Meredith (pg and m/c ment)

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Meredith,

When I found this group I had just found out that I was either SU or

BU. I had suffered four previous losses. My HSG showed either BU or

SU and I was scheduled to have Hys/Lap in January to confirm.

Unfortunately/Fortunately I got pregnant again before we could do the

test. I am 14w3d today.

I started feeling the same way you are feeling now - that most of the

stores offered gloom and doom.

I started wondering if I should even keep reading. However, I have

since decided that knowledge is power. And with the information I

have gained from this site, I feel more in control of my pregnancy.

I have also decided that God forbid something should go wrong with

this pregnancy, I will be able to take control of my fertility and

make an informed decision.

I will tell you that I do not read all of the posts and on certain

days I do not read any of them. That is the beauty of this list - no

required reading.

On the flip side, you can imagine how difficult it might be for some

of the ladies who have not been able to conceive to read postings

like yours and mine. I can empathize with them. When I could not

keep a baby...it was difficult to read about those that could.

I treat this list like a Chinese buffet: Take what you can from the

postings, leave what you do not care for and if you get good service

leave a tip for those that have been of service.

If all else please feel free to contact me offline at

hkrantz@.... I am always glad to talk about the life growing

inside of me.

Take care of yourself.

Hollie - 34

14w3d, BU or SU??