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Yet I think there are many (some?) believers who cannot accept XA because the

God explicitly described in AA is not the one they believe in.

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>What's the measure of intelligence? Intelligence is the ability to

>acquire and apply knowledge.

>

>For some reason, in the US, we equate intelligence with education.

>One would think that there is a correlation, sometimes, between

>education and a certain level of intelligence but that doesn't

>necessarily make education the be all and end all in intelligence.

>

>How does a degree in Information systems, dental hygiene, agriculture

>or accounting correlate to being better able to answer the questions

>of life the universe and everything? They don't. What they do is

>confer a certain level of knowledge in the given field. So why do we

>automatically assume someone holding a degree is more intelligent

>then someone with a high school diploma? I've never understood this.

>

>Does holding a degree in agriculture render someone immune to XA? I

>would think not. But a degree in psychology might or at least you

>might think it would. And yet it doesn't always.

>

>Here's what I think.

>

>I think there are a hell of a lot of intelligent people in XA just

>like there are a lot of ignorant dumbasses. What I believe they both

>have in common is a susceptibility to faith based belief systems.*

>In other words if you believe in God you have an increased risk of

>falling for XA hook line and sinker. The risk grows proportionately

>with the level of your belief in that god and application of that

>belief in your everyday life. That's why I believe, the HP thing is

>so critical. Paramount for the atheist's in the rewms is to get a

>god. If they don't have a god don't worry because they'll help them

>create one for themselves. Only for as long as it takes to wean them

>off that god onto the real god.

>

>If you don't have faith in something outside yourself how can you

>hope to overcome the addiction? At least that's the reasoning that

>seems to come out of XA. (This line of reasoning also contributes

>immeasurably to the defeatist mentality in the rewms but that's

>fodder for another thread.) Except they twist and turn that faith

>into something that is unrecognizably ugly by the time it's all over.

>The AA god is an incredibly anal god who's only purpose is to protect

>AA's from themselves. That in my books is as ugly as it gets.

>

>XA's anti intellectual atmosphere uses that faith to block the

>acquisition and application of knowledge by it's members to keep

>them, not only from discerning the XA rat for what it is but that

>they're an integral part of that rat.

>

>

>* By way of explanation I see belief in god as a willingness to

>suspend your own critical thinking ability in favor of a belief

>system which acts and reacts based on faith vice cold hard facts.

>This trait is then subverted by XA to further it's own ends which of

>course is XA itself. Please note that I am not making any judgements

>as to the rightness or wrongness of believing in a god.

>

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Hi;

Wanted to take a minute to answer this question.

Sometimes I do. Mostly I don't. But here's the weird thing. When I

was drinking the drunker I got the more I believed. But when I was

sober again I was back to the on again off again relationship.

Mostly off.

Weird ain't it?

Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

I wonder how many people on this list believe in God?

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I believe in something " greater than me " ....I refer to her as God too. I

saw " the light of love " when I crossed over at age 4ish. By that I know

there's something beyond " man's religion " , religion, in many respects, is

another form of a cult. I cringe when someone starts preaching their

interpretation of man's relationship with Her.

Carol S.

Re: AA and suicide

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > I agree totally. I also believe that most people are brainwashed

> > > from birth

> > > to accept (or at least not publicly contradict) belief in a " God " .

> > > That's

> > > why I don't necessarily initailly correlate a lower IQ to a person

> > > who

> > > expresses a casual belief in a " God " . (What the H---, it doesn't

> > > maked a

> > > d--- bit of dif, and it's very unpopular to express disbelief!!!)

> > > Also gets you into totally unproductive arguments with theists.

> > >

> > > Step 1 is the beginning of the end. Powerlessness is the beginning,

> > > if not

> > > the essence, of depression. Depression causes suicide.

> > >

> > > That's my story and I'm stickin' to it.

> > >

> > > Charlene

> > >

> > >

> > > Hi Welcome to my Mind,

> > > I think that

> > > Brain empty,

> > > Cheers,

> > > Carol

> > >

> > >

> > >

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I think you are obscuring what is overall a really bad situation for

poor immigrants. ly, it isn't the Border patrolman that are

dying

now, it's the immigrants. Over 300 people die every year trying to

cross the border. Women report being raped by the border patrol.

Untold numbers report being beaten. In fact, was an open policy of

deterence by the border patrol to break limbs of people the caught.

sick, i know. I'm not gonna be defensive and say, " Oh, my god, you're

so right. Those poor Border Patrolmen have it so rough. " Please.

Referencing some threat made against the Border Patrol next to the

actual reality of death, rape, brutality and murder is

well...ridiculous. That's like saying, " yeah, slavery sucks, but what

about all the vicious attacks against the overseers and slave owners? "

Any day you can turn on the tv and find out what a rough job cops

have. I live in LA so I know that it must really suck for them to

have

to plant evidence on people, lie against them in court, shoot people

and leave them to die, have people deported because they have

witnessed police crimes and on and on. If the RAMPARTS scandal hadn't

come out you may say I was exagerating. nope. that's really what

happens.

I would think you might have more to say about the actual Ku Klux

KLan

calling people to the border to murder immigrants. OH MY GOD!!! Isn't

that one of the most heinous things you've ever heard of? And no, not

just an idle threat on the part of the Klan (who we know does more

than threaten). People have already turned up dead and lynched. Yep.

lynched.

Not trying to get down on you, but...geeze, what's up with that. Take

a look around.

k

> > > Oh.... really Mike?

> > > It's populated with a bunch of dumbasses who can't even figure

out

> > that

> > > praying is religious and powerlessness is a weakness. It's a

bunch

> > of people

> > > who can't realize that their actions are their own

responsibility

> > and not a

> > > God's. Almost without exception, AAers are the biggest morons

this

> > side of

> > > brain-dead. Your statement is the kind of observations that

cause

> > people to

> > > call for your being booted off this list. Don't get me wrong,

Mike,

> > I like

> > > you and I don't want you booted. But this kind of statement

flies

> > in

> > the

> > > face of what is revealed when you engage AAers in discussion

which

> > is not

> > > composed of dumb-ass slogans. Let's be clear about one thing- AA

> > sucks and

> > > most of it's adherents are too stupid to engage in a real

> > conversation.

