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Thanks love -- The latest....To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PMFirst, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who called me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still awake please call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people here started awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept for about 4 hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a LOT of email)n...I owe ya...HugsAkiba ~*~ Akiba~*~~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~My husband left me for another psychicI really should have seen that coming. & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp;

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Crap, Akiba! Something is NOT right here! You have your rights. Your son has his rights. When your husband decided to cheat on you, I say he LOST his damn rights to his son! I would put out an Amber alert that your son was kidnapped; that is what I would do! Call local and Philly police and alert them ASAP. love you. Call me, and I'll call you back, Kate The latest....> > To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.com> > Date: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM> > > > > > First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:> > http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/> > And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who > called me> at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still > awake please> call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people > here started> awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how> lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept > for about 4> hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a > LOT of email)> > n...I owe ya...> > Hugs> > Akiba> > > >   > > ~*~ Akiba~*~> > ~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~> > My husband left me for another psychic> > I really should have seen that coming. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.comawesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!

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Always Akiba. Heres my numbers if you need an ear.

and cell-

You have us all on your side and maybe together we can figure this out

and get Robbin back home with his mother,were he belongs. Hang in there

sweetie.

luv you

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To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.com

Date: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM

First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:

http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/

And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who called

me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my " if there is anyone still awake

please call me " post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people

here started awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast

(how lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept

for about 4 hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get

a LOT of email)

n...I owe ya...

Hugs

Akiba

 

~*~ Akiba~*~

~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~

My husband left me for another psychic

I really should have seen that coming.

& nbsp;

& nbsp;

& nbsp;

& nbsp;

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I'm doing the best I can to get him back, even called the FBI...but they need copies of the custody decree B4 they do anything. I am stressed beyond imagining. -- The latest....To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM

First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:

http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/

And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who called me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still awake please call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people here started awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept for about 4 hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a LOT of email)

n...I owe ya...

Hugs

Akiba

  ~*~ Akiba~*~

~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~

My husband left me for another psychic

I really should have seen that coming.

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Yes, I say so too, unfortunately the law sees it otherwise. Can't call now, going to go curl up in a ball on the bed until the shaking subsides -- Re: The latest.... Crap, Akiba! Something is NOT right here! You have your rights. Your son has his rights. When your husband decided to cheat on you, I say he LOST his damn rights to his son! I would put out an Amber alert that your son was kidnapped; that is what I would do! Call local and Philly police and alert them ASAP. love you. Call me, and I'll call you back, Kate The latest....> > To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.com> > Date: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM> > > > > > First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:> > http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/> > And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who > called me> at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still > awake please> call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people > here started> awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how> lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept > for about 4> hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a > LOT of email)> > n...I owe ya...> > Hugs> > Akiba> > > >   > > ~*~ Akiba~*~> > ~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~> > My husband left me for another psychic> > I really should have seen that coming. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.comawesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!

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There IS a court order but I have to get copies, I don't have them -- RE: The latest.... Oh, hon, I’m so sorry. Sadly the police are right – if you and Rob are married, if there is no court order of custody in place, then Rob has every LEGAL right in the world to go anywhere he likes with his son… most places won’t issue an Amber Alert in matters of parental “disagreementâ€, much less a situation like this… I know we don’t know each other at all yet (except what I’ve read) but please please call your local legal aid or anyone else who might know where to get help, and get a legal separation/custody plan though court! You and your son deserve better than this! Praying for you, THL Liadain ni Mhordha OFO "You get a wonderful view from the point of no return..."wildernesse, the Outlandshttp://practical-blackwork.blogspot.comhttp://www.flickr.com/photos/liadains_fancies -----Original Message-----From: MSersLife [mailto:MSersLife ] On Behalf Of katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) netSent: Tuesday, October 07, 2008 11:12 AMTo: MSersLife Subject: Re: The latest.... Crap, Akiba! Something is NOT right here! You have your rights. Your son has his rights. When your husband decided to cheat on you, I say he LOST his damn rights to his son! I would put out an Amber alert that your son was kidnapped; that is what I would do! Call local and Philly police and alert them ASAP. love you. Call me, and I'll call you back, Kate The latest....> > To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.com> > Date: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM> > > > > > First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:> > http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/> > And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who > called me> at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still > awake please> call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people > here started> awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how> lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept > for about 4> hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a > LOT of email)> > n...I owe ya...> > Hugs> > Akiba> > > >   > > ~*~ Akiba~*~> > ~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~> > My husband left me for another psychic> > I really should have seen that coming. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.comawesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!

