Guest guest Posted June 4, 2004 Report Share Posted June 4, 2004 Hello All, I am fairly new here. My ds is just over 8 mos. old and I too have been brushed off by peds about his head rounding out on it's own. I still have hope that that may be the case but we are seeing a neurosurgeon on Weds. for what I hope is a more experienced honest 2nd opinion. If you do not mind looking and giving me your truly honest opinion about my ds's head, I would greatly appreciate it. We have been repo'ing him for several mos. now but not as aggressively as I should have in the early mos.(I was scared to death of SIDS of course.) He is in our plagio kids album under Colin F. I really would not like to have to " band " him but if we have to then of course we will. I have seen so much strength in all of you that have gone thru this and it really is admirable. You all have such beautiful children and I am happy to see so much success in their treatment. Thank you so much. Sue Colin F. 8 mos.+(brachy?) NY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 4, 2004 Report Share Posted June 4, 2004 Hi Sue- Welcome to the group. Your son's head resembles the shape of my son . When you get the time please look at his album under ph. I also had a Ped who said, " it will round out " and I was a wreck about the SIDS thing too. I am sorry to say this but this type of head (brachy) is exhausting and it hardly works with repro. without a band (at least for us). I tried repro. from 3- 5months but still sleeping on his back. At 5-7 months I exhausted myself repro. I would wake up throughout the night making sure he didn't roll on his back. I had him sleeping on his side by 5 1/2 months. I would stay home because it wasn't worth having him lay on his back in his car seat. I would wait to do things when my husband was home. After ALL the repro. I saw nothing in all of our toil. It was like the head thought it was suppose to grow outward and stay flat on the back. It was like a pancake head. He needed the band to help his sides of his head to stop growing. I wish we banded him sooner because the growth spurts slow down after 6 months and then slow down after 12 months. I was so stressed out over the head shape, but also banding my child. It is all very upsetting. It is a very hard decision. I am sorry you are in that place right now. I will say that I am glad now that I banded because I see results. The first 2 weeks were horrible. Hopefully you will not be as depressed as I was, but everyone adjusts at their own pace. This website has wonderful, intelligent, caring, mothers. They helped me through a lot. If you do consider banding, look for a 3-d scanner. There is one in White Plains. I do not know of the facility but under Orthomerica they have a listing of the scanners. I say this because the plaster casting literally sucks compared to the very quick and easy 3-d scanner. It takes 2 seconds for the Orthotist to get the measurement and the baby is not under any stress at all in comparison. It was night and day. I have photos of it in my album. Also, try to find the best Orthotist in the area. This is the most important!!! To make a long story short, we had a horrible experience with an Orthotist. We are now in fantastic hands and we are happy with our Starband. Please write me anytime, Krissy ph's mom Starband 5/28/04 On Jun 4, 2004, at 4:20 PM, Sue wrote: > Hello All, > > I am fairly new here. My ds is just over 8 mos. old and I too have > been brushed off by peds about his head rounding out on it's own. I > still have hope that that may be the case but we are seeing a > neurosurgeon on Weds. for what I hope is a more experienced honest > 2nd opinion. If you do not mind looking and giving me your truly > honest opinion about my ds's head, I would greatly appreciate it. We > have been repo'ing him for several mos. now but not as aggressively > as I should have in the early mos.(I was scared to death of SIDS of > course.) He is in our plagio kids album under Colin F. I really > would not like to have to " band " him but if we have to then of course > we will. I have seen so much strength in all of you that have gone > thru this and it really is admirable. You all have such beautiful > children and I am happy to see so much success in their treatment. > Thank you so much. > > Sue > Colin F. 8 mos.+(brachy?) > NY > > > > > For more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2004 Report Share Posted June 5, 2004 Hi Sue, Welcome to the group! I hope we are able to help you with some questions and concerns. I just took a look at Colin's progress photos that you posted - the first thing I notice is that it doesn't look like he's had much of a headshape change in the last 4 months from repo. We used repositioning only for our daughter Remy, and saw the most dramatic improvement from 5 to 7 months, and got a decent amount of correction from 7 to 9 months. If you would like to see what kind of correction we were able to see, her photos are in the photos/before and after/repositioned folder. Repo doesn't/won't work in every case - perhaps the baby has tort, is in daycare, or there may be other children to take care of, or the nighttime repo proves too challenging to keep the baby off of the flat area at night - there are many, many reasons, but the important thing is to know when repo isn't working so that you can move on to other treatment. I'm so glad you took that picture at 4 months, because it does show that you have seen very little, if any, results from repo. You should definitely take these photos to the neurosurgeon's appt. to show him/her the lack of change. I think that Colin looks like, to me, he would benefit from helmeting or banding if you are open to this suggestion. Although I have heard of some babies rounding out on their own, there is no way to tell which ones will and which ones won't. The vast majority of parents here at the group have used helmets or bands, and can help you every step of the way with any concerns you might have it you decide to investigate banding for Colin. Do you know what types of helmets and bands are available in your area? Take care, Christie (Mom to Repo'd Remy) > Hello All, > > I am fairly new here. My ds is just over 8 mos. old and I too have > been brushed off by peds about his head rounding out on it's own. I > still have hope that that may be the case but we are seeing a > neurosurgeon on Weds. for what I hope is a more experienced honest > 2nd opinion. If you do not mind looking and giving me your truly > honest opinion about my ds's head, I would greatly appreciate it. We > have been repo'ing him for several mos. now but not as aggressively > as I should have in the early mos.