> > > ----- Original Message -----

> > > From: <MikeknapNY@w...>

> > >

> > > > I don't think that the people who go to AA are any more

smarter or

> > > > dumber than the general population.

> >

> >

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Then there's 'street sense'. I don't know exactly how to define it but it

seems to me that it is someone who has fine tuned their ability to read

people, and has a sense and ability to survive whatever life throws at them.

jan

RE: [RE: AA and suicide]

> , this is exactly what I wanted to say! Education does NOT equal

> intelligence. I see education as what the Wizard of Oz gave to the

> Scarecrow: a diploma, a symbol that means something to the person who

earned

> it.

>

> I have a college degree. It took me 21 years to get it. When I was 35, 9

> months after my hysterectomy, I quit my job and went back to school

> full-time to finish. (Think about these numbers: 21 is the " normal " age

for

> someone to graduate college, if they took 4 years. 9 months is the term of

> pregnancy. It's significant to me.)

>

> At that point, I was more depressed, more afraid of suicide, and it

colored

> the way I made choices. I thought, if my greatest health risk right now is

> my own behavior, then why am I so uptight about continuing to be

mainstream?

> Why do I have to stay at a job I don't like? Why don't I do now what I

have

> wanted to do all my life? So I did.

>

> And I admit, I learned some good stuff in college. It's not just the books

> you read or the work you do, it's being in an environment where critical

> thinking and creativity are the most highly prized qualities, followed

> closely by strong discipline.

>

> But see, when I was a kid, even though we were working class and my

parents

> didn't put a whole lot of value on higher education, I grew up with books

> and music and antiques and art. Work was always the highest priority, but

> intelligence was expected.

>

> And I have to say this too. Being in AA, where the values were reversed

from

> my whole life up till then, I began to feel dumb. I began to feel that

> everything I liked about myself was false. And getting my degree, 10 years

> later, was a way of refuting that. A deprogramming exercise.

>

> Judith

>

>

>

> > What's the measure of intelligence? Intelligence is the ability to

> > acquire and apply knowledge.

> >

> > For some reason, in the US, we equate intelligence with education.

> > One would think that there is a correlation, sometimes, between

> > education and a certain level of intelligence but that doesn't

> > necessarily make education the be all and end all in intelligence.

>

>

>

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A while back on Talk of the Nation (its on public radio in the afternoon)

they had a show about self-education. I've heard that it was in the 60s and

70s that a lot of occupations began to require a college education. Prior to

that, people would start out at the bottom and experience was more important

than education. That has to explain why some people with no confidence or

leadership ability get into positions where they manage a lot of people.

anyway, I think self education is the thing. You can tell when someone has

an active mind. There are a lot of ways to learn; only one or 2 of them are

ever tested in a formal setting. But you can tell people who are smart,

regardless of what area(s) they are smart in.

Then there are people who are mentally handicapped in some way, but can play

piano without lessons or some other skill. Brains are funny things.

Judith

> Then there's 'street sense'. I don't know exactly how to define it but

it

> seems to me that it is someone who has fine tuned their ability to read

> people, and has a sense and ability to survive whatever life throws at

them.

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I recall hearing a news report yesterday that some guy is offering $10,000

to shoot border patrolmen. That's not very nice either.

jan

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> Hey there Bob,

>

> Biggest Morons this side of brain dead. Really. Not nazis or white

> supremacists. Not rapists. Not the nice guys who bombed more than

> 150,000 Iraqis into oblivion? There's yahoos right now in Arizona

> calling on vigilantes to shoot mexicans down trying to cross the

> border. Perhaps they are more moronic. Nooooo. Not to fat cats who

> cut

> single moms off welfare and try to pass off ketchup as a vegetable in

> school lunches? Remeber that? Were they " this side of brain dead " ?

> How

> about the district attorneys who won't let guys out of prison even

> though they've been exonerated by DNA tests? Or those all american

> boys who beat that gay kid to death. TO DEATH. What about those cops

> in NY shot Amadou Diallo 41 times and said at their trial, " Well, it

> was dark and cold... "

> Hey, there, Bob, what kind of world do you live where AA'ers are the

> MOST moronic? Must be nice...

>

> k

>

>

>

>

> > Oh.... really Mike?

> > It's populated with a bunch of dumbasses who can't even figure out

> that

> > praying is religious and powerlessness is a weakness. It's a bunch

> of people

> > who can't realize that their actions are their own responsibility

> and not a

> > God's. Almost without exception, AAers are the biggest morons this

> side of

> > brain-dead. Your statement is the kind of observations that cause

> people to

> > call for your being booted off this list. Don't get me wrong, Mike,

> I like

> > you and I don't want you booted. But this kind of statement flies

> in

> the

> > face of what is revealed when you engage AAers in discussion which

> is not

> > composed of dumb-ass slogans. Let's be clear about one thing- AA

> sucks and

> > most of it's adherents are too stupid to engage in a real

> conversation.

> > ----- Original Message -----

> > From: <MikeknapNY@w...>

> >

> > > I don't think that the people who go to AA are any more smarter or

> > > dumber than the general population.

>

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KM

AA " philosophy " =

" Believe in nothing here but don't worry, the group will give you a moving

joy-base so long as you don't rock the boat (which unfortunately means

" accepting " moral thuggery) "

-- if you follow my drift. Real prayer as you describe it is nothing you

get at the group or leave there. We are all ourselves most truly before

God.

Yours,

.