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   Oh, hon, I’m so

sorry.  Sadly the police are right – if you and Rob are married, if there is no

court order of custody in place, then Rob has every LEGAL right in the world to

go anywhere he likes with his son… most places won’t issue an Amber Alert in

matters of parental “disagreementâ€, much less a situation like this…

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know each other at all yet (except what I’ve read) but please please call your

local legal aid or anyone else who might know where to get help, and get a

legal separation/custody plan though court!  You and your son deserve better

than this!

Praying for you,

THL Liadain ni Mhordha OFO

" You get a wonderful view from the point of no return... "

wildernesse, the Outlands

http://practical-blackwork.blogspot.com

http://www.flickr.com/photos/liadains_fancies

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Crap, Akiba! Something is NOT right here! You have

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you, I say he LOST his damn rights to his son! I would put out an Amber alert

that your son was kidnapped; that is what I would do! Call local and Philly

police and alert them ASAP. love you. Call me, and I'll call you back, Kate

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  Good – That’s the

first step.

     And take some

comfort, hon – Rob is Robbin’s father,  he will take care of him.  Try not to

worry too much (I know from experience you’re gonna worry regardless). Try to

focus on how to get everything legal so this can’t happen again…

  Prayers,

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From: MSersLife [mailto:MSersLife ] On Behalf Of Akiba

Sent: Tuesday, October 07, 2008 12:16 PM

To: MSersLife

Subject: RE: The

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There IS a court order but I

have to get copies, I don't have them

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From: A Thallas Jr

Date: 10/7/2008 2:01:54 PM

To: MSersLife

Subject: RE:

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Oh,

hon, I’m so sorry. Sadly the police are right – if you and Rob are

married, if there is no court order of custody in place, then Rob has every

LEGAL right in the world to go anywhere he likes with his son… most places

won’t issue an Amber Alert in matters of parental “disagreementâ€, much less

a situation like this…

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know we don’t know each other at all yet (except what I’ve read) but please

please call your local legal aid or anyone else who might know where to get

help, and get a legal separation/custody plan though court! You and

your son deserve better than this!

Praying for you,

THL Liadain ni Mhordha OFO

" You get a wonderful view from the point of no return... "

wildernesse, the Outlands

http://practical-blackwork.blogspot.com

http://www.flickr.com/photos/liadains_fancies

Re: The

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Crap, Akiba! Something is NOT right here! You have

your rights. Your son has his rights. When your husband decided to cheat on

you, I say he LOST his damn rights to his son! I would put out an Amber

alert that your son was kidnapped; that is what I would do! Call local and

Philly police and alert them ASAP. love you. Call me, and I'll call you

back, Kate

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OMG!!!

I saw this coming. That's why I said what I said about visitation. Crap, Akiba. Now, you know why all the smiling up in your face was all about. She's just as bad as he is. I'm sorry. She is no younger version of you. You would never stoop that low. And if you're talking about looks. I don't believe it. Anybody that ugly on the inside, has got to be twice as ugly on the outside.

I am sooooo sorry. I'm so mad now, I'm actually crying over this. I hate to see this happening to you. Now, you watch. He didn't take Robbin out of love. He knows how much you love him and wouldn't let any harm come to him.No, he took him because now he's going to use him as a weapon against you. Mark my word.

Hon, you need to find a lawyer. I know you don't have a lot of money, but they do have services to help in cases like this. I will try on this end to see if there's anything I can do to help. Like I said, my daughter(s) are going through and I have to do it anyway. Tom just said that if we had the money, we'd send you the money to pay for the divorce and whatever it costs to get your son back. He's just as angry about this as I am.

Love you lotz...

Val

MS and BPD Awareness

Subject: The latest....To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM

First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:

http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/

And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who called me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still awake please call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people here started awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept for about 4 hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a LOT of email)

n...I owe ya...

