Guest guest Posted June 30, 2000 Report Share Posted June 30, 2000 Nora, Have a very happy birthday and a great weekend!!!! Joleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest guest Posted June 30, 2000 Report Share Posted June 30, 2000 Thanks alot Joleen! Have a great weekend! Nora Re: Nora >Nora, > >Have a very happy birthday and a great weekend!!!! > >Joleen > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >CatalogLink offers hundreds of catalogs for FREE! >Click here to find the latest and greatest in the >world of catalogs - check out our featured Picks of the Week >and also look to enter our $500 catalog shopping spree! >http://click./1/6068/5/_/26068/_/962397777/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2000 Report Share Posted June 30, 2000 Thanks alot Joleen! Have a great weekend! Nora Re: Nora >Nora, > >Have a very happy birthday and a great weekend!!!! > >Joleen > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >CatalogLink offers hundreds of catalogs for FREE! >Click here to find the latest and greatest in the >world of catalogs - check out our featured Picks of the Week >and also look to enter our $500 catalog shopping spree! >http://click./1/6068/5/_/26068/_/962397777/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2000 Report Share Posted July 3, 2000 Sonja, Thank you so much! Have a great day! Nora Re: Nora > > >>Nora, >> >>Have a very happy birthday and a great weekend!!!! >> >>Joleen >> >>------------------------------------------------------------------------ >>CatalogLink offers hundreds of catalogs for FREE! >>Click here to find the latest and greatest in the >>world of catalogs - check out our featured Picks of the Week >>and also look to enter our $500 catalog shopping spree! >>http://click./1/6068/5/_/26068/_/962397777/ >>------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >> > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/5528/5/_/26068/_/962418808/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/962608241/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2000 Report Share Posted July 3, 2000 Sonja, Thank you so much! Have a great day! Nora Re: Nora > > >>Nora, >> >>Have a very happy birthday and a great weekend!!!! >> >>Joleen >> >>------------------------------------------------------------------------ >>CatalogLink offers hundreds of catalogs for FREE! >>Click here to find the latest and greatest in the >>world of catalogs - check out our featured Picks of the Week >>and also look to enter our $500 catalog shopping spree! >>http://click./1/6068/5/_/26068/_/962397777/ >>------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >> > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/5528/5/_/26068/_/962418808/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/962608241/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2000 Report Share Posted July 3, 2000 Debbie, Thank you so much! Take care. Nora Nora >Nora, > Just wanted to wish you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY! >Debbie > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/962608402/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2000 Report Share Posted July 3, 2000 Amy, Thank you so much. Take care. Nora Nora >Nora, >I wanted to email you tomorrow, but I'm not sure if I'll be on since it's the >4th. So I figured I would do it now. Happy birthday! I hope you have lots >of fun! >Amy > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/962635331/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2000 Report Share Posted July 3, 2000 Amy, Thank you so much. Take care. Nora Nora >Nora, >I wanted to email you tomorrow, but I'm not sure if I'll be on since it's the >4th. So I figured I would do it now. Happy birthday! I hope you have lots >of fun! >Amy > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/962635331/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2000 Report Share Posted July 3, 2000 Amy, Thank you so much. Take care. Nora Nora >Nora, >I wanted to email you tomorrow, but I'm not sure if I'll be on since it's the >4th. So I figured I would do it now. Happy birthday! I hope you have lots >of fun! >Amy > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/962635331/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2000 Report Share Posted July 11, 2000 Hello Nora. I am so sorry you are going through such a difficult time right now. I agree with the other posts, there are so many options for you. I also think you really need to talk to someone. I think your dr could recommend someone....since in most cases, you would have to anyways to have a hysterectomy at your age. Please, get some help, you don't have to go through this alone. AND I think you would make a wonderful mother who has a lot of love to give to any child! Hang in there! Hugs, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2000 Report Share Posted July 11, 2000 Hello Nora. I am so sorry you are going through such a difficult time right now. I agree with the other posts, there are so many options for you. I also think you really need to talk to someone. I think your dr could recommend someone....since in most cases, you would have to anyways to have a hysterectomy at your age. Please, get some help, you don't have to go through this alone. AND I think you would make a wonderful mother who has a lot of love to give to any child! Hang in there! Hugs, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2000 Report Share Posted July 11, 2000 Nora, I can totally understand what your going through. I have a very difficult time getting out of bed in the morning. I feel totally depressed and will often cry easily. I never used to be this way. Have you ever seen a RE? Have you ever been diagnosed? Alot of dr's put patients on Clomid. My dr did the same thing. That doesn't mean its the right treatment. Also my therapist specializes in reproduction. Can you see someone like that? I would not make rash decission right now. I now how you can feel like you can't take anymore. I don't like being around young children