>

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>To: 12-step-freeegroups

>Subject: Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

>Date: Mon, 05 Jun 2000 16:38:05 -0000

>

>

>This is kinda funny. Why would people drawn into AA have less

>education than say, Christians or Jews or Muslims or anybody who

>believes all that hocus pocus in the Bible or Tora or Koran or

>whatever else? I wonder how many people on this list believe in God?

>I do worry that my association with AA will lead me down the path of

>believing in nothing. Whatever is good about AA is because of the

>people involved taking up the steps and principles. Whatever is bad

>is

>probably from the same thing.

> The group I belong to is really into action -- play softball, call

>people up, go out for coffee -- whatever you do don't sit home

>contemplating your navel. The difference from regular life is that

>people understand that folks coming around off of drinking or drug

>problems need help to get involved. You think you can't do anything

>without using so you gotta get some help from your friends to see

>that

>you can have fun and interact with people without mind altering

>substances.

>Don't get me wrong. I'm not a perfect atheist. I get down on my knees

>and express gratitude for the people in my life, etc. But I know that

>no matter how much you pray -- nobody is gonna reach down their hand

>to do a damned thing from the sky. If that was true then what about

>all the starving people in the world. i think for me it's a why of

>being quiet and having some perspective and gratitude..just rambling.

>

>k

>

>

>

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> > Charlene:

> >

> > Never really connected powerlessness with the beginning of

>depression

> > and with my personal background that amazes me.

> >

> > I'm stickin to your story to.

> >

> > Re: AA and suicide

> >

> >

> >

> > I agree totally. I also believe that most people are brainwashed

> > from birth

> > to accept (or at least not publicly contradict) belief in a " God " .

> > That's

> > why I don't necessarily initailly correlate a lower IQ to a person

> > who

> > expresses a casual belief in a " God " . (What the H---, it doesn't

> > maked a

> > d--- bit of dif, and it's very unpopular to express disbelief!!!)

> > Also gets you into totally unproductive arguments with theists.

> >

> > Step 1 is the beginning of the end. Powerlessness is the beginning,

> > if not

> > the essence, of depression. Depression causes suicide.

> >

> > That's my story and I'm stickin' to it.

> >

> > Charlene

> >

> >

> > Hi Welcome to my Mind,

> > I think that

> > Brain empty,

> > Cheers,

> > Carol

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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, this to me is like quoting the Big Book to someone in 12stepfree.

If I don't accept the Big Book as " gospel " , it loses its use as a source to

convince me of my foolishness.

>

> " The fool hath said in his heart, " There is no God " " , Psalms 14:1, 53:1.

>

>Yours,

>

>.

>

>

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Right, Doug. After all, God Must have a penis. What do females have to do

with creation, after all?

>

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>To: 12-step-freeegroups

>Subject: Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

>Date: Wed, 07 Jun 2000 14:09:00 GMT

>

>Cool God, shame about the pronoun!

>

>.

>

>

> >

> >Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

> >To: <12-step-freeegroups>

> >Subject: Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

> >Date: Tue, 6 Jun 2000 20:50:56 -0400

> >

> >I believe in something " greater than me " ....I refer to her as God too. I

> >saw " the light of love " when I crossed over at age 4ish. By that I know

> >there's something beyond " man's religion " , religion, in many respects, is

> >another form of a cult. I cringe when someone starts preaching their

> >interpretation of man's relationship with Her.

> >

> >Carol S.

> >

> > Re: AA and suicide

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > I agree totally. I also believe that most people are brainwashed

> > > > > from birth

> > > > > to accept (or at least not publicly contradict) belief in a " God " .

> > > > > That's

> > > > > why I don't necessarily initailly correlate a lower IQ to a person

> > > > > who

> > > > > expresses a casual belief in a " God " . (What the H---, it doesn't

> > > > > maked a

> > > > > d--- bit of dif, and it's very unpopular to express disbelief!!!)

> > > > > Also gets you into totally unproductive arguments with theists.

> > > > >

> > > > > Step 1 is the beginning of the end. Powerlessness is the

>beginning,

> > > > > if not

> > > > > the essence, of depression. Depression causes suicide.

> > > > >

> > > > > That's my story and I'm stickin' to it.

> > > > >

> > > > > Charlene

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > Hi Welcome to my Mind,

> > > > > I think that

> > > > > Brain empty,

> > > > > Cheers,

> > > > > Carol

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

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Cool God, shame about the pronoun!

.

>

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>To: <12-step-freeegroups>

>Subject: Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

>Date: Tue, 6 Jun 2000 20:50:56 -0400

>

>I believe in something " greater than me " ....I refer to her as God too. I

>saw " the light of love " when I crossed over at age 4ish. By that I know

>there's something beyond " man's religion " , religion, in many respects, is

>another form of a cult. I cringe when someone starts preaching their

>interpretation of man's relationship with Her.

>

>Carol S.

>

> Re: AA and suicide

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > I agree totally. I also believe that most people are brainwashed

> > > > from birth

> > > > to accept (or at least not publicly contradict) belief in a " God " .

> > > > That's

> > > > why I don't necessarily initailly correlate a lower IQ to a person

> > > > who

> > > > expresses a casual belief in a " God " . (What the H---, it doesn't

> > > > maked a

> > > > d--- bit of dif, and it's very unpopular to express disbelief!!!)

> > > > Also gets you into totally unproductive arguments with theists.

> > > >

> > > > Step 1 is the beginning of the end. Powerlessness is the beginning,

> > > > if not

> > > > the essence, of depression. Depression causes suicide.

> > > >

> > > > That's my story and I'm stickin' to it.

> > > >

> > > > Charlene

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Hi Welcome to my Mind,

> > > > I think that

> > > > Brain empty,

> > > > Cheers,

> > > > Carol

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

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> > > >

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Spoken like a gentleman, Bob. " It works if . . . " , but let's not mock the

afflicted.

yours,

.