Hugs

Akiba

  ~*~ Akiba~*~

~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~

My husband left me for another psychic

I really should have seen that coming.

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Yayy, n!

You said this way better than how I said it. Yep, we're both on the same page.

Love,

Val

MS and BPD Awareness

Subject: Re: The latest....To: MSersLife Cc: "Akiba" Date: Tuesday, October 7, 2008, 4:37 PM

Akiba, this may be the ONLY reason for considering

legal divorce with custody and divorce proceedings.

This action by Rob will seriously jeaopardize his right

to have anything by UNsupervised vision with Robbin.

You are on SSI/Medicare. Your state may have a

Protection and Advocacy division to assist you as

this does involve income to you. Then there is the

ACLU which sometimes does come through.

This is wrong, and I fault myself for not having antici-

pated this on his part during all this communication.

I hope that you get many posts giveing you good ad

vice, Akiba. Meanwhile, for what it may be worth,

let me hunt up some links which might help. This

guy is the one living with someone to whom he is

NOT married and exposing Robbin to all the effects

of illegal conduct on his part.

I will post you privately with links when I find them.

All the love in the world,

n

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Akiba,

I am so sorry you have to deal with this...what a jerk. Try and be

calm, get the copies you need, and you will get your son back. Did he

tell you he was planning on taking him? Did they say anything? I

can't imagine...I would be livid...I am livid for you! I will be

praying for you and Robbin.

Jolie

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I just found out that the custody case was dismissed, because we didn't go through with the divorce. Dead end. I am too hurt to be livid. p.s. nne, I am wearing your Prayer shawl...it is the only thing physically comforting right now. -- Re: The latest.... Akiba,I am so sorry you have to deal with this...what a jerk. Try and becalm, get the copies you need, and you will get your son back. Did hetell you he was planning on taking him? Did they say anything? Ican't imagine...I would be livid...I am livid for you! I will bepraying for you and Robbin.Jolie

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I'm working on it. I HAVE it think they'll bring him back, so Please don't say things like "mark my words they won't bring him back" Or that they will use his as a "weapon", ok? Thanks Akiba -- The latest....To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM

First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:

http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/

And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who called me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still awake please call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people here started awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept for about 4 hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a LOT of email)

n...I owe ya...

Hugs

Akiba

  ~*~ Akiba~*~

~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~

My husband left me for another psychic

I really should have seen that coming.

[Guest guest]

O.K.

Love,

n

The latest....To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM

First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:

http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/

And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who called me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still awake please call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people here started awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept for about 4 hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a LOT of email)

n...I owe ya...

Hugs

Akiba

  ~*~ Akiba~*~

~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~

My husband left me for another psychic

I really should have seen that coming.

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He is homeschooled. And having him won't put a chink in their "romance" since SHE already has 4 kids, 3 still living with her. He'll just blend in with the crowd -- The latest....To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM

First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:

http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/

And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who called me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still awake please call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people here started awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept for about 4 hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a LOT of email)

n...I owe ya...

Hugs

Akiba

 

~*~ Akiba~*~

~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~

My husband left me for another psychic

I really should have seen that coming.

[Guest guest]

  I am sure they will

bring him back – after all, having a child with them 24/7 is kind of going to

be a damper on the “romanceâ€, if nothing else.  And what about school?

   If I were you, hon,

I would quietly find some legal help and get things going – but I wouldn’t say

a thing about it until my son was safely back in my home.  As soon as he is,

THAT’S the time to serve divorce and custody papers.

  You deserve respect

from this man, as the mother of his child if he can see no other reason.  You

deserve peace and security in your life, and so does Robbin.  Legal action

looks to be the only way to ensure you both get it.

  You are not taking

anything away from Robbin by divorcing – his father has already done this by

his bad conduct.  Setting up a good custody/visitation agreement will give Robbin

the security of knowing where his true home is, and that he won’t be carried

off without warning again. 

  It’s a hard sad

thing to have to give up on a marriage, but sometimes it’s like surgery – the bad

bit has to be cut away for everything else to get better.

   Been there, done

that, praying for you and Robbin.

in WY

" You get a wonderful view from the point of no return... "

http://practical-blackwork.blogspot.com

http://www.flickr.com/photos/liadains_fancies

The latest....