(I was scared to death of SIDS of > course.) He is in our plagio kids album under Colin F. I really > would not like to have to " band " him but if we have to then of course > we will. I have seen so much strength in all of you that have gone > thru this and it really is admirable. You all have such beautiful > children and I am happy to see so much success in their treatment. > Thank you so much. > > Sue > Colin F. 8 mos.+(brachy?) > NY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2004 Report Share Posted June 5, 2004 Hello, In addition to seeing the neurosurgeon, I would also recommend making an evaluation appointment at an orthotics clinic that specializes in skull remolding helmets. What part of NY are you in? Check out the cranial tech website (for Doc band clinics) and the Orthomerica website (for STAR band clinics) to see if any are near (or within driving distance). The helmet makers have seen all kinds of headshapes and can give you additional assessment information about your son that will help you make decisions. As you can see from reading posts on this site - doctor's opinions of if and when banding is warranted vary greatly. And, in addition, it is really your opinion of your son's headshape that matters more to you and and him than the doctor's opinion. I think at this age (beyond significant repositioning change as others have posted) that the doctor will offer you a prescription for a helmet. I would definitely push for one if he/she doesn't offer - you need it even to have the option of banding (regardless of whether you use it). Having been through 2 bands last year - my experience was that any costs, trouble, stares, etc required to get and have the band did not end up mattering at all in comparison with the possiblity of a deformed head for life. Once we got a band that fit well (beware - choosing the right orthotics provider requires careful selection), my daughter had no problems wearing it - it did not interfere with her activities at all - it just looks unusual. Best Wishes, > Hello All, > > I am fairly new here. My ds is just over 8 mos. old and I too have > been brushed off by peds about his head rounding out on it's own. I > still have hope that that may be the case but we are seeing a > neurosurgeon on Weds. for what I hope is a more experienced honest > 2nd opinion. If you do not mind looking and giving me your truly > honest opinion about my ds's head, I would greatly appreciate it. We > have been repo'ing him for several mos. now but not as aggressively > as I should have in the early mos.(I was scared to death of SIDS of > course.) He is in our plagio kids album under Colin F. I really > would not like to have to " band " him but if we have to then of course > we will. I have seen so much strength in all of you that have gone > thru this and it really is admirable. You all have such beautiful > children and I am happy to see so much success in their treatment. > Thank you so much. > > Sue > Colin F. 8 mos.+(brachy?) > NY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2004 Report Share Posted June 5, 2004 Dear Sue, I know you have received many opinions already. I have not looked at any of them, as I don't want to be biased. Here is what I think, but please know that I am also relatively new here. My baby was DOC banded at 6.5 mo with mild plagio and brachy. She has been in the band for 3.5 weeks now. Here we go. Your baby's brachycephaly looks very similar to Lucia's. That is the conditions I am the most concerned of, as I know plagio can be completely reversed, but brachy can only be " masked " , althuogh it can be masked pretty well, they say. Lucia's plagio is midler than your baby's, still it is " severe " in my eyes. Here is the question that convinced me to band Lucia: she is an adult and asks me, " Why do I have such a flat and pointed head and why didn't you do anything about it?...... In conclusion, I have decided to band Lucia with conditions not as severe (please, note, this is a relative term: your baby's head would not be considered severe) as Colin's. I have also tried repositioning, but that simply allowed the brachy to get where it is now, much worse than when we started. I am sorry you have to make such a painful decision. I have been there and I have not reacted bravely. I was angry at myself mainly, at the doctrs who did not tell me brachy needs to be treated immediately, and at the world, which allowed my beautiful baby's head to become deformed..... Nonetheless, Lucia has now been in the band for 3.5 weeks and, according to her orthotist who saw yesterday, she will be done in another 8 weeks probably. And we are ok. It is not easy, but it is not as difficult as I thought it was. I have found ways to do things with Lucia that would not overheat her head (we live in South FLorida): we go in the pool (with the band, I just pay attention it does not get wet), we go to a children's gym, I will take her to the mountains this summer for a while, my husband and I are doing everything we can to make these few months as easy as possible. Lucia has adapted, the casting was almotst a breeze for us, and she is still a very happy, well-natured baby. If I have convinced you that the band is an option, then I have accomplished what I wanted to. With your gut feeling, with the specialist's opinion, and, last but not least, with all of our opinions, you will be able to take the decision that you and your family can live with. Good luck, you need strength but you already have it if you have come sofar. Hugs, Valeria > Hello All, > > I am fairly new here. My ds is just over 8 mos. old and I too have > been brushed off by peds about his head rounding out on it's own. I > still have hope that that may be the case but we are seeing a > neurosurgeon on Weds. for what I hope is a more experienced honest > 2nd opinion. If you do not mind looking and giving me your truly > honest opinion about my ds's head, I would greatly appreciate it. We > have been repo'ing him for several mos. now but not as aggressively > as I should have in the early mos.(I was scared to death of SIDS of > course.) He is in our plagio kids album under Colin F. I really > would not like to have to " band " him but if we have to then of course > we will. I have seen so much strength in all of you that have gone > thru this and it really is admirable. You all have such beautiful > children and I am happy to see so much success in their treatment. > Thank you so much. > > Sue > Colin F. 8 mos.+(brachy?) > NY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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