>

>Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

>To: <12-step-freeegroups>

>Subject: Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

>Date: Mon, 5 Jun 2000 22:21:10 -0400

>

>Oh.... really Mike?

>It's populated with a bunch of dumbasses who can't even figure out that

>praying is religious and powerlessness is a weakness. It's a bunch of

>people

>who can't realize that their actions are their own responsibility and not a

>God's. Almost without exception, AAers are the biggest morons this side of

>brain-dead. Your statement is the kind of observations that cause people to

>call for your being booted off this list. Don't get me wrong, Mike, I like

>you and I don't want you booted. But this kind of statement flies in the

>face of what is revealed when you engage AAers in discussion which is not

>composed of dumb-ass slogans. Let's be clear about one thing- AA sucks and

>most of it's adherents are too stupid to engage in a real conversation.

>----- Original Message -----

>

>

> > I don't think that the people who go to AA are any more smarter or

> > dumber than the general population.

>

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KM

-- we are all still " AA-related " if we feel our reason for being in this

group is " having a problem " . Personally, I extend free choice to NOT having

a problem (unless something's bothering me),

Yours,

.

>

>Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

>To: 12-step-freeegroups

>Subject: Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

>Date: Tue, 06 Jun 2000 01:36:16 -0000

>

>Hey Janice,

>

> Sorry if I made you defensive. I guess I was trying to make a

>point. I doubt that most people will have a problem with you

>believing

>in God. Most people do. It's not spontaneous, though, like it was

>back

>in the day before people knew how things worked. Back in the day it

>rained and people wondered why. They thought God did it. Now we know

>why it rains so alot more effort has to go into getting people to

>think stuff is happening through some all knowing higher power deal.

> Maybe my point was going towards an idea that even folks in this

>group aren't making all that radical of a departure from AA. It seems

>that if folks relied less on the whole God or Higher Power deal in AA

>then perhaps the human beings in the groups would have to be more

>accountable for their actions.

>

>sorry for rambling

>

>k

>

> > > >

> > > > > ---------------------------------------------

> > > > > Attachment:

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> > > > Charlene:

> > > >

> > > > Never really connected powerlessness with the beginning of

> > > depression

> > > > and with my personal background that amazes me.

> > > >

> > > > I'm stickin to your story to.

> > > >

> > > > Re: AA and suicide

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > I agree totally. I also believe that most people are

>brainwashed

> > > > from birth

> > > > to accept (or at least not publicly contradict) belief in a

> " God " .

> > > > That's

> > > > why I don't necessarily initailly correlate a lower IQ to a

>person

> > > > who

> > > > expresses a casual belief in a " God " . (What the H---, it

>doesn't

> > > > maked a

> > > > d--- bit of dif, and it's very unpopular to express

>disbelief!!!)

> > > > Also gets you into totally unproductive arguments with theists.

> > > >

> > > > Step 1 is the beginning of the end. Powerlessness is the

>beginning,

> > > > if not

> > > > the essence, of depression. Depression causes suicide.

> > > >

> > > > That's my story and I'm stickin' to it.

> > > >

> > > > Charlene

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Hi Welcome to my Mind,

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> > > > Cheers,

> > > > Carol

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Disagree -- this group is substantially opposed to AA/NA/stepNazis Anon, and

to these doubtful bodies the concept of " god " /HP is utterly central. It is

a therefore a prime concern of the group to refer debate to the discursive

" god zone " (theology, theophany, etc.),

.

>From: MikeknapNY@...

>Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

>To: 12-step-freeegroups

>Subject: Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

>Date: Mon, 5 Jun 2000 23:01:25 -0400 (EDT)

>

>Jan:

>

>This group is 12 step` free which is not the same thing at all of being

>God free. I am fairly new on the list, (although sometimes I feel I've

>been here a lot longer) 'I'm assuming and I hope correctly, that people

>on this list respect others religious beliefs, or lack of religious

>beliefs. I don't believe atheism is one of the requirements of the list.

>

>I have made it clear that I believe in God, in fact one thing that

>bothered me about 12 step groups is there is quite a lot of religion

>bashing, so many of the supposedly " spiritual giants " , have no problem

>attacking someone whose belief in God is more conventional than the

>Deism or Theism that has become in a lot of places, the 12 step

>religion!

>

>

>Just my opinion Jan, but whatever ones belief in God is or isn't, is

>about as important to this group as whether a member is a Liberal or

>Conservative.

>

>

>Originally Mikena@...

>

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Then at least you wouldn't be a tosser.

.

>From: MikeknapNY@...

>Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

>To: 12-step-freeegroups

>Subject: Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

>Date: Tue, 6 Jun 2000 00:07:35 -0400 (EDT)

>

>So Joe, are you saying that people who believe in God are somehow less

>intelligent or more naive than the atheist.

>

>And Joe let me tell you something. If anyone wants to throw me off the

>list because I said there is nothing wrong in believing in God than I

>would consider it a badge of honor to be tossed.

>

>What an intolerant tirade!!

>

>

>Originally Mikena@...

>

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Dear ,

" The risk grows proportionately with the level of your belief in that god

and application of that belief in your everyday life. " -- you say you are

not making judgement as to the rightness of belief in " god " , but if what you

say in the above sentence is the case then it's not a good thing to be

religiously susceptible.

" The AA god is an incredibly anal god who's only purpose is to protect

AA's from themselves " -- and him/herself? Good deal?

" The fool hath said in his heart, " There is no God " " , Psalms 14:1, 53:1.

Yours,

.

>

>Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

>To: <12-step-freeegroups>

>Subject: RE: [RE: AA and suicide]

>Date: Mon, 5 Jun 2000 23:28:41 -0500

>

>

>What's the measure of intelligence? Intelligence is the ability to

>acquire and apply knowledge.

>

>For some reason, in the US, we equate intelligence with education.

>One would think that there is a correlation, sometimes, between

>education and a certain level of intelligence but that doesn't

>necessarily make education the be all and end all in intelligence.

