexsting > symptom with the meds he takes. I know that before a test he gets > very nervous but gets better when we get the results. this time he > has not calmed back down as quickly. I think he knows more than hes > telling. What do I do??? Are they just giving up on him??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 12, 2004 Report Share Posted November 12, 2004 I don't think they are giving up on him and I think you need to make sure they know his symptoms and definitely tell his Dr. about your concerns. Narice " As long as I know the WHO I can bear any HOW even though I don't know WHY " (Commentary on Job from Dialogue in Despair) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2004 Report Share Posted November 15, 2004 Thnks for your input. It does clarify a few things. I have two questions. First about the scans and bones. If he is getting cat scans, can they tell if cancer has spread to the bones? I didn't think so butI wasn't sure. and lastly Is forgetfulness a result of chemo. I am not talking about forgetting where he left his keys. But he will start a fight with me about something silly and then hours later forget he said anything?? He has always had a mind like a trap. He could remember tiny details from years ago, but now he can't remember conversations five minutes. not always but he does it often enough that I catch it but other people don't. Tracey --- In colon_cancer_support , " Joe " <jsulli8@n...> wrote: > > Tracey, > Stay strong. I'll provide a couple of thoughts, some of which I > suspect that you already know. Hopefully they are not too long. > > 1. I suspect that your husband does not complain and perhaps does > not bring things up because, ignoring the cancer for a second, he is > a 33 year old guy with pride. I suspect that his first priority > continues to be (or he wishes it to be) to look after his family and > in that role, he will try to insulate you just as I do with my > family (I'm a 40 yr old stg IV). Yes, my wife calls behind my back > and yes, I get a little upset when she does it, but only for 5 > minutes or so. In fact, sometimes I'll ask her what the doc told > her because she calls and asks questions that sometimes I do not ask. > > 2. PET Scans are done for restaging or evaluation of metastatic > disease. Most doctors do not use them for routine screening - if > you know where a tumor is, the CT Scan provides an adequate > mechanism, usually, by which to evaluate progression. At some point > in time, detection of further metastatic disease is relatively > inconsequential - one is going to get the same systemic treatment no > matter what. Further examination may actually do more harm than > good in terms of stress. Bones are an exception - I think docs want > to know when the disease gets into the bones, because it can be > painful and unlike many other spots, radiation can help. At the > same time though, I think that bone scans are equally appropriate, > if not more appropriate, for detection of disease in the bones. > > 3. I do know for a fact that PET Scans are covered under medicare. > I think if you feel strongly about it, and insist, you should be > able to get one done. If you look around the web enough, you can > even find the medicare billing code. > > 4. I don't think that being on medicare reduces coverage that much > or puts you in a separate class of treatment. The fact that any > insurance is anteing up the money for Avastin, which is very > expensive, is indicative that you're still getting aggressive > treatment. I am an active duty type, and my coverage is nothing > more than a medicare equivalent. Although my doctor/facility > choices are limited, I think that within that domain I do pretty > well and have everything available. Welfare = Medicaid (not > medicare) or no capability to pay at all. These are state > programs. It is in these cases where people have to be admitted to > ERs or wards in teaching hospitals to get treated, not medicare. Do > you have to pay copays up front or entire bills? Copays are > understandable. If it is otherwise, Perhaps a good discussion with > the billing department can clear things up - if that doesn't work, > maybe dropping a line to your local congressman will help. I don't > think it should be that way. > > 5. As you know, cancer drugs are pretty strong stuff. Considering > the potential consequences of not taking them, the side effects or > risk has to be pretty elevated in order to justify witholding them > for fear of damage, unless the patient specifically requests such. > I think the same thing is true for Avastin. The two major side > effects are hypertension and retardation or reversal of wound > healing (for < 30 days after surgery). One would want to avoid it > for wound healing, as the infection from a separated colon can kill > you way before the cancer could. Hypertension, although it can lead > to stroke or heart failure, can usually be controlled. Bottom line - > if you are concerned about the risk of heart attack and think it is > more serious than the risk of the cancer, pin down your doc and make > him justify to you that he can keep the risk under control. > > Hope this helps. All the best. > > Joe > > http://www.cancerdaytoday.blogspot.com > > > > > I have some questions about my husbands treatment. He is stage IV > > colon cancer. He has fought this for four years now. He is only > 33. > > He has been on the normal regiments until he went through an > > olyiplatin trial. now he is on avastin. He complains about a lot > of > > shoulder pain. He won't clarify if its the muscle or bone. he does > > not want me to know. He has complained about hip and knee pain in > the > > past. He tells his Dr minimum details of what is wrong and gets > mad > > when I call up there. I think he is afraid to know. About two > months > > ago he had what sounded like a heart-attack. I called the Dr and > they > > sent him for testing. The results were " prolonged use of highly > > dangerous chemicals " . they put him right back on the same > regiment. > > Could this not be a sign that he will have a life threatening > heart- > > attack if he keeps using the same meds? He had cat scans two weeks > > ago. they showed no new growth or new points of concern. He has > spots > > on the pancreas and inflamed lypmh nodes in his stomach. We were > > pleased that the results showed not changed. My problem is up > until a > > year and three months ago, he was getting pet scans. I know they > show > > much more clearly about what is going on. My husband went from > good > > insurance to none for three months , now he is on medicare. Now > the > > Dr makes us pay up front for each treatment. I am afraid they have > > lowered his level of care so that they don't have to be out more > > money on treating him. I feel like they treat him like a welfare > > patient, and only do what they have to do. I am afraid it is in > the > > bone. I don't know that muscle pain or arthritis might be a > coexsting > > symptom with the meds he takes. I know that before a test he gets > > very nervous but gets better when we get the results. this time he > > has not calmed back down as quickly. I think he knows more than > hes > > telling. What do I do??? 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Guest guest Posted November 15, 2004 Report Share Posted November 15, 2004 See below. Best - Joe > > > > > > I have some questions about my husbands treatment. He is stage > IV > > > colon cancer. He has fought this for four years now. He is only > > 33. > > > He has been on the normal regiments until he went through an > > > olyiplatin trial. now he is on avastin. He complains about a lot > > of > > > shoulder pain. He won't clarify if its the muscle or bone. he > does > > > not want me to know. He has complained about hip and knee pain > in > > the > > > past. He tells his Dr minimum details of what is wrong and gets > > mad > > > when I call up there. I think he is afraid to know. About two > > months > > > ago he had what sounded like a heart-attack. I called the Dr and > > they > > > sent him for testing. The results were " prolonged use of highly > > > dangerous chemicals " . they put him right back on the same > > regiment. > > > Could this not be a sign that he will have a life threatening > > heart- > > > attack if he keeps using the same meds? He had cat scans two > weeks > > > ago. they showed no new growth or new points of concern. He has > > spots > > > on the pancreas and inflamed lypmh nodes in his stomach. We were > > > pleased that the results showed not changed. My problem is up > > until a > > > year and three months ago, he was getting pet scans. I know they > > show > > > much more clearly about what is going on. My husband went from > > good > > > insurance to none for three months , now he is on medicare. Now > > the > > > Dr makes us pay up front for each treatment. I am afraid they > have > > > lowered his level of care so that they don't have to be out more > > > money on treating him. I feel like they treat him like a welfare > > > patient, and only do what they have to do. I am afraid it is in > > the > > > bone. I don't know that muscle pain or arthritis might be a > > coexsting > > > symptom with the meds he takes. I know that before a test he > gets > > > very nervous but gets better when we get the results. this time > he > > > has not calmed back down as quickly. I think he knows more than > > hes > > > telling. What do I do??? Are they just giving up on him??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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