Guest guest Posted October 13, 2002 Report Share Posted October 13, 2002 > > Where are you now and what is your goal? i am at 195 lbs like i have been since forever, my waist is finally a 35 inch. my goal is a size 9/10 or thereabouts. if i reach a 12 i will be ecstatic but a 10 is my ultimate goal. > > Oh - and I'll be really mean here - how old are you ? 20 > > i also am just starting my journey since january. i really hate the way society thinks of larger or average women. i am the average between a 14 and 16, 16 is a little baggy, 14 fits snug. people look like i'm huge. i feel great walking around untill i see someone that looks like i would like to look. not those super skinny toothpicks that you can see bones sticking out but someone who has muscle tone and a good all around body with great personality. i get jealous of women in mens magazines, but most of them look sickly too me. i can't see why a man would look at women like that and then say that they only want you a certain size and not to go under that. i'm sorry i'm rambling. my fiance doesn't want me below a size 10, because he says i'll look too skinny, but if i have muscle tone it'll be a good size not a skeleton. but anyways i just can't stand to see people starving themselves or people who think they're perfect when it looks like they're sick. anyways i just felt like venting my piece abou that. thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2002 Report Share Posted October 13, 2002 > > Where are you now and what is your goal? i am at 195 lbs like i have been since forever, my waist is finally a 35 inch. my goal is a size 9/10 or thereabouts. if i reach a 12 i will be ecstatic but a 10 is my ultimate goal. > > Oh - and I'll be really mean here - how old are you ? 20 > > i also am just starting my journey since january. i really hate the way society thinks of larger or average women. i am the average between a 14 and 16, 16 is a little baggy, 14 fits snug. people look like i'm huge. i feel great walking around untill i see someone that looks like i would like to look. not those super skinny toothpicks that you can see bones sticking out but someone who has muscle tone and a good all around body with great personality. i get jealous of women in mens magazines, but most of them look sickly too me. i can't see why a man would look at women like that and then say that they only want you a certain size and not to go under that. i'm sorry i'm rambling. my fiance doesn't want me below a size 10, because he says i'll look too skinny, but if i have muscle tone it'll be a good size not a skeleton. but anyways i just can't stand to see people starving themselves or people who think they're perfect when it looks like they're sick. anyways i just felt like venting my piece abou that. thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2002 Report Share Posted October 13, 2002 > > Where are you now and what is your goal? i am at 195 lbs like i have been since forever, my waist is finally a 35 inch. my goal is a size 9/10 or thereabouts. if i reach a 12 i will be ecstatic but a 10 is my ultimate goal. > > Oh - and I'll be really mean here - how old are you ? 20 > > i also am just starting my journey since january. i really hate the way society thinks of larger or average women. i am the average between a 14 and 16, 16 is a little baggy, 14 fits snug. people look like i'm huge. i feel great walking around untill i see someone that looks like i would like to look. not those super skinny toothpicks that you can see bones sticking out but someone who has muscle tone and a good all around body with great personality. i get jealous of women in mens magazines, but most of them look sickly too me. i can't see why a man would look at women like that and then say that they only want you a certain size and not to go under that. i'm sorry i'm rambling. my fiance doesn't want me below a size 10, because he says i'll look too skinny, but if i have muscle tone it'll be a good size not a skeleton. but anyways i just can't stand to see people starving themselves or people who think they're perfect when it looks like they're sick. anyways i just felt like venting my piece abou that. thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2002 Report Share Posted October 13, 2002 > i also am just starting my journey since january. i really hate the way society thinks of larger or average women. i am the average between a 14 and 16, 16 I think one reason society feels the way it does about those who are overweight.....it is becouse when one is obese and overweight it is obvious those people are not taking care of themselvs and it shows!...I can only say this becouse I am overweight...but I am starting to realize how I feel inside is how the world is going to view me.....i mean come on people do you really want to see a 250lb woman selling lengerie....or tight jeans I dont think so, we would all run away screaming.....the gal that posted a few days ago about never being overweight and being a perfect 10.....god bles her....becouse she knows what she wants in life....she knows she looks good....there is not one thing wrong with that.....i would much rather hear a woman say that , than whining constantly about being fat!!! if your fat and unhappy do somthing about it, dont DIS another becouse they are attractive, slim adn trim and take care of themselves... stacy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2002 Report Share Posted October 13, 2002 > i also am just starting my journey since january. i really hate the way society thinks of larger or average women. i am the average between a 14 and 16, 16 I think one reason society feels the way it does about those who are overweight.....it is becouse when one is obese and overweight it is obvious those people are not taking care of themselvs and it shows!...I can only say this becouse I am overweight...but I am starting to realize how I feel inside is how the world is going to view me.....i mean come on people do you really want to see a 250lb woman selling lengerie....or tight jeans I dont think so, we would all run away screaming.....the gal that posted a few days ago about never being overweight and being a perfect 10.....god bles her....becouse she knows what she wants in life....she knows she looks good....there is not one thing wrong with that.....i would much rather hear a woman say that , than whining constantly about being fat!!! if your fat and unhappy do somthing about it, dont DIS another becouse they are attractive, slim adn trim and take care of themselves... stacy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2002 Report Share Posted October 13, 2002 > i also am just starting my journey since january. i really hate the way society thinks of larger or average women. i am the average between a 14 and 16, 16 I think one reason society feels the way it does about those who are overweight.....it is becouse when one is obese and overweight it is obvious those people are not taking care of themselvs and it shows!...I can only say this becouse I am overweight...but I am starting to realize how I feel inside is how the world is going to view me.....i mean come on people do you really want to see a 250lb woman selling lengerie....or tight jeans I dont think so, we would all run away screaming.....the gal that posted a few days ago about never being overweight and being a perfect 10.....god bles her....becouse she knows what she wants in life....she knows she looks good....there is not one thing wrong with that.....i would much rather hear a woman say that , than whining constantly about being fat!!! if your fat and unhappy do somthing about it, dont DIS another becouse they are attractive, slim adn trim and take care of themselves... stacy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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