either. Everytime I hear one of my friends is pg I don't want to be around them anymore. I just can't do it. I know that working w/my RE has helped me feel like I am moving in a positive direction. Have you ever had an HSG? Have you thought about injectables? Just some thoughts!! Pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2000 Report Share Posted July 11, 2000 Vicki, I can't stand therapists. They only make me worse. Thank you for your concern but I need to get some things done before I feel better. Nora Nora >> >> >> >> >Nora, Please don't do anything so severe as a hysterectomy. It is >> >> >irreversible you know. You'd be taking away any chance of ever having >> >> >your own baby and someday you may have that opportunity. Have you and >> >> >your dh considered adoption? or foster care? I know a great family with >> >> >4 kids, all adopted, and they took in hundreds of foster kids. You have >> >> >so much love to share, there have got to be other options. You sound >> >> >like you are severely depressed. Please get some help from a >> >> >professional-even from your pastor or priest, I don't think posting over >> >> >the internet is going to help...Maybe you need some one on one with >> >> >someone who is experienced with helping people. I hate to see anyone >> >> >going through a rough time like you are. Don't say that you would never >> >> >make a good mother-that is why this is happening, that is a bunch of >> >> >crap. I don't know why this is happening to you, and I wish it wasn't, >> >> >I want you to take care of yourself first. Seek some help, get some >> >> >rest, eat right, exercise, do what makes you feel good inside. I just >> >> >want you to be happy. Much love and prayers for you! >> >> >Take care, >> >> >Vicki >> >> > >> >> >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >> >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >> >> >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click >> here: >> >> >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963323135/ >> >> >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >> > >> >> > >> >> >> >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >> Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >> >> Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click >> here: >> >> http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963338026/ >> >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> > >> >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >> >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >> >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963341919/ >> >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> > >> > >> >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >> Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >> http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963343172/ >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963350645/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2000 Report Share Posted July 11, 2000 Vicki, I can't stand therapists. They only make me worse. Thank you for your concern but I need to get some things done before I feel better. Nora Nora >> >> >> >> >Nora, Please don't do anything so severe as a hysterectomy. It is >> >> >irreversible you know. You'd be taking away any chance of ever having >> >> >your own baby and someday you may have that opportunity. Have you and >> >> >your dh considered adoption? or foster care? I know a great family with >> >> >4 kids, all adopted, and they took in hundreds of foster kids. You have >> >> >so much love to share, there have got to be other options. You sound >> >> >like you are severely depressed. Please get some help from a >> >> >professional-even from your pastor or priest, I don't think posting over >> >> >the internet is going to help...Maybe you need some one on one with >> >> >someone who is experienced with helping people. I hate to see anyone >> >> >going through a rough time like you are. Don't say that you would never >> >> >make a good mother-that is why this is happening, that is a bunch of >> >> >crap. I don't know why this is happening to you, and I wish it wasn't, >> >> >I want you to take care of yourself first. Seek some help, get some >> >> >rest, eat right, exercise, do what makes you feel good inside. I just >> >> >want you to be happy. Much love and prayers for you! >> >> >Take care, >> >> >Vicki >> >> > >> >> >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >> >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >> >> >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click >> here: >> >> >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963323135/ >> >> >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >> > >> >> > >> >> >> >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >> Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >> >> Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click >> here: >> >> http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963338026/ >> >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> > >> >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >> >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >> >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963341919/ >> >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> > >> > >> >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >> Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >> http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963343172/ >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963350645/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2000 Report Share Posted July 11, 2000 Vicki, I can't stand therapists. They only make me worse. Thank you for your concern but I need to get some things done before I feel better. Nora Nora >> >> >> >> >Nora, Please don't do anything so severe as a hysterectomy. It is >> >> >irreversible you know. You'd be taking away any chance of ever having >> >> >your own baby and someday you may have that opportunity. Have you and >> >> >your dh considered