Re: Post op life changes

[Guest guest]

I'll tell ya, ya just love Dawn. Love ya angelfire, Pam

On Tue, 10 Oct 2000 14:44:05 -0400 " Dawn " writes:

> Don,

>

> That's why they're called pinheads...their brains aren't big enough

> to think

> before talking!

>

> Dawn

>

> Re: Post op life changes

>

>

> Pam,

> You described just how I feel perfectly. When I said to Russ

> that I

> don't take crap anymore I don't think I explained clearly. What I

> meant is

> that if somebody says something insulting to me, then I either give

> it back

> to them or treat them with contempt. I really appreciate the people

> that

> were

> there for me but I refuse to deal with pinheads like your friends

> who still

> make snide remarks. Thank you

>

> Don

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Don,

Yes It does. I'm glad he brought it up too, although he has not said

how it's affected him?? I'm glad you replyed to me also. Talking about

it for me helps make it more clear. Thanks, Your a good guy.

Pam

On Tue, 10 Oct 2000 15:34:42 EDT Dondj@... writes:

> Pam,

> It sounds right but I didn't want to give the impression that I

> am

> looking for a fight or that my guard is up all the time. It's just

> that

> people feel that they can say anything to overweight people and get

> away with

> it. When they say they didn't mean it like that, I ask then what did

> they

> mean? Or if they say that I'm more sensitive now, I say " Not more

> sensitive,

> just more aware. " The very fact that you called them on it real make

> them

> realize what a stupid thing they have said and that you have

> feelings as

> well. Your true friends will realize it and apologize. Boy Russ, You

> opened

> up a can of worms with this one? I glad he asked because it makes

> for a

> lively discussion don't you think Pam?

>

> Don

>

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