Jump to content
RemedySpot.com

Re: new member

Rate this topic


Guest guest

Recommended Posts

Absolutely. I don't think you even have to believe in statistic -- just

visit a classroom of deaf/hoh kids and you will likely see SID in great

abundance. You probably know already, there is a LOT of denial amount

deaf/hoh parents about the condition. I'll even go out on a limb and add

that this particular list is not -- in my view, " SID-friendly " and as such,

I would recommend the Sensory Integration Dysfunction list at onelist.com.

That's not to say there aren't a few who speak up and acknowledge such --

but we are surely in the minority here (mho). I hope you'll join the SID

list -- it's *excellent* -- a very diverse group. (If you need more

specifics on how to join, e-mail me for details).

Best to you!

Dana

rodgers@...

New Member

>From: SBakerandH@...

>

>I have just signed up with Listen-Up and this kind of online group is a new

experience for me. I have a beautiful nine year old girl with a severe

hearing loss, but this is only one challenge for her. She was also

diagnosed as having sensory issues, tactile being the main one and has been

in private OT therapy dealing with Sensory-Integration from age four to

eight. She also has had behavioral and social problems since she was three,

and has been screened twice for ADD, and meeting all of the impulsivity

issues. At this point I am wondering if some of these issues are common

with hearing-impaired children with nerve damage, or if some

things--behavior,or tactile could be influenced by her inability to hear

from birth on. I would appreciate any feedback regarding similar

experiences from other parents as I am overloaded with " professional " input.

>

>Thanks,

>

>Sharon

>

>>All messages posted to this list are private and confidential. Each post

is the intellectual property of the author and therefore subject to

copyright restrictions.

>

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 1 month later...

Welcome ! My name is Suzette and I have a 4 year old daughter() with

severe-profound hearing loss in both ears. She's doing great with her aids.

She's had them for about 1.5 years. I'm in FL, but we can always talk through

this list.

Suzette

mom to , , Allie

Link to comment
Share on other sites

wrote---

I do not know any other parents of deaf or hoh

children in our area (CT) so I am always looking for

people to communicate with and help my family learn

about what we can do for as he grows.

Thanks!

Hi ,

My name is Debbie and I live in CT also!!Where about in CT are you??

I Live in STerling, my son goes to NECHEAR New England Center for Hearing

Rehabilation in Hampton. If you want to meet other families the center is

having a Family Meeting on January 29, if you are interested I can give you

more information!!!

Hope to hear from you.

Debbie

's Mom

__________________________________________________

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Hello Suzette!!

Is she in school? If so does she use an Fm system?

uses the aids and the FM system and boy,

what a diffrence!! He loves them! How do your other

children do with ? I've noticed that my 4 yr old

daughter has a nasal sound to some of her words. I

dont know if its from listening to her brother or just

something shes having difficulty with. Have a great

day!

J.

--- Pamaners@... wrote:

> Welcome ! My name is Suzette and I have a 4 year

> old daughter() with

> severe-profound hearing loss in both ears. She's

> doing great with her aids.

> She's had them for about 1.5 years. I'm in FL, but

> we can always talk through

> this list.

>

> Suzette

> mom to , , Allie

>

__________________________________________________

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Hi Debra,

Wow, your in CT!! How great!! We live in Groton, and

I'm not too sure where Sterling is. I would love to

hear more about this meeting. If we could make it

there I can definitely say we'll be there!! I have not

been told about this center, could you also share some

info about it? Thanks so much!!!

J.

--- Debra Rabideau wrote:

>

>

>

> wrote---

> I do not know any other parents of deaf or hoh

> children in our area (CT) so I am always looking for

> people to communicate with and help my family learn

> about what we can do for as he grows.

> Thanks!

>

> Hi ,

> My name is Debbie and I live in CT also!!Where about

> in CT are you??

> I Live in STerling, my son goes to NECHEAR New

> England Center for Hearing

> Rehabilation in Hampton. If you want to meet other

> families the center is

> having a Family Meeting on January 29, if you are

> interested I can give you

> more information!!!

> Hope to hear from you.

>

> Debbie

> 's Mom

> __________________________________________________

>

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 2 weeks later...

