Guest guest Posted April 19, 2004 Report Share Posted April 19, 2004 Hi everyone, First off, I just want to say: Not all Doctors are Bad, or Good for that matter. I've spent most of my life around Doctors, first, my father was a Doctor and I have worked with them for a great deal of my adult life, I think because I can talk on their level and will call a spade a spade when I catch them at an incorrect comment. They are not " Gods " , they are only human beings that have a limit, just like we do, and on how many hours a day they have to work with. What I wanted to say, in part, is about my Father (and a great many other Physicians). He worked 5 days a week, 12 hour shifts and then on Saturday would consult with other Doctors at another hospital for another 12 hours. Then on Sunday, after church, he would disappear into the den and would read all the new Medical Journals and articles that had come out during the previous week. We kids didn't see him very much; my younger sister just recently said that she never really got to know our Dad until he retired (from exhaustion). He didn't want to, he really did enjoy helping others but life didn't deal him a long living healthy body to reside within. In the end he apologized to our mother and his family for not taking the time to be with us. I guess what I am saying is that Doctors, just like the rest of humanity, are human. They need time away from the medical field to keep their head straight. Unfortunately, for some, this may come at the cost of the time needed for reading every single word in every single medical journal. That is why an educated patient is so valued by most Doctors. Educated patients may show an open minded Doctor new research about the possible conditions that the Doctor suspects may be effecting the patient. However, shoving the documents and research papers down a Doctors throat only alienates the Doctor and by protective instinct will just have to put their hackles up and can only be expected to defend themselves and their education. Which, in some cases, took 10 more years after the basic four year Bachelor degree. And to keep their license current, they have to take so many hours of continuing education within their specialty every year! And be subject to peer review. I could go on and on with this subject, but I hope that I have made my point. Most Doctors, if " handled " nicely, politely, will listen to an educated patient. If the patient walks angry and is abusive to the Doctor, guess what, the Doctor only has a few minutes, because of insurance regulations, and more than likely will just reflect back to the patient the patients anger. No, No Doctor is a God; I have met a few who thought that they were. And have had to deal with them on a professional level, as well as on a WC situation. It is just amazing how, when given the facts and research, politely, with courtesy, with respect, even the most Attitude stricken, stubborn a**** Doctor will take the time to listen and learn and work with the open minded patient. WE NEED TO EDUCATE OURSELVES, TO BE ABLE TO ASSIST THE DOCTOR IN CARING FOR OUR MALADIES. No Human can possible be a walking encyclopedia of current Medical knowledge. GIVE THESE HARD WORKING MEN AND WOMEN A BREAK FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! HELP THEM, HELP YOU! Okay, enough of my rant for the day. Gossimer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2004 Report Share Posted April 19, 2004 Hi Gossimer. Great post. Gossimer, when this site first started, we had a gal on here regularly who was married to a doc. And it was an interesting situation for her and us--she had to educate her own husband based on what she was learning here. After awhile, I noticed she wasn't posting anymore, and I've always wondered if our ranting and raving turned her away. I felt bad for her if that was the case. On the other hand, I understood the ranting and raving. It's the medical community, and many docs in particular, who are the reason we have stayed so sick, so long. For me, I don't think any of the volumes of docs I saw over those 17 long miserable years on T4 meds " meant " to be horrible and close-minded and ignorant. Yet, I can look back and wonder why not ONE dared to go outside of the box and look at the obvious, and treat the obvious. It's hard not to be bitter! Additionally, when I see what the Medical Board and docs have done to someone as fantastic as Dr. Derry in Canada, and what similar " medical boards and docs on those boards " could do to the few OUTSTANDING docs and NP's that I know (including my own), it sickens me. My NP has to live with fear every day that her board will find out what she is " allowing " as far as thyroid treatment........when that " allowing " is simply practising GOOD medicine and I am WELL because of it!!! When I look at what WONDERFUL things docs have done in other areas, including the recent treatment my husband got for his prostate cancer (Proton Beam Therapy), then I am PROUD and POSITIVE of docs. But when I look at what has happened the past few decades and in the present when it comes to thyroid treatment, I am ashamed and NEGATIVE about docs. Sigh. Janie p.s. And by the way, you are right! Docs are not Gods. The frustration is seeing folks VIEW them as GODS!! My mother-in-law is one of them, and she has suffered MIGHTILY because she followed the docs orders and prescriptions to the T!! > First off, I just want to say: Not all Doctors are Bad, or Good for > that matter. I've spent most of my life around Doctors, first, my > father was a Doctor and I have worked with them for a great deal of > my adult life, I think because I can talk on their level and will > call a spade a spade when I catch them at an incorrect comment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2004 Report Share Posted April 19, 2004 Thanks Janie, I think if the world were to realize that Doctors are ONLY human and can only hold so much in their brains at any one time, a lot of us would be in better positions and health. I watch only a few shows on the idiot tube, however, one that I really love to watch is " West Wing " . Recently, the " President " was teaching his protogee how to play chess... He said: " See the WHOLE BOARD " ! He was not only saying this in relation to the chess game but to the current situation that they were dealing with Nation. I wish that we could teach this to all the Professionals and none Professionals in this world. " See the Whole Board " " See the Whole Body " Gossimer > Hi Gossimer. Great post. > > Gossimer, when this site first started, we had a gal on here > regularly who was married to a doc. And it was an interesting > situation for her and us--she had to educate her own husband based > on what she