Re: New Here...

[Guest guest]

KJ,

Welcome to the group. I am soo sorry you had to find us, but you will find

great comfort and support here.

I had an ep on 8/31/00 and lost my right tube. Without this group, I'd

have gone crazy. Your post was not long or whiney, just honest and full of

feeling. I too felt like I failed my baby, but have come to learn and

accept that it was NOT my fault (or yours) and that it happens.. not much of

a comfort now, but I promise you it does get better...

Sorry it took me so long to reply. If you need to " chat " feel free to

email me at : tigger89@...

That goes for anyone here!!

lisa r

T.T.F.N.

[Guest guest]

KJ,

I'd like to throttle people sometimes with the " stupid' comments they throw

out at us.

I have no children yet, but if one more person says " well, you're still

young (31 almost 32) or it's in God's time (as if I don't that ) I am

going to lose it!! It's always the people that have had to no problems

getting pg or accidentally got pg that say this to me... as if they could

ever understand my pain. I do know that they are trying to help, but from

my experience lately, I find the help in " tuning " them out!!

lisa r

T.T.F.N.

[Guest guest]

KJ,

Try to hang in there girl. I am sending you some strength and faith your

way ::::::::: feel it??!! I can't believe they put you on the maternity

ward. Thankfully they didn't do that to me. I am soo sorry for your loss

and pain. I hope you are feeling better soon and your wound heals quickly.

lisa r

T.T.F.N.