adoption? or foster care? I know a great family with >> >> >4 kids, all adopted, and they took in hundreds of foster kids. You have >> >> >so much love to share, there have got to be other options. You sound >> >> >like you are severely depressed. Please get some help from a >> >> >professional-even from your pastor or priest, I don't think posting over >> >> >the internet is going to help...Maybe you need some one on one with >> >> >someone who is experienced with helping people. I hate to see anyone >> >> >going through a rough time like you are. Don't say that you would never >> >> >make a good mother-that is why this is happening, that is a bunch of >> >> >crap. I don't know why this is happening to you, and I wish it wasn't, >> >> >I want you to take care of yourself first. Seek some help, get some >> >> >rest, eat right, exercise, do what makes you feel good inside. I just >> >> >want you to be happy. Much love and prayers for you! >> >> >Take care, >> >> >Vicki >> >> > >> >> >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >> >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >> >> >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click >> here: >> >> >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963323135/ >> >> >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >> > >> >> > >> >> >> >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >> Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >> >> Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click >> here: >> >> http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963338026/ >> >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> > >> >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >> >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >> >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963341919/ >> >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> > >> > >> >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >> Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >> http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963343172/ >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963350645/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2000 Report Share Posted July 12, 2000 Joleen, Thanks for writing. I know that I am just 23 but I don't have alot of time to ttc. I have PCOS for one which hinders me from getting pg and as time goes by its just going to get worse. Another thing, in 4 years or less I will be legally blind. I would just love to have a child that I would be able to see and care for while it is a baby. I hope you understand my flusterations. I just feel so stuck. I am a little better today. My sister in law and two little nephews were in a car accident yesterday and my sil and older nephew (4) is still in the hospital and my sil requires surgery to replace her knee and hip. Please keep them in your thoughts and prayers. Take care. Nora Re: Nora >Nora, > >Just wanted to let you know I " m thinking of you. You are going through such >a difficult time. I know you are so sad now. Please post whenever you need >to get something out. While it's never the same, I'm sure that many of us >can relate to crying all the time at some point in this ep, ttc, IF process. > >I was wondering if you've considered some long term birth control options, >the shot, the implants. That way you wouldn't have to think about ttc for a >while, but still have some possibility in the future. Since you are only 23 >and I know you want a baby now and in your twenties, but you never know in 10 >years you may want to try again. And who knows what kind of treatments >they'll have by then. I know that seems forever now, and probably like an >old mom to you. But many of us are 33 or around there, these days lots of >people have babies in their 30s. I know this isn't what you want or dreamed >of, but I just don't want you to regret this in 10 or who knows 20 years when >medical science has new discoveries. Well, just a thought. I know the hyst. >is what you want now, but I hope you'll consider other options, too. > >I really am thinking of you and hope this e-mail hasn't frustrated you. I do >hope you are starting to feel somewhat better? Any chance? Take care of >yourself. > >Joleen > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963375080/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2000 Report Share Posted July 12, 2000 Pam, Thanks for writing. I feel some better today. I don't trust birth control. (any form) I would still worry about getting pg. I know that sounds stupid to ttc for over 5 years and get on bc and then worry about being pg. I go back to the doc when af starts. I am going to talk to him then about it. It looks like i oed Monday on my own. That is too scary of a thought. I hope that you have a good day. Take care. Nora Nora >Nora, > >I have to agree with the other ladies. You need to seek help. Also I >was going to say the samething as Joleen. I am 32. I started ttc when >I was 30. You have so much time in your future to change your mind. I >would seek an alternate bc for now. If ttc is to stressful then >don't. But you may change your mind in the future. You have no idea >were you might be 5 years from now. I would not do anything >permanent. If you want a hysterectomy maybe you should even consider >tying your tubes. Sometimes its reversable and if not you can do IVF. >Plus I don't think you would want a hysterectomy at your age. Then >your body is not producing certain hormones that you really need at >your age. We are always here if you need to talk. >Pam > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963413739/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2000 Report Share Posted July 12, 2000 Nora, You sure do have a plateful! I'm praying for you and sil and family. Take care of yourselves. Hope you continue to feel better. When it rains, it pours, sounds like it's been pouring by you for a while, hope it stops pouring disappointments and starts pouring blessings! Joleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2000 