was learning here. After awhile, I noticed she wasn't > posting anymore, and I've always wondered if our ranting and raving > turned her away. I felt bad for her if that was the case. > > On the other hand, I understood the ranting and raving. It's the > medical community, and many docs in particular, who are the reason > we have stayed so sick, so long. For me, I don't think any of the > volumes of docs I saw over those 17 long miserable years on T4 > meds " meant " to be horrible and close-minded and ignorant. Yet, I > can look back and wonder why not ONE dared to go outside of the box > and look at the obvious, and treat the obvious. It's hard not to be > bitter! > > Additionally, when I see what the Medical Board and docs have done > to someone as fantastic as Dr. Derry in Canada, and what > similar " medical boards and docs on those boards " could do to the > few OUTSTANDING docs and NP's that I know (including my own), it > sickens me. My NP has to live with fear every day that her board > will find out what she is " allowing " as far as thyroid > treatment........when that " allowing " is simply practising GOOD > medicine and I am WELL because of it!!! > > When I look at what WONDERFUL things docs have done in other areas, > including the recent treatment my husband got for his prostate > cancer (Proton Beam Therapy), then I am PROUD and POSITIVE of docs. > > But when I look at what has happened the past few decades and in the > present when it comes to thyroid treatment, I am ashamed and > NEGATIVE about docs. > > Sigh. > > Janie > > p.s. And by the way, you are right! Docs are not Gods. The > frustration is seeing folks VIEW them as GODS!! My mother-in-law is > one of them, and she has suffered MIGHTILY because she followed the > docs orders and prescriptions to the T!! > > > > First off, I just want to say: Not all Doctors are Bad, or Good > for > > that matter. I've spent most of my life around Doctors, first, my > > father was a Doctor and I have worked with them for a great deal > of > > my adult life, I think because I can talk on their level and will > > call a spade a spade when I catch them at an incorrect comment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2004 Report Share Posted April 20, 2004 Good Post Gossimer. 'Nuff said. Debbie K. Doctors, tad bit long, sorry about being so wordy today. Hi everyone, First off, I just want to say: Not all Doctors are Bad, or Good for that matter. I've spent most of my life around Doctors, first, my father was a Doctor and I have worked with them for a great deal of my adult life, I think because I can talk on their level and will call a spade a spade when I catch them at an incorrect comment. They are not " Gods " , they are only human beings that have a limit, just like we do, and on how many hours a day they have to work with. What I wanted to say, in part, is about my Father (and a great many other Physicians). He worked 5 days a week, 12 hour shifts and then on Saturday would consult with other Doctors at another hospital for another 12 hours. Then on Sunday, after church, he would disappear into the den and would read all the new Medical Journals and articles that had come out during the previous week. We kids didn't see him very much; my younger sister just recently said that she never really got to know our Dad until he retired (from exhaustion). He didn't want to, he really did enjoy helping others but life didn't deal him a long living healthy body to reside within. In the end he apologized to our mother and his family for not taking the time to be with us. I guess what I am saying is that Doctors, just like the rest of humanity, are human. They need time away from the medical field to keep their head straight. Unfortunately, for some, this may come at the cost of the time needed for reading every single word in every single medical journal. That is why an educated patient is so valued by most Doctors. Educated patients may show an open minded Doctor new research about the possible conditions that the Doctor suspects may be effecting the patient. However, shoving the documents and research papers down a Doctors throat only alienates the Doctor and by protective instinct will just have to put their hackles up and can only be expected to defend themselves and their education. Which, in some cases, took 10 more years after the basic four year Bachelor degree. And to keep their license current, they have to take so many hours of continuing education within their specialty every year! And be subject to peer review. I could go on and on with this subject, but I hope that I have made my point. Most Doctors, if " handled " nicely, politely, will listen to an educated patient. If the patient walks angry and is abusive to the Doctor, guess what, the Doctor only has a few minutes, because of insurance regulations, and more than likely will just reflect back to the patient the patients anger. No, No Doctor is a God; I have met a few who thought that they were. And have had to deal with them on a professional level, as well as on a WC situation. It is just amazing how, when given the facts and research, politely, with courtesy, with respect, even the most Attitude stricken, stubborn a**** Doctor will take the time to listen and learn and work with the open minded patient. WE NEED TO EDUCATE OURSELVES, TO BE ABLE TO ASSIST THE DOCTOR IN CARING FOR OUR MALADIES. No Human can possible be a walking encyclopedia of current Medical knowledge. GIVE THESE HARD WORKING MEN AND WOMEN A BREAK FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! HELP THEM, HELP YOU! Okay, enough of my rant for the day. Gossimer _____ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2004 Report Share Posted April 20, 2004 I agree. When I was first diagnosed my Dr would only do a TSH test. Than I joined this list and went to Health Check USA for a FT3/FT4 test and when I gave my Dr a copy of the results I also gave her a copy of the information they sent on those tests. Than I asked her if she would so those tests and she said yes. My TSH is .04 and the FT3/FT4 are mid range and as long as I have no symptoms she's cool with that. She's even thanked me for giving her copies of things from my neurologist. She's also young so that might have something to do with it. Louise > WE NEED TO EDUCATE OURSELVES, TO BE ABLE TO ASSIST THE DOCTOR IN > CARING FOR OUR MALADIES. No Human can possible be a walking > encyclopedia of current Medical knowledge. > > GIVE THESE HARD WORKING MEN AND WOMEN A BREAK FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! > HELP THEM, HELP YOU! > > > Okay, enough of my rant for the day. > Gossimer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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