Guest guest Posted March 26, 1998 Report Share Posted March 26, 1998 Sherry & Dave, is SO right and what words of wisdom. I agree totally that in your attempts to protect yourselves you are already showing how much you love those babies (notice what a fight it is to try not-you've not succeeded!) Love just happens despite ourselves. S. Turbulent emotions! > > >Sherry and Dave; > >>I really want to avoid not bonding with this baby now, because what if the worse happens, and I don't see them alive I will have not bonded with them and missed out on all that love. so I am desperately trying to bond with these babies. but as you mentioned there is this bit of caution that my sub concscious is doing! < > > >Wow! I continue to be impressed by your honesty and your reaching out >for support! > >What you have expressed is an outpouring of your grief and your fear of >again being exposed to the same deep pain that you are still >experiencing now. Grief and this awful pain comes from *very deep >love*. > >As I said in my last post, doesn't want you to be lonely. In his >short time with you he experienced the depth and breadth and height of >your love! knows, more than anyone, just how lucky in the love >department these two babies will be AND ARE!! > >I guess my news flash to you is that just by being yourselves you >*really* are already loving these new lives that are growing inside you >both in utero and in your very beings. Such is love! My friends .... >you have it now and always have had it! These turbulent emotions that >you are feeling is love in its purest and most basic form. Sometimes >love is hard to bear! > >In love and friendship and a big bear <<<HUG>>> for the two of you, > >Jean > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Did you know that we have over 85,000 e-mail communities at Onelist? >http://www.onelist.com >Come visit our new web site and explore a new interest >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Brought to you by www.imdn.org - an on-line support group for those affected by mitochondrial disease. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 1998 Report Share Posted March 26, 1998 Sherry & Dave, is SO right and what words of wisdom. I agree totally that in your attempts to protect yourselves you are already showing how much you love those babies (notice what a fight it is to try not-you've not succeeded!) Love just happens despite ourselves. S. Turbulent emotions! > > >Sherry and Dave; > >>I really want to avoid not bonding with this baby now, because what if the worse happens, and I don't see them alive I will have not bonded with them and missed out on all that love. so I am desperately trying to bond with these babies. but as you mentioned there is this bit of caution that my sub concscious is doing! < > > >Wow! I continue to be impressed by your honesty and your reaching out >for support! > >What you have expressed is an outpouring of your grief and your fear of >again being exposed to the same deep pain that you are still >experiencing now. Grief and this awful pain comes from *very deep >love*. > >As I said in my last post, doesn't want you to be lonely. In his >short time with you he experienced the depth and breadth and height of >your love! knows, more than anyone, just how lucky in the love >department these two babies will be AND ARE!! > >I guess my news flash to you is that just by being yourselves you >*really* are already loving these new lives that are growing inside you >both in utero and in your very beings. Such is love! My friends .... >you have it now and always have had it! These turbulent emotions that >you are feeling is love in its purest and most basic form. Sometimes >love is hard to bear! > >In love and friendship and a big bear <<<HUG>>> for the two of you, > >Jean > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Did you know that we have over 85,000 e-mail communities at Onelist? >http://www.onelist.com >Come visit our new web site and explore a new interest >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Brought to you by www.imdn.org - an on-line support group for those affected by mitochondrial disease. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 1999 Report Share Posted March 26, 1999 thank you, your words are very kind. I told my husband about what you said , that didn't want us to be lonely. he became teary eyed. this group has very many special people! Sherry Bishop Mother to Angel - 6-10-97 11-24-98 GERD, G-Tube, Hypotonia, Hydrocephalus, Visually & Hearing impaired, scoliosis, undiagnosed genetic syndrome, and who has the most pleasant disposition. Now expecting twins 10-16-99. ---------- > > To: mitoonelist > Subject: Turbulent emotions! > Date: Friday, March 26, 1999 8:15 AM > > > > Sherry and Dave; > > >I really want to avoid not bonding with this baby now, because what if the worse happens, and I don't see them alive I will have not bonded with them and missed out on all that love. so I am desperately trying to bond with these babies. but as you mentioned there is this bit of caution that my sub concscious is doing! < > > > Wow! I continue to be impressed by your honesty and your reaching out > for support! > > What you have expressed is an outpouring of your grief and your fear of > again being exposed to the same deep pain that you are still > experiencing now. Grief and this awful pain comes from *very deep > love*. > > As I said in my last post, doesn't want you to be lonely. In his > short time with you he experienced the depth and breadth and height of > your love! knows, more than anyone, just how lucky in the love > department these two babies will be AND ARE!! > > I guess my news flash to you is that just by being yourselves you > *really* are already loving these new lives that are growing inside you > both in utero and in your very beings. Such is love! My friends .... > you have it now and always have had it! These turbulent emotions that > you are feeling is love in its purest and most basic form. Sometimes > love is hard to bear! > > In love and friendship and a big bear <<<HUG>>> for the two of you, > > Jean > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Did you know that we have over 85,000 e-mail communities at Onelist? > http://www.onelist.com > Come visit our new web site and explore a new interest > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Brought to you by www.imdn.org - an on-line support group for those affected by mitochondrial disease. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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