Report Share Posted July 12, 2000 Nora, You sure do have a plateful! I'm praying for you and sil and family. Take care of yourselves. Hope you continue to feel better. When it rains, it pours, sounds like it's been pouring by you for a while, hope it stops pouring disappointments and starts pouring blessings! Joleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2000 Report Share Posted July 12, 2000 Nora, You sure do have a plateful! I'm praying for you and sil and family. Take care of yourselves. Hope you continue to feel better. When it rains, it pours, sounds like it's been pouring by you for a while, hope it stops pouring disappointments and starts pouring blessings! Joleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2000 Report Share Posted July 12, 2000 Debbie, I couldn't have said it better. It did help alot. You are very nice to chat with. Sorry you had a bad day. Hope tomorrow is a much better one for the both of us. Take care. Nora Re: Nora >Nora, > I am doing okay today! I woke up grumpy so it made my day not that >great. I hope tomorrow goes good for you also! I am so glad to hear that >today went a little better, I hoped that us chatting helped a little also. >Sometimes when you just tell someone everything that you are feeling it helps. >Love, >Debbie > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963453314/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2000 Report Share Posted July 12, 2000 , I am feeling some better today. We went to see my sil this evening but she was still in surgery. My nephews are out of the hospital and appear to be doing good. I don't feel comfortable talking to anyone about all this. It runs way to deep. I just couldn't go to my pastor about this. I don't have anyone that I trust enough to tell everything to. It seems like people just know the bits and pieces and I can't get out everything. I am not going to worry about it. I will be seeing my doc in a couple of weeks or less. I am going to talk to him about this again. Which I know what he will say. I haven't mentioned it to the dh yet. I am going to let him go to the doc with me and let my doc explain why it would be a good idea. I hope that you take care. Have a great night. Nora Re: Nora >Nora, > >So sorry to hear about your sil and nephews, hope they will be well >soon. Did you go see them today? How are you doing, hopefully better! >I have read that you don't like talking to " professionals " , but maybe >you could talk to your minister/priest/rabbi or someone of that >nature. I don't care for talking to " professionals " either (even >though I'm a social worker) I get all nervous and hate talking about >myself, but the Monday before my lap, I went and spoke w/my priest >and felt tons better after. He didn't judge me, try to " fix " >anything, just basically listened and was there for me to bounce my >feelings off of. > >I think we all know ourselves best, but from what you have written >here I don't know why you would think you are not fit to be a mother. >It sounds like you truly want the hysterectomy, but talk it over >w/your doctor first and hear what she/he has to say. We cann't tell >you what is right or wrong for you, but try talking to someone other >than us and be as honest w/them as you have been w/us. > >I am truly worried about you and hope you will seek some outside >help. Does dh know how you feel? What does he think? Your in my >thoughts. Hope I haven't offended you by this post, you can tell me >if I did. > > > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963454911/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2000 Report Share Posted July 12, 2000 , I am feeling some better today. We went to see my sil this evening but she was still in surgery. My nephews are out of the hospital and appear to be doing good. I don't feel comfortable talking to anyone about all this. It runs way to deep. I just couldn't go to my pastor about this. I don't have anyone that I trust enough to tell everything to. It seems like people just know the bits and pieces and I can't get out everything. I am not going to worry about it. I will be seeing my doc in a couple of weeks or less. I am going to talk to him about this again. Which I know what he will say. I haven't mentioned it to the dh yet. I am going to let him go to the doc with me and let my doc explain why it would be a good idea. I hope that you take care. Have a great night. Nora Re: Nora >Nora, > >So sorry to hear about your sil and nephews, hope they will be well >soon. Did you go see them today? How are you doing, hopefully better! >I have read that you don't like talking to " professionals " , but maybe >you could talk to your minister/priest/rabbi or someone of that >nature. I don't care for talking to " professionals " either (even >though I'm a social worker) I get all nervous and hate talking about >myself, but the Monday before my lap, I went and spoke w/my priest >and felt tons better after. He didn't judge me, try to " fix " >anything, just basically listened and was there for me to bounce my >feelings off of. > >I think we all know ourselves best, but from what you have written >here I don't know why you would think you are not fit to be a mother. >It sounds like you truly want the hysterectomy, but talk it over >w/your doctor first and hear what she/he has to say. We cann't tell >you what is right or wrong for you, but try talking to someone other >than us and be as honest w/them as you have been w/us. > >I am truly worried about you and hope you will seek some outside >help. Does dh know how you feel? What does he think? Your in my >thoughts. Hope I haven't offended you by this post, you can tell me >if I did. > > > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Visit Ancestry.com for a FREE 14-Day Trial and find your ancestors now. >Search over 550 million names and trace your family tree today. Click here: >http://click./1/6254/5/_/26068/_/963454911/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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