>

>How does a degree in Information systems, dental hygiene, agriculture

>or accounting correlate to being better able to answer the questions

>of life the universe and everything? They don't. What they do is

>confer a certain level of knowledge in the given field. So why do we

>automatically assume someone holding a degree is more intelligent

>then someone with a high school diploma? I've never understood this.

>

>Does holding a degree in agriculture render someone immune to XA? I

>would think not. But a degree in psychology might or at least you

>might think it would. And yet it doesn't always.

>

>Here's what I think.

>

>I think there are a hell of a lot of intelligent people in XA just

>like there are a lot of ignorant dumbasses. What I believe they both

>have in common is a susceptibility to faith based belief systems.*

>In other words if you believe in God you have an increased risk of

>falling for XA hook line and sinker. The risk grows proportionately

>with the level of your belief in that god and application of that

>belief in your everyday life. That's why I believe, the HP thing is

>so critical. Paramount for the atheist's in the rewms is to get a

>god. If they don't have a god don't worry because they'll help them

>create one for themselves. Only for as long as it takes to wean them

>off that god onto the real god.

>

>If you don't have faith in something outside yourself how can you

>hope to overcome the addiction? At least that's the reasoning that

>seems to come out of XA. (This line of reasoning also contributes

>immeasurably to the defeatist mentality in the rewms but that's

>fodder for another thread.) Except they twist and turn that faith

>into something that is unrecognizably ugly by the time it's all over.

>The AA god is an incredibly anal god who's only purpose is to protect

>AA's from themselves. That in my books is as ugly as it gets.

>

>XA's anti intellectual atmosphere uses that faith to block the

>acquisition and application of knowledge by it's members to keep

>them, not only from discerning the XA rat for what it is but that

>they're an integral part of that rat.

>

>

>* By way of explanation I see belief in god as a willingness to

>suspend your own critical thinking ability in favor of a belief

>system which acts and reacts based on faith vice cold hard facts.

>This trait is then subverted by XA to further it's own ends which of

>course is XA itself. Please note that I am not making any judgements

>as to the rightness or wrongness of believing in a god.

>

>

> Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

>

>At 22:21 05/06/00 -0400, you wrote:

> >Oh.... really Mike?

> >It's populated with a bunch of dumbasses who can't even figure out

>that

> >praying is religious and powerlessness is a weakness. It's a bunch

>of people

> >who can't realize that their actions are their own responsibility

>and not a

> >God's. Almost without exception, AAers are the biggest morons this

>side of

> >brain-dead. Your statement is the kind of observations that cause

>people to

> >call for your being booted off this list. Don't get me wrong, Mike,

>I like

> >you and I don't want you booted. But this kind of statement flies in

>the

> >face of what is revealed when you engage AAers in discussion which

>is not

> >composed of dumb-ass slogans. Let's be clear about one thing- AA

>sucks and

> >most of it's adherents are too stupid to engage in a real

>conversation.

> >----- Original Message -----

> >

> >

> > > I don't think that the people who go to AA are any more smarter

>or

> > > dumber than the general population.

>

>I'd like to add something here. Like some others on this list I have

>been

>on both sides of this particular fence; several years as a true

>believer

>followed by several years as a person scratching his head, realising

>it was

>all nonsense and wondering how he could have possibly believed all

>that.

>

>I knew a number of very intelligent people in my time as a stepper. I

>agree that the intelligence of the AA/NA membership is about the

>same as

>the population as a whole- it might even be higher. The thing is, if

>you

>are a cult member, you are trained not to use the intelligence you

>have-

>you are trained not to think too deeply about certain things, and to

>accept

>certain " truths " . This is altogether a different problem from not

>having

>the wits to think about those things if you decided to try. It is

>more a

>question of what beliefs the person has than their potential

>computing

>power. If you believe that it is dangerous to question certain ideas,

>then

>even as an intelligent person you will still appear to have good

>reason to

>not question them.

>

>This is what is dangerous about cults- they do not only attract

>stupid

>people, If that was all their membership was, we would not have the

>present

>crazy situation.

>

>Joe B.

>

>

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One of the most futile efforts is for a believer is to convince an atheist

there is a God, and for an atheist to convince a believer there is no God.

Understandably, members of both groups resent it when someone of the other

group suggests books etc. that will help the other person " see the light! "

I have always been bothered by the arrogance of *some* atheists, who project

a patronizing attitude towards believers and are certain beyond a doubt that

" these superstitious religious fools just aren't bright enough to

understand. " Of course, it is well documented that certain fundamentalist

religions have as their goal to " open up the minds " of the nonbelievers.

I Agree with whoever said that many religious people do not let their

religion get in the way of what they see as a violation of the " establishment

of religion classes, " or anything else that tries to knock down that wall of

separation.

I'm just thinking back to the good old days of the Warren Court. Ah! What a

time it was for liberals who wanted to incorporate the Bill of Rights visa

via the fourteenth amendment, and the marvelous decisions usually on the side

of liberty and freedom and against tyranny and repression.

From all the reading I have done on the court, it is generally assumed that

the most important person was n, appointed by President

Eisenhower who also appointed Earl Warren. In later years Eisenhower said

that Warren and n were his 2 BIGGEST MISTAKES!

In fact, when n retired from the court, the conservative Bible

" National Review " dedicated an issue to n. The gist of it was that

Brennan by the way he used the court to bring about change in the late 50s

and sixties and even in later years as it turned increasingly conservative,

he was able to hold his own because he was likable, trustworthy and a

consensus builder.

Why the buildup for Brennan? On just about every issue he sided with

the people against government. He expanded freedom. In a case called Grisworld

V. Connecticut, he stuck down a law that made it illegal to sell condoms in

Connecticut even to married people. He was in the majority in Roe V. Wade. In

his last years he come to the conclusion that all speech must be protected,

even pornography.

