RE: Thanks

[Guest guest]

Kim,

Unlike the warm and fuzzy crowd who grab their teddy bears and pout to their

inner child, I like to rely on the wise 'old' woman inside me. I'm finding

alot more power in me when I listen to her.

Jan

thanks

>

> Thanks for your help. I appreciate the encouragement.

>

> Bob- " You have made the decision to take back your power " -Yah! Great!

>That's great.

>

> Carol- Thanks for the encouragement, but actually Yes, my personal

>power IS really power! For real!Aaargh! And I am NOT a child!Aargh!

>Also it DOES take power to make decisions- to think, read , research

>options, weigh pro's and cons,assess risks. This takes power- brain

>power!Yah! Not to mention time and energy, and possibly money. To

> " decide " to abdicate your decision making power to someone else may

>SEEM less " expensive " in the short run (eg- seems to save you the time

>and effort of thinking for yourself), as we have seen from the AA

>step3, it can turn out to be VERY expensive and disastrous in the long

>run.

>

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[Guest guest]

Amy,

have a wonderfull evening.

sonja

Thanks

I just want to say thanks to all of you who have been answering my

question!

Now it makes sense to me. Anyway, thanks to everyone trying to explain.

I'm

just someone who is really curious. I like to know the why behind

everything! Drives DH nuts!

Sonja, thanks for the congrats. Last night (actually this morning, but

I was

still up so it was last night) I was thinking how 3 years seems like

such a

long time (nothing compared to 30 years, but still) but it doesn't feel

like

we've been together this long. It still feels so new, even with all of

the

things that we've gone through together. I guess it is in comparison to

30

years. I was thinking about how close we are to reaching those

milestone

years--like we're over half way to 5, over a fifth of the way to 10. I

didn't really go much further than that. It just feels so weird!

So, anyway. We're going to go out to eat tomorrow night to celebrate.

We've

got a babysitter already so there's nothing to worry about interfering.

We

thought it would be better to wait 1) bc he has a class tonight. I

don't

want to worry whether or not we'll be gone in time for him to get to

class.

And 2) there won't be as many valentiner's out. This way we get to go

to a

movie too, so.....

Well, I'm gonna go now. I have this rambling thing going on right now.

Amy

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[Guest guest]

Marcie,

I go to a doctor in Madison at the UW Hospital. I live in a little town

called Juneau. It is about 30 miles for me to Madison. My doctor is Omid

Khorram.

Tina

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>HI everyone,

>

>First of all I want to thank all of you who responded to my post about my

surgery last friday, which was unsuccessful. I don't know what i would do

without all of you, it was so wonderful hearing all the support and advice

from others with the same diagnosis. Thank you soooooo much for all your

words of enouragement. Several of my friends still haven't called to see

how it went. Pout!! Like others have mentioned , some people just don't

get it do they?!? I didn't realize how my bad news might affect your hopes

about yourselves until after i posted, and I hope i didn't discourage

anyone. I was so happy to see some successes today, that is wonderful news

from you a and you Tina, I am so glad your surgeries worked!! Tina, i'm

from Wisconsin too, near Madison. Where/who did your surgery 4/10?

>

>Poly good luck at your appt in the UK, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

>

> O, you asked about my son. He will be 3 on Sept 18th. Yes i am so

thankful for him but it is sad to see him growing up especially with the

possibility of not having any more biological children. I'm excited about

your possibility of your sis in law being a surrogate for you. I really hope

that works out for you. Please be easy on yourself , you are not being a

baby after all you've been thru. I hope eventually you will have less pain

and suffering, maybe once your sis in law delivers your

baby.((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

>

>Well I do think I want to try another operative hysteroscopy and maybe it

will be more successful. (On friday the surgeon perforated the uterus right

away so stopped the procedure). Were any of you on hormones preop? I ask

that because my ex-Dr who caused the ashermans was going to put me on

estrogen before the procedure but then I switched to a new Dr and she did

not do that pre-op. Maybe it would help toughen up the lining? When I go

to see her in 2 weeks we will discuss options, but I think I need to try at

least one more time to repair the scarring before i give up on the

possibility of carrying a pg myself. Where is Dr Berger located? I know

some of you (Celeste) have had great success with him and I would like to

ask my Dr to contact him (or I could). The look on my Dr's face when I saw

her after surgery looked like my uterus was in way worse shape than she

thought it would be, or that she was experienced with. Maybe she is aware

of some other specialist in the field too.

>

>I am so sorry we are all suffering from this nasty Ashermans, but

thankfully we have each other to lean on in bad times and rejoice with in

good times. My heart cries for all of you who yearn for a successful

pregnancy ............

