Re: feeling ashamed right now

[Guest guest]

Geez, Amy,

Been there, and learned the hard way that I couldnt help, mentally,

physcially, emotionally, financially.

You have been drained in every aspect. He's 22 years old. If you keep on

doing what you are doing, he will never move on, and you will have no life for

yourself. I did with mine in a different way at age 18. He's now 27 and he's

fine. Even now, once in a while asks for money, but I will only give money if

I know it is going for my grandson, and then I buy the things myself. I

dont' want to tell you what to do, but believe me,

it wont get any better doing for him the way you are. You gave it a shot

taking him back in and it didnt work.

He's got to take care of himself. AS long as you are there doing for him, he

wont, and even if you do, nothing you do will be good enough to him. I'm so

sorry about your mom, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care of

yourself first, or you will be doing nothing and going nowhere for your son.

Debbie