Oh, a very important thing about the man. He was a devout Roman Catholic who

went to mass and communion every day. It is obvious from the kind of

decisions he wrote, that his religion, especially the Catholic rigidity over

abortion and birth control did not effect how he acted when he put on his

robes.

So who knows. Maybe when he put on his robes he tapped into some secret power

that removed his " gullibility " about religion so he could be more in line

with the intelligentsia who find it perfectly acceptable to mock someone's

religious beliefs.

There are two areas, religion and politics that can put up a wall between

members on the list, who probably agree with each other on most issues.

In the case of religion and politics being brought into a group where

everyone is at different stages of growth and is looking for consensus not

debates on something that is unprovable anyway, the AA slogan " Live and let

live " could not be more appropriate.

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It is not a happy thing to think on the wrongs done in the name of

Authority. A favourite of mine is the statement by a British Army spokeman

in reply to the allegation that the casualties on Bloody

Sunday had been " innocent " : " Innocent is a civilian word " .

Thanks for a feeling post.

.

>

>Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

>To: 12-step-freeegroups

>Subject: Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

>Date: Tue, 06 Jun 2000 19:37:19 -0000

>

>Hey there Bob,

>

>Biggest Morons this side of brain dead. Really. Not nazis or white

>supremacists. Not rapists. Not the nice guys who bombed more than

>150,000 Iraqis into oblivion? There's yahoos right now in Arizona

>calling on vigilantes to shoot mexicans down trying to cross the

>border. Perhaps they are more moronic. Nooooo. Not to fat cats who

>cut

>single moms off welfare and try to pass off ketchup as a vegetable in

>school lunches? Remeber that? Were they " this side of brain dead " ?

>How

>about the district attorneys who won't let guys out of prison even

>though they've been exonerated by DNA tests? Or those all american

>boys who beat that gay kid to death. TO DEATH. What about those cops

>in NY shot Amadou Diallo 41 times and said at their trial, " Well, it

>was dark and cold... "

>Hey, there, Bob, what kind of world do you live where AA'ers are the

>MOST moronic? Must be nice...

>

>k

>

>

>

>

> > Oh.... really Mike?

> > It's populated with a bunch of dumbasses who can't even figure out

>that

> > praying is religious and powerlessness is a weakness. It's a bunch

>of people

> > who can't realize that their actions are their own responsibility

>and not a

> > God's. Almost without exception, AAers are the biggest morons this

>side of

> > brain-dead. Your statement is the kind of observations that cause

>people to

> > call for your being booted off this list. Don't get me wrong, Mike,

>I like

> > you and I don't want you booted. But this kind of statement flies

>in

>the

> > face of what is revealed when you engage AAers in discussion which

>is not

> > composed of dumb-ass slogans. Let's be clear about one thing- AA

>sucks and

> > most of it's adherents are too stupid to engage in a real

>conversation.

> > ----- Original Message -----

> > From: <MikeknapNY@w...>

> >

> > > I don't think that the people who go to AA are any more smarter or

> > > dumber than the general population.

>

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I suppose in this context it would be a negative sort of like what

you might think of hmmm lets say a 100 pound scrawny computer geek

playing for the starting line up of the Bears against the Saints

He's at what you might say is a distinct disadvantage. Bring the

same teams into a computer lab and the odds shift dramatically in his

favor.

Hmmmm...

Do I still get to say I wasn't judging?

Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

>

>At 22:21 05/06/00 -0400, you wrote:

> >Oh.... really Mike?

> >It's populated with a bunch of dumbasses who can't even figure out

>that

> >praying is religious and powerlessness is a weakness. It's a bunch

>of people

> >who can't realize that their actions are their own responsibility

>and not a

> >God's. Almost without exception, AAers are the biggest morons this

>side of

> >brain-dead. Your statement is the kind of observations that cause

>people to

> >call for your being booted off this list. Don't get me wrong,

Mike,

>I like

> >you and I don't want you booted. But this kind of statement flies

in

>the

> >face of what is revealed when you engage AAers in discussion which

>is not

> >composed of dumb-ass slogans. Let's be clear about one thing- AA

>sucks and

> >most of it's adherents are too stupid to engage in a real

>conversation.

> >----- Original Message -----

> >

> >

> > > I don't think that the people who go to AA are any more smarter

>or

> > > dumber than the general population.

>

>I'd like to add something here. Like some others on this list I have

>been

>on both sides of this particular fence; several years as a true

>believer

>followed by several years as a person scratching his head, realising

>it was

>all nonsense and wondering how he could have possibly believed all

>that.

>

>I knew a number of very intelligent people in my time as a stepper.

I

>agree that the intelligence of the AA/NA membership is about the

>same as

>the population as a whole- it might even be higher. The thing is, if

>you

>are a cult member, you are trained not to use the intelligence you

>have-

>you are trained not to think too deeply about certain things, and to

>accept

>certain " truths " . This is altogether a different problem from not

>having

>the wits to think about those things if you decided to try. It is

>more a

>question of what beliefs the person has than their potential

>computing

>power. If you believe that it is dangerous to question certain

ideas,

>then

>even as an intelligent person you will still appear to have good

>reason to

>not question them.

>

>This is what is dangerous about cults- they do not only attract

>stupid

>people, If that was all their membership was, we would not have the

>present

>crazy situation.

>

>Joe B.

>

>

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I believe that whether you believe in God or not has nothing to do with whether

you find AA offensive. Who on earth, after pondering a belief system for years,

can displace it with the sort of garbage AA offers? The people who buy into AA

may already believe in a God like the one AA offers, may have no particular

belief system and don't object to what AA offers, or may somehow be able to

ignore the " spiritual " side of what AA offers (this last hard for me to swallow,

but I believe some people do -- usually very sociable critters or ones who just

need a place to hang out other than a bar).

