Re: Adding a note on needs

[Guest guest]

Lois wrote:

We are both in pain but besides the actual total fulfilment, we enjoy

telling each other several times a day that we love each other and a

kiss as we pass in the kitchen or whatever room we happen to be in.

Lois

Lois,

Thank you for sharing the fact that the " needs " of senior citizens

continue. It is insightful to know that our desires don't stop as we

age.

I also love the way you describe the deep bond you & your husband

have together so that kissing each other as you walk into another

room is just another method of pleasure.

My husband & I have been married 24 years, 25 on February 24th. My

husband realized when I first began going through the pain process

that his touch & slight kisses actually could help ease my pain. We

are 43 & 44 so we still have a good amount of time together.

Lori

[Guest guest]

Jerry wrote:

> We are forty-four and have been married since we were twenty-six.

> That part of our lives has suffered recently because she cannot

> sleep in a bed.

Jerry, if you'd like, I'd be happy to give you some suggestions (off

line) on how to make this work, despite the unusual sleeping

arrangements.