Re: Personal question on weird pain

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In a message dated 6/30/04 6:07:01 PM, VulvarDisorders writes:

<< But it only has happened three times, all three times when i was very

aroused and it passed in about 5-10 minutes. >>

My guess is that your Bartholin glands are usually inflamed and when you're

aroused some of the other glands in the area busy making lubrication are also

enlarged for awhile - which may makeyour Bartholin glands more prominent. It's

just a theory. But I've experienced something like what you're describing in

the past before I got the chronic inflammation in that area decreased.

What is the name of the book/author you're following for cleansing? There's

a woman on the vv list that is interested in reading the book.

Debbie

Tiger

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Hi

About an inch or so inside the vagina you have the pc muscle. The condition

vaginismus (which I have in top of my vulvar vestibulitis) is a condition where

you have a muscle spasm in this muscle which makes penetration extremely

painful and/or impossible.

I'm not sure that it is the muscle that makes this pain you're describing, with

a muscle spasm it hurts everywhere and the vagina tightens very much. But when

you're very aroused you probably contract this muscle without knowing it, most

women tighten these muscles without thinking about it when they are very

aroused and it also contracts during orgasm.

In my case my VV probably hurt me so much that my body started to contract this

muscle to " protect " the area, we always contract our muscles when it hurts.

Maybe you've been so sensitive that you clench your muscles without thinking

about it. Just as when someone tries to poke your eye, you blink. Or if someone

looks like they're going to slap you, you winch and jump backwards.

My suggestion... Try inserting a finger with lots of lube when you aren't

aroused and see how it feels. If you do find a specific spot inside your vagina

that hurts every time, I think you should see your gyno. But if you think it

can be a muscle thing, just work on getting it used to touching and you'll be

fine in no time.

Good luck!

/Sofia

--- C C wrote:

> Well, I have never asked this question to anyone with VV before and as

> outspoken as I think everyone now knows I am ;O) I am bluching just getting

> ready to ask. Not to be overly graphic, but has anyone ever when they got

> VERY aroused had pain just inside the vagina? Its that area if you put a

> finger just inside and you feel to the left or to the right and it feels like

> maybe a muscle there or somehting. I have had this happen three times so far.

> It will burn like hell! No pain like it there for me. Its AWFUL! God I know

> my face is so read. I know that if I push gently on that whatever it is just

> inside on the left side only, it hurts like that. Just in a section thats

> maybe dime size, but those three times this happened it was on both sides and

> it didnt need to be touched and wasnt touched. The pain was like a bad burn

> and was breath taking. I am wondering if the muscle (if thats what it is

> right there) tensed up very much like a spasm. I normally have no vaginal

> pain except for that

> little dime size area and I never notice that unless its touched like

> sometimes when I insert a tampon and not even everytime. ANyone else have

> this or know what may cause it. It only happened those times when I was

> extremely in the mood. *blush*

> Ok, TIA, I am going to go hide my face in embarrassment now.

> Candi~

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Shoot, 2 years ago I didnt know i even had glands there! LOL Its only happened a few times though so i dunno. Its probably nothing to worry about. dusty wrote:

Well, what is the function of Bartholin's. Are they intended to leak fluids during arousal to aide in penetration or something? If so, and they themselves are blocked or inflamed, perhaps arousal could then be painful?

Dusty

-----Original Message-----From: C C Sent: Wednesday, June 30, 2004 1:07 PMTo: VulvarDisorders Subject: Re: Re: Personal question on weird pain

But it only has happened three times, all three times when i was very aroused and it passed in about 5-10 minutes. TigerPurr1@... wrote: In a message dated 6/30/04 3:48:05 AM, VulvarDisorders writes:<< The pain was like a bad burn and was breath taking. I am wondering if the muscle (if thats what it is right there) tensed up very much like a spasm. I normally have no vaginal pain except for thatlittle dime size area and I never notice that unless its touched like sometimes when I insert a tampon and not even everytime. >>Inflamed Bartholin glands.DebbieTiger"Hey Tiger, quit bringing quotes from UC to the Bruce list!! :-)" - Jim G., 5/4/04 *****END OF MESSAGE/REMOVE WHEN REPLYING*****http://groups.yahoo.com/group/VulvarDisordersto search our archive or view our files.***

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Oh I know where my G spot is LOL It was found by the mostest gorgeous man ever on accident LOL He was proud of himself though This pain is on the left and the right when it happened. DTroll wrote:

HI Candi,

My G spot is only about a knuckles length inside, LOL (as you mentioned the pain being only that far in) and then you make the letter C towards the front and it's definitely there. They say that's why men can easily miss it, thinking it's much further up. But it's not painful either for me.

Of course it enlarges considerably the longer the session goes *chuckle* Not saying it's your G spot hon, but since it's only when aroused it was a thought PLUS you saying it goes away in 10-15 minutes afterwards, yep, sounds like blue balls, to 'me' that is, *chuckle* as that's how it works with men too.

But might be the bartholins too since you mentioned being on the sides and maybe swollen when having sex or vaginismus where that muscle tenses up with fear of pain with penetration. Only your doctor knows for sure..

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