The most offensive thing I ever heard in AA (and I've seen this in 12 step

workbooks, too) is that God will turn red lights green for you, or make sure

that you have a parking space if you will just pray for it.

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>, this to me is like quoting the Big Book to someone in 12stepfree.

>If I don't accept the Big Book as " gospel " , it loses its use as a source to

>convince me of my foolishness.

>

>

>

> >

>> " The fool hath said in his heart, " There is no God " " , Psalms 14:1, 53:1.

>>

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>>

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Remember, though, Brennan was appointed to interpret the laws of the

U.S., not God's law. Unlike some others, he was able to make that distinction.

Articulating that has made me realize what made me uncomfortable about some

members' stating that the concepts set forth in the Declaration of Independence

are " absolute rights " (I don't remember the exact language that was used).

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>One of the most futile efforts is for a believer is to convince an atheist

>there is a God, and for an atheist to convince a believer there is no God.

>

>Understandably, members of both groups resent it when someone of the other

>group suggests books etc. that will help the other person " see the light! "

>

>I have always been bothered by the arrogance of *some* atheists, who project

>a patronizing attitude towards believers and are certain beyond a doubt that

> " these superstitious religious fools just aren't bright enough to

>understand. " Of course, it is well documented that certain fundamentalist

>religions have as their goal to " open up the minds " of the nonbelievers.

>

>I Agree with whoever said that many religious people do not let their

>religion get in the way of what they see as a violation of the " establishment

>of religion classes, " or anything else that tries to knock down that wall of

>separation.

>

>I'm just thinking back to the good old days of the Warren Court. Ah! What a

>time it was for liberals who wanted to incorporate the Bill of Rights visa

>via the fourteenth amendment, and the marvelous decisions usually on the side

>of liberty and freedom and against tyranny and repression.

>

>From all the reading I have done on the court, it is generally assumed that

>the most important person was n, appointed by President

>Eisenhower who also appointed Earl Warren. In later years Eisenhower said

>that Warren and n were his 2 BIGGEST MISTAKES!

>

>In fact, when n retired from the court, the conservative Bible

> " National Review " dedicated an issue to n. The gist of it was that

>Brennan by the way he used the court to bring about change in the late 50s

>and sixties and even in later years as it turned increasingly conservative,

>he was able to hold his own because he was likable, trustworthy and a

>consensus builder.

>

>Why the buildup for Brennan? On just about every issue he sided with

>the people against government. He expanded freedom. In a case called Grisworld

> V. Connecticut, he stuck down a law that made it illegal to sell condoms in

>Connecticut even to married people. He was in the majority in Roe V. Wade. In

>his last years he come to the conclusion that all speech must be protected,

>even pornography.

>

>Oh, a very important thing about the man. He was a devout Roman Catholic who

>went to mass and communion every day. It is obvious from the kind of

>decisions he wrote, that his religion, especially the Catholic rigidity over

>abortion and birth control did not effect how he acted when he put on his

>robes.

>

>So who knows. Maybe when he put on his robes he tapped into some secret power

>that removed his " gullibility " about religion so he could be more in line

>with the intelligentsia who find it perfectly acceptable to mock someone's

>religious beliefs.

>

>There are two areas, religion and politics that can put up a wall between

>members on the list, who probably agree with each other on most issues.

>

>In the case of religion and politics being brought into a group where

>everyone is at different stages of growth and is looking for consensus not

>debates on something that is unprovable anyway, the AA slogan " Live and let

>live " could not be more appropriate.

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--believe I read you! Who's judging? - the game has a long time to run.

Yours,

Doluglas.

>

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>To: <12-step-freeegroups>

>Subject: RE: [RE: AA and suicide]

>Date: Wed, 7 Jun 2000 11:50:45 -0500

>

>I suppose in this context it would be a negative sort of like what

>you might think of hmmm lets say a 100 pound scrawny computer geek

>playing for the starting line up of the Bears against the Saints

>He's at what you might say is a distinct disadvantage. Bring the

>same teams into a computer lab and the odds shift dramatically in his

>favor.

>

>Hmmmm...

>

>Do I still get to say I wasn't judging?

>

>

> Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

> >

> >At 22:21 05/06/00 -0400, you wrote:

> > >Oh.... really Mike?

> > >It's populated with a bunch of dumbasses who can't even figure out

> >that

> > >praying is religious and powerlessness is a weakness. It's a bunch

> >of people

> > >who can't realize that their actions are their own responsibility

> >and not a

> > >God's. Almost without exception, AAers are the biggest morons this

> >side of

> > >brain-dead. Your statement is the kind of observations that cause

> >people to

> > >call for your being booted off this list. Don't get me wrong,

>Mike,

> >I like

> > >you and I don't want you booted. But this kind of statement flies

>in

> >the

> > >face of what is revealed when you engage AAers in discussion which

> >is not

> > >composed of dumb-ass slogans. Let's be clear about one thing- AA

> >sucks and

> > >most of it's adherents are too stupid to engage in a real

> >conversation.

> > >----- Original Message -----

> > >

> > >

> > > > I don't think that the people who go to AA are any more smarter

> >or

> > > > dumber than the general population.

> >

> >I'd like to add something here. Like some others on this list I have

> >been

> >on both sides of this particular fence; several years as a true

> >believer

> >followed by several years as a person scratching his head, realising

> >it was

> >all nonsense and wondering how he could have possibly believed all

> >that.

> >

> >I knew a number of very intelligent people in my time as a stepper.

>I

> >agree that the intelligence of the AA/NA membership is about the

> >same as

> >the population as a whole- it might even be higher. The thing is, if

> >you

> >are a cult member, you are trained not to use the intelligence you

> >have-

> >you are trained not to think too deeply about certain things, and to

> >accept

> >certain " truths " . This is altogether a different problem from not

> >having

> >the wits to think about those things if you decided to try. It is

> >more a

> >question of what beliefs the person has than their potential

> >computing

> >power. If you believe that it is dangerous to question certain

>ideas,

> >then

> >even as an intelligent person you will still appear to have good

> >reason to

> >not question them.

