Re: New to this group with a new email address

[Guest guest]

Who is the " they " you refer to that is sending your son to the state hospital

and what precipitated this?

Jean

[Guest guest]

Hello - I'm so sorry you're dealing with so much all at the same

time - stay strong. With your son - was there something that set the wheels

moving to reinstitution him? I'm not sure I understand what has occurred.

I wish the best for you.

k

New to this group with a new email address

I have a son who is 25 almost 26 and they are sending him back to our

State Mental Hospital where they have some support for Borderline

women and not men. They are sending him away for Xmas, his birthday.

I just can't bare this. He and his girl ( who is BiPolar) were doing

great and were going to spend their first xmas togethr. My son from

my first marriage, his father, ( narcissistic personality, and dry

drunk of 22 years) my current husband is drinking and I will be

leaving in Dec.

I don't want to leave but, he will not stop drinking.

Can't be with an active alcoholic and deal with my only child, adult

child and this illness.

Around the end of October Myself, son, and his girl went on a haunted

hayride, went out to eat, I stayed over as I live 1 hour away, we

played cards, talked, had a great time. I will always cherish that

moment because when the monster comes out, it is sooooooo painful.

The dr at the physch ward of our local hospital is just throwing him

away to this State Hospital for the second time. Between me trying to

get a second divorce, POA for my mother one hour away with the onset

of Alheimer's disease and my only adult child with this horrific

disorder .I myself have come close several times to suicide.

I am now disabled with Adjustment Disorder with Depressed Mood, better

known as PTSD.

Feeling so hopeless and not looking forward at all to the upcoming

holidays.

Is there anyone else out there in my position.

I just turned 50 this last summer and feel my life is just about over

anyway. I don't want to live another 20 years if my life has to be

like this.

in Pa

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[Guest guest]

, I am sorry you are going through so much. Just having a BP in

my family is more than enough. I have been wondering too, who can

force your son to go back to the hospital when he seemed to be doing

all right. So much about this illness is mysterious. I hope you are

taking care of yourself, and are under a doctor's care. Jean

>

>

> I have a son who is 25 almost 26 and they are sending him back to

our

> State Mental Hospital where they have some support for Borderline

> women and not men. They are sending him away for Xmas, his

birthday.

> I just can't bare this. He and his girl ( who is BiPolar) were

doing

> great and were going to spend their first xmas togethr. My son from

> my first marriage, his father, ( narcissistic personality, and dry

> drunk of 22 years) my current husband is drinking and I will be

> leaving in Dec.

> I don't want to leave but, he will not stop drinking.

> Can't be with an active alcoholic and deal with my only child, adult

> child and this illness.

> Around the end of October Myself, son, and his girl went on a

haunted

> hayride, went out to eat, I stayed over as I live 1 hour away, we

> played cards, talked, had a great time. I will always cherish that

> moment because when the monster comes out, it is sooooooo painful.

> The dr at the physch ward of our local hospital is just throwing him

> away to this State Hospital for the second time. Between me trying

to

> get a second divorce, POA for my mother one hour away with the onset

> of Alheimer's disease and my only adult child with this horrific

> disorder .I myself have come close several times to suicide.

> I am now disabled with Adjustment Disorder with Depressed Mood,

better

> known as PTSD.

> Feeling so hopeless and not looking forward at all to the upcoming

> holidays.

> Is there anyone else out there in my position.

> I just turned 50 this last summer and feel my life is just about

over

> anyway. I don't want to live another 20 years if my life has to be

> like this.

> in Pa