To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.com

Date: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM

First,

I will ask you to read the latest entry in my

Blog:

http://yodamamma.

blogspot. com/

And

next I want to say a Massive Thank You to

Sister n, who called me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my

" if there is anyone still awake please

call me " post, and talked with me until

about 7 a.m when people here

started awakening. After our call ended, we all

went to breakfast (how lovely)(snort) and I

finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept for

about 4 hours and have been reading and

answering email since (I get a LOT of email)

n...I owe ya...

Hugs

Akiba

 

~*~

Akiba~*~

~*~Pragmatic

Visionary~*~

My

husband left me for another psychic

I

really should have seen that coming.

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Sorry,

Never said they wouldn't bring him back home. Only said he would be using him as a weapon. And by that, I meant "Pawn".

Rob knows how much you love Robbin. So, if or when he wants to manipulate you into doing something, he'll use his son to get you to conform. "That is where the "Mark my words came in". Why would I say he'll never bring him back?

MS and BPD Awareness

Subject: The latest....To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM

First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:

http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/

And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who called me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still awake please call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people here started awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept for about 4 hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a LOT of email)

n...I owe ya...

Hugs

Akiba

  ~*~ Akiba~*~

~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~

My husband left me for another psychic

I really should have seen that coming.

[Guest guest]

Sorry Hun, I am just raw nerve these days -- The latest....To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM

First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:

http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/

And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who called me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still awake please call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people here started awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept for about 4 hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a LOT of email)

n...I owe ya...

Hugs

Akiba

  ~*~ Akiba~*~

~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~

My husband left me for another psychic

I really should have seen that coming.

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It's o.k. Akiba,

I'm going to step back now. I'm not good at giving words of comfort or advice. All I know is where my heart is. How I express it is usually misunderstood. I'm used to it. Even though I can't help you with words or advice, I do feel that I can help you through prayer. So, know that you are in my heart and I am praying for you.

Love and blessings...

Val

MS and BPD Awareness

Subject: The latest....To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM

First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:

http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/

And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who called me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still awake please call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people here started awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept for about 4 hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a LOT of email)

n...I owe ya...

Hugs

Akiba

  ~*~ Akiba~*~

~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~

My husband left me for another psychic

I really should have seen that coming.

[Guest guest]

No, Hun, just remember that I am living in a very literal world right now. I am in shock, and trying desperately to cope. I haven't eaten since the night before last and have no desire to. I have nothing even approaching normalcy going on. Just "be gentle" is all I ask. That, and my son home (or me there, I don't give a damn, I just need to be with my baby) -- The latest....To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM

First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:

http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/

And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who called me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still awake please call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people here started awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept for about 4 hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a LOT of email)

n...I owe ya...

Hugs

Akiba

  ~*~ Akiba~*~

~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~

My husband left me for another psychic

I really should have seen that coming.

[Guest guest]

Dear Akiba!I'm SO sorry to hear this terrible news. What the heck happened? Have you heard anything from Rob? What a jerk! Poor Robbin. loveSharonhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/MSersHEALTH/This email is a

natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects.

Subject: The latest....To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM

First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:

http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/

And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who called me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still awake please call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people here started awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept for about 4 hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a LOT of email)

n...I owe ya...

Hugs

Akiba

  ~*~ Akiba~*~

~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~

My husband left me for another psychic

I really should have seen that coming.

[Guest guest]

Akiba, I am so sorry for all the problems you are going through.

Explains a bit about your reaction when I told you I am in the

process of getting a divorce after 31 years of marriage.

I hope you get Robbin back soon and get this all straightened out.

And this makes me even more grateful that our daughter is an adult

and that mine is a amicable divorce. I'm more worried about the

bankruptcy proceedings to follow for both of us than about the divorce.

We will still being doing a lot of things together for a long while

after the divorce. He's going to help me with some things that need

fixing up at the other house we had been using as a rental house and

I am going to be helping when needed with his parents and helping go

through their house looking for papers and sorting things. They are

both in assisted living now, but it still keeps us hopping. Nursing

homes pile a lot of extra work on the family and so does SRS when

they are involved. We have had to give up moving some of my things

several weekends to do paper work and move his folks. We both work 10

to 13 hour days during the week and have a rotating weekend on call

with routes and service calls as they come in. There is just no time

during the week to do every thing.