> >

> >This is what is dangerous about cults- they do not only attract

> >stupid

> >people, If that was all their membership was, we would not have the

> >present

> >crazy situation.

> >

> >Joe B.

> >

> >

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I can't dispute the point you're making. I plead that the biblical " tag " at

the end of my post is effectively an ornament to its substance, and not a

" dogma in your face or die " wielding of writ as per AA.

Cordially,

.

> >

> >.

> >

> >

> >

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Sorry, , but the profundity of your remark does not alleviate its

gratuitousness. Each of us is her/himself a statement of the obvious in

respect of what females have to do with creation.

.

>

>Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

>To: 12-step-freeegroups

>Subject: Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

>Date: Wed, 07 Jun 2000 12:44:18 EDT

>

>Right, Doug. After all, God Must have a penis. What do females have to do

>with creation, after all?

>

>

>

>

> >

> >Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

> >To: 12-step-freeegroups

> >Subject: Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

> >Date: Wed, 07 Jun 2000 14:09:00 GMT

> >

> >Cool God, shame about the pronoun!

> >

> >.

> >

> >

> > >

> > >Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

> > >To: <12-step-freeegroups>

> > >Subject: Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

> > >Date: Tue, 6 Jun 2000 20:50:56 -0400

> > >

> > >I believe in something " greater than me " ....I refer to her as God too.

>I

> > >saw " the light of love " when I crossed over at age 4ish. By that I

>know

> > >there's something beyond " man's religion " , religion, in many respects,

>is

> > >another form of a cult. I cringe when someone starts preaching their

> > >interpretation of man's relationship with Her.

> > >

> > >Carol S.

> > >

> > > Re: AA and suicide

> > > > > >

> > > > > >

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I agree totally. I also believe that most people are

>brainwashed

> > > > > > from birth

> > > > > > to accept (or at least not publicly contradict) belief in a

> " God " .

> > > > > > That's

> > > > > > why I don't necessarily initailly correlate a lower IQ to a

>person

> > > > > > who

> > > > > > expresses a casual belief in a " God " . (What the H---, it

>doesn't

> > > > > > maked a

> > > > > > d--- bit of dif, and it's very unpopular to express

>disbelief!!!)

> > > > > > Also gets you into totally unproductive arguments with theists.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Step 1 is the beginning of the end. Powerlessness is the

> >beginning,

> > > > > > if not

> > > > > > the essence, of depression. Depression causes suicide.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > That's my story and I'm stickin' to it.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Charlene

> > > > > >

> > > > > >

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> > > > > > Cheers,

> > > > > > Carol

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Sorry Mike, butyou blew it for me with your step-cant clincher, " a group

where everyone is at different stages of growth " . I don't think we have a

consensus on " personal growth " (an expression that's capable of being an

unspeakable pun on cancer) being a major feature around here.

.

>From: mikena@...

>Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

>To: 12-step-freeegroups

>Subject: Re: [RE: AA and suicide]

>Date: Wed, 7 Jun 2000 16:13:03 EDT

>

>One of the most futile efforts is for a believer is to convince an atheist

>there is a God, and for an atheist to convince a believer there is no God.

>

>Understandably, members of both groups resent it when someone of the other

>group suggests books etc. that will help the other person " see the light! "

>

>I have always been bothered by the arrogance of *some* atheists, who

>project

>a patronizing attitude towards believers and are certain beyond a doubt

>that

> " these superstitious religious fools just aren't bright enough to

>understand. " Of course, it is well documented that certain fundamentalist

>religions have as their goal to " open up the minds " of the nonbelievers.

>

>I Agree with whoever said that many religious people do not let their

>religion get in the way of what they see as a violation of the

> " establishment

>of religion classes, " or anything else that tries to knock down that wall

>of

>separation.

>

>I'm just thinking back to the good old days of the Warren Court. Ah! What a

>time it was for liberals who wanted to incorporate the Bill of Rights visa

>via the fourteenth amendment, and the marvelous decisions usually on the

>side

>of liberty and freedom and against tyranny and repression.

>

>From all the reading I have done on the court, it is generally assumed that

>the most important person was n, appointed by President

>Eisenhower who also appointed Earl Warren. In later years Eisenhower said

>that Warren and n were his 2 BIGGEST MISTAKES!

>

>In fact, when n retired from the court, the conservative

>Bible

> " National Review " dedicated an issue to n. The gist of it was that

>Brennan by the way he used the court to bring about change in the late 50s

>and sixties and even in later years as it turned increasingly conservative,

>he was able to hold his own because he was likable, trustworthy and a

>consensus builder.

>

>Why the buildup for Brennan? On just about every issue he sided

>with

>the people against government. He expanded freedom. In a case called

>Grisworld

> V. Connecticut, he stuck down a law that made it illegal to sell condoms

>in

>Connecticut even to married people. He was in the majority in Roe V. Wade.

>In

>his last years he come to the conclusion that all speech must be protected,

>even pornography.

>

>Oh, a very important thing about the man. He was a devout Roman Catholic

>who

>went to mass and communion every day. It is obvious from the kind of

>decisions he wrote, that his religion, especially the Catholic rigidity

>over

>abortion and birth control did not effect how he acted when he put on his

>robes.

>

>So who knows. Maybe when he put on his robes he tapped into some secret

>power

>that removed his " gullibility " about religion so he could be more in line

>with the intelligentsia who find it perfectly acceptable to mock someone's

>religious beliefs.

>

>There are two areas, religion and politics that can put up a wall between

>members on the list, who probably agree with each other on most issues.

>

>In the case of religion and politics being brought into a group where

>everyone is at different stages of growth and is looking for consensus not

>debates on something that is unprovable anyway, the AA slogan " Live and

>let

>live " could not be more appropriate.

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