>

>Love,

>Marcie

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Marcie,

Hi this is O. First let me say thank you very much for the hugs I

really do appreciate it.It is so nice to talk to someone who

understands. I am hurting for you that several of your friends didn't

call you. People just don't understand do they. When I had to go to

Toronto for my surgery, it was a very strange city, my best friend lives

there so I thought maybe I would be able to get a little bit of comfort

from her but she didn't even tak ethe time to call me. she knew which

hotel I was staying at and didn't even bother so with all the pain and

worrying from the surgery I also was hurt by her. I just don't

understand. So I feel for you. Maybe I am getting carried away with this

but it really hurts when friends don't even bother. Is it because they

are scared, they don't know what to say to us? I can't figure it out for

the life of me.

I am so glad that you are going to try the hysterscopy again. You just

never know, the only thing you can do is try. Good luck with it and let

me know how it goes.

So your son is going to be three in September? Is he going through the

terrible twos? Mine sure is, he wants to do everything by himself now.

Its amazing to watch him learn.It bugs me too that he is all alone I

have just heard so many people say an only child is a lonely child,

hopefully when the are older we can explain to them and they will

understand. I really and truly hope evrything goes well for you. I hope

and pray that one of us will be able to have a succesful pregnancy. Good

luck to everbody and god bless I am thinking about all of you always.

Love,

(((((((((hugs))))))))

Marcie Ross wrote:

> HI everyone,

>

> First of all I want to thank all of you who responded to my post about

> my surgery last friday, which was unsuccessful. I don't know what i

> would do without all of you, it was so wonderful hearing all the

> support and advice from others with the same diagnosis. Thank you

> soooooo much for all your words of enouragement. Several of my

> friends still haven't called to see how it went. Pout!! Like others

> have mentioned , some people just don't get it do they?!? I didn't

> realize how my bad news might affect your hopes about yourselves until

> after i posted, and I hope i didn't discourage anyone. I was so

> happy to see some successes today, that is wonderful news from you

> a and you Tina, I am so glad your surgeries worked!! Tina, i'm

> from Wisconsin too, near Madison. Where/who did your surgery 4/10?

>

> Poly good luck at your appt in the UK, you are in my thoughts and

> prayers.

>

> O, you asked about my son. He will be 3 on Sept 18th. Yes i am

> so thankful for him but it is sad to see him growing up especially

> with the possibility of not having any more biological children. I'm

> excited about your possibility of your sis in law being a surrogate

> for you. I really hope that works out for you. Please be easy on

> yourself , you are not being a baby after all you've been thru. I

> hope eventually you will have less pain and suffering, maybe once your

> sis in law delivers your baby.((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

>

> Well I do think I want to try another operative hysteroscopy and maybe

> it will be more successful. (On friday the surgeon perforated the

> uterus right away so stopped the procedure). Were any of you on

> hormones preop? I ask that because my ex-Dr who caused the ashermans

> was going to put me on estrogen before the procedure but then I

> switched to a new Dr and she did not do that pre-op. Maybe it would

> help toughen up the lining? When I go to see her in 2 weeks we will

> discuss options, but I think I need to try at least one more time to

> repair the scarring before i give up on the possibility of carrying a

> pg myself. Where is Dr Berger located? I know some of you (Celeste)

> have had great success with him and I would like to ask my Dr to

> contact him (or I could). The look on my Dr's face when I saw her

> after surgery looked like my uterus was in way worse shape than she

> thought it would be, or that she was experienced with. Maybe she is

> aware of some othe

> I am so sorry we are all suffering from this nasty Ashermans, but

> thankfully we have each other to lean on in bad times and rejoice with

> in good times. My heart cries for all of you who yearn for a

> successful pregnancy ............

>

> Love,

> Marcie

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

O dear! I forgot about ! She's most certainly in the league with Topper and Janie. Also, I belong to both the naturalthyroidhormones group and The_Thyroid_Support_Group. I get them and who belongs to what group confused. This message of thanks should go to both groups. Please forgive my foggy brain.

Blessings,

Debbie K.

Thanks

I just want to say a big "thank you" Topper and Janie. Words cannot express the good you do here and money could not pay you what you're worth. Many of us come and go in our participation depending on what is going on in our lives, but you stick with it day in and day out. We may take months long breaks, but you never take more than a few days. You're always here to answer the questions (no matter how many times they've been asked before) and to clear up our confusion (no matter how dense we can be). Thank God I found this group and thank God you two are here to moderate.

I also want to thank all the others (whom I won't list b/c I'll forget somebody) that contribute regularly. I have a lot of friends, but you guys are among the best ones I have.

Sincerely,

Debbie K.