Guest guest Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 Just a friendly reminder... let's try not to bash men on the list, as we DO have some here ... just hiding on the sidelines. ;o) We wouldn't want to scare them away... Thanks much! Jenn <>< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 Just a friendly reminder... let's try not to bash men on the list, as we DO have some here ... just hiding on the sidelines. ;o) We wouldn't want to scare them away... Thanks much! Jenn <>< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 If I made anyone uncomfortable, it wasnt my intention. I apologize. I have a boyfriend, a man himself, and I love him so very much and his gender! Ive just come to recognize my eating disorder as a male gender (and some parts female) because it usually comes in my Fathers voice. > > Just a friendly reminder... let's try not to bash men on the list, as > we DO have some here ... just hiding on the sidelines. ;o) We > wouldn't want to scare them away... > > Thanks much! > > Jenn > <>< > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 If I made anyone uncomfortable, it wasnt my intention. I apologize. I have a boyfriend, a man himself, and I love him so very much and his gender! Ive just come to recognize my eating disorder as a male gender (and some parts female) because it usually comes in my Fathers voice. > > Just a friendly reminder... let's try not to bash men on the list, as > we DO have some here ... just hiding on the sidelines. ;o) We > wouldn't want to scare them away... > > Thanks much! > > Jenn > <>< > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 If I made anyone uncomfortable, it wasnt my intention. I apologize. I have a boyfriend, a man himself, and I love him so very much and his gender! Ive just come to recognize my eating disorder as a male gender (and some parts female) because it usually comes in my Fathers voice. > > Just a friendly reminder... let's try not to bash men on the list, as > we DO have some here ... just hiding on the sidelines. ;o) We > wouldn't want to scare them away... > > Thanks much! > > Jenn > <>< > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 I am so sorry. Sometimes I can be so inconsiderate! If I made anyone uncomfortable, it wasnt my intention. I apologize. I have a boyfriend, a man himself, and I love him so very much and his gender! Ive just come to recognize my eating disorder as a male gender (and some parts female) because it usually comes in my Fathers voice. > > Just a friendly reminder... let's try not to bash men on the list, as > we DO have some here ... just hiding on the sidelines. ;o) We > wouldn't want to scare them away... > > Thanks much! > > Jenn > <>< > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 I am so sorry. Sometimes I can be so inconsiderate! If I made anyone uncomfortable, it wasnt my intention. I apologize. I have a boyfriend, a man himself, and I love him so very much and his gender! Ive just come to recognize my eating disorder as a male gender (and some parts female) because it usually comes in my Fathers voice. > > Just a friendly reminder... let's try not to bash men on the list, as > we DO have some here ... just hiding on the sidelines. ;o) We > wouldn't want to scare them away... > > Thanks much! > > Jenn > <>< > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 21, 2007 Report Share Posted May 21, 2007 , I wasn't pointing fingers at anyone in particular, nor was I trying to " condemn " anyone.... I just made note of this because, since it's usually all the women on the list that are posting, we tend to " forget " that there are men lurking here, too. And, I don't want any of them to feel as though they don't belong here... this group is open to anyone. ;o) Just reminding the group, as a whole, that we are not all " just women " here... ;o) Thanks! (And, my apologies if it seemed like I was singling anyone out ... that wasn't my intent). Jenn <>< > > If I made anyone uncomfortable, it wasnt my intention. I apologize. > > I have a boyfriend, a man himself, and I love him so very much and > his gender! > > Ive just come to recognize my eating disorder as a male gender (and > some parts female) because it usually comes in my Fathers voice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 21, 2007 Report Share Posted May 21, 2007 Jenn ~ No, I didnt think you were singling me out at all! You handled it beautifully. I think positive energy is everyone's goal and if I or anyone else is taking it in another direction I appreciate and support your redirection! I just wanted to make ammends to any men I mightve made uncomfortable. Its important for ME to do that. I really want the men to feel as welcome as the women. I need their input. I hope I didnt sound hostile or confrontational? I didnt even think about it and feel really badly about it. Male bashing makes me extremely uncomfortable and I was surprised in myself to think I couldve been participating. ACK! Please, no need to explain. Just wanted the men to know I was sorry and that they are so welcome. Thats all! Youre a doll! ~~ Love, ))))) > > , > > I wasn't pointing fingers at anyone in particular, nor was I trying > to " condemn " anyone.... > > I just made note of this because, since it's usually all the women > on the list that are posting, we tend to " forget " that there are men > lurking here, too. And, I don't want any of them to feel as though > they don't belong here... this group is open to anyone. ;o) > > Just reminding the group, as a whole, that we are not all " just > women " here... ;o) > > Thanks! (And, my apologies if it seemed like I was singling anyone > out ... that wasn't my intent). > > Jenn > <>< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 21, 2007 Report Share Posted May 21, 2007 Jenn ~ No, I didnt think you were singling me out at all! You handled it beautifully. I think positive energy is everyone's goal and if I or anyone else is taking it in another direction I appreciate and support your redirection! I just wanted to make ammends to any men I mightve made uncomfortable. Its important for ME to do that. I really want the men to feel as welcome as the women. I need their input. I hope I didnt sound hostile or confrontational? I didnt even think about it and feel really badly about it. Male bashing makes me extremely uncomfortable and I was surprised in myself to think I couldve been participating. ACK! Please, no need to explain. Just wanted the men to know I was sorry and that they are so welcome. Thats all! Youre a doll! ~~ Love, ))))) > > , > > I wasn't pointing fingers at anyone in particular, nor was I trying > to " condemn " anyone.... > > I just made note of this because, since it's usually all the women > on the list that are posting, we tend to " forget " that there are men > lurking here, too. And, I don't want any of them to feel as though > they don't belong here... this group is open to anyone. ;o) > > Just reminding the group, as a whole, that we are not all " just > women " here... ;o) > > Thanks! (And, my apologies if it seemed like I was singling anyone > out ... that wasn't my intent). > > Jenn > <>< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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