I'll keep warm thoughts in my heart for you.

Debbie and Ian McKinley (BMD since 93)no

litters Kansas http://home.hit.net/~dimck/

http://www.flickr.com/photos/dimck23/ (200 carting photo)

[Guest guest]

Oh, Akiba, what you must be going through. This is a living nightmare and I am so sorry this is happening.

How is Robbin? I know he's very aware of things going on around him... What does he "know" of this? My words aren't working, are they? I guess I'm wondering if Robbin realizes Rob essentially "stole" him, that it's completely against your will and wishes. Have you been able to speak with Robbin? From what has been said in the past, I'm assuming Robbin wants to come home to you. Is that right?

I was very sorry to read the custody decree never went through. Learning that had to be such a blow to you.

Have you been able to contact Legal Aid yet? I'm hoping they'll be able to help you. Or that someone will. I know here, Legal Aid will only step in if there is abuse. I'm not sure what would happen in a situation like yours. I'm praying someone will help you as you need.

I read the post where you'd written of her children and, basically, one more to the mix wouldn't fumble things up. Yet those are her children. They want to be there. Robbin may not. You'd mentioned Robbin being angry with Rob... Has that changed? That anger, and any other resentment inside Robbin now, will muddle things. Of her children, do any have Autism? That alone can be huge. Add in all the turmoil and upheaval to Robbin's life, and I would be very surprised if he doesn't react strongly... How might she cope with meltdowns and such? Are her children Homeschooled? Can or would they continue Robbin's HSing? Dealing with any other school setting is a heck of a lot to take on... as you and I both know all too well. There are many, many issues playing in here and none make Robbin living with them an easy task or a simple "assimilation" into the family.

Perhaps any of these things would offer hope, or even comfort when you're able to feel it, as you're trying to work through this?

My family and I have been out of town. Now back and I wasn't sure I'd be able to make it to the list today. Then I found a message on my phone from my Mom, as well as two emails sent to me. All about you and what has happened. I came here straight away to read and find out what's going on. There are many, many people who love you. Here and elsewhere. So many pulling for you and so many prayers being said.

Robbin will be home with you again, wherever home may be. You will get through this and we'll all be here with you as you go...

Love,

Challis

Re: The latest....

No, Hun, just remember that I am living in a very literal world right now. I am in shock, and trying desperately to cope. I haven't eaten since the night before last and have no desire to. I have nothing even approaching normalcy going on. Just "be gentle" is all I ask. That, and my son home (or me there, I don't give a damn, I just need to be with my baby)

[Guest guest]

I'm ok. Robbin is ok. It is all going to work out, only thing I'll probably lose (besides my marriage) if the farm. Robbin will..WILL...be living with me, but I am going to need to find a place down there so he can live with me but visit Rob. Same as we were going to do before. I am still going to go for primary custody though...he ain't gettin' off THAT easy... Hugs Akiba -- The latest....To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Sunday, October 5, 2008, 9:43 PM

First, I will ask you to read the latest entry in my Blog:

http://yodamamma. blogspot. com/

And next I want to say a Massive Thank You to Sister n, who called me at about 3:30 a.m in response to my "if there is anyone still awake please call me" post, and talked with me until about 7 a.m when people here started awakening. After our call ended, we all went to breakfast (how lovely)(snort) and I finally got to sleep at about 10 a.m, slept for about 4 hours and have been reading and answering email since (I get a LOT of email)

n...I owe ya...

Hugs

Akiba

  ~*~ Akiba~*~

~*~Pragmatic Visionary~*~

My husband left me for another psychic

I really should have seen that coming.

[Guest guest]

Debbie,

Bankruptcy isn't as bad as they lead you to believe. It is a long

process, but its not so bad. We got our discharge in August. The

only thing that really sucks is that you don't get any income tax

refunds for the year you file...no economic stimulus check for us this

year...no refund when we file this year either But you are free

from those credit card payments. If there is anything I can help you

with, let me know. It really isn't so bad.

Jolie