,

Welcome! I absolutely agree, if you're going to have newborn screening,

there have to be supports in place to go from there. My audiologist was

fabulous at giving me the info as I needed it: it was she who directed me

to call my EI program first (even gave me the number), as well as info

about hearing aid places and programs for HOH infants. I am curious about

what benefits your insurance company is not providing for your children.

So far, my HMO has covered everything but the hearing aids, which I know

are the biggest thing. We also have too much money to qualify for aid, and

I am horrified they are not a covered benefit. Isn't hearing at least as

important as seeing? And for someone who needs them to learn language --

well, let's just leave it that I was horrified.

Anyway, I think a whole process would need to be developed, and I think the

only people who will care enough are those who have been affected by it,

especially since it's such a low incidence situation.

Anyway, welcome!

Stefanie

>From: karens1@...

>

My question is, I can see the benefits of newborn dectection

>of hearing loss, but are any steps being taken to work with legislation to

>make it

>mandatory to have insurance companies provide benefits for these infants?

>

>With my two boys we are receiving absolutely no benefits from our

>insurance company.

>And we make too much money to qualify for state or public assistance.

>Any funding I may receive will be from private organizations. It has

>literally been

>a full time job researching, contacting and filling out paperwork for all

>these

>organizations.

>

>I think it would be terrible for a family to have their infant diagnosised

>and

>then have to deal with all these funding issues while adjusting to being new

>parents.

>

>Looking forward to hearing your input.

>

>

>

Link to comment
Share on other sites

,

Welcome to the list. I have a 8 month old daughter who also has a mild

hearing loss. I knew something was wrong from the get go but the doctor had

told me that Madelyn probally just had a attitude problem. This was when she

was a month old. I also have a 6 year old son. I was told not to compare the

two. I did of course.Madelyn was not startling to sounds. I never looked for

that in my son. I guess he just did it and I never thought anything about it.

I am like you. I have learned so much from the list.

Elaine D.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 2 weeks later...

Welcome KW...what's your name? lol!

Good luck on your appointments, we're routing for you! Also, congrats on

the upcoming marriage! I would love to go somewhere with just the closets

family members and do the wild thing! My friend is getting married in May

in Maui on the beach...what more could a person want? Have fun on the

cruise, they're amazing if you've never been...HIGHLY recommended by me!

LOVE THEM! Also, the drinks (if you drink), are the prettiest lil things,

that you almost don't want to drink them!

Dawn

Open RNY 8/9/99

Dr. Sheldon Randall, Lawrence Memorial Hosp.

Down 117 lbs! :)

New Member

From: KWyman9999@...

Hi! I am a new member. I had my first appointment at Brigham & Women's in

Boston on Wednesday and go back for a surgical consult on 2/28. I am 43

years old, 5'4 " , weigh 338 and have a BMI of 60. I have been overweight

since the 6th grade (from 225 to 400 pounds). My friend Kathleen had this

surgery a week ago (Dr. at B & W) and is doing pretty well.

I am trying not to get too excited as I am not at all sure my insurance will

even cover this (Cigna), but I feel as if I have tried everything else.

I moved to the Boston area from CT last summer after I lost my job of 18

years with a law firm there. I am now working for a computer company (great

job and a 50% increase in salary) and living with my fiance'. Life has never

been better, but I dieted off 100 pounds last year (working at the law firm

and as a pharmacy technician at night and taking Fastin) and have regained

38 of those pounds. I want to live a fuller life and not feel the

limitations of this out-of-control body anymore. My fiance' is originally

from England, and we spent a month in France, Italy, Austria, and

Switzerland in 1998 and a month in England, Wales, and Scotland last year.

This fall we are taking a cross-country trip and then going on a 2 week

cruise to Hawaii from San Diego with my parents who are celebrating their

50th anniversary. We plan to be married in Hawaii with just my parents in

attendance. With so many wonderful plans, I cannot believe I can't get my

weight under control.

Well, I have rambled on enough. Forgive me and I look forward to hearing all

of your life stories as well.

---------------------------

Link to comment
Share on other sites

In a message dated 2/12/00 1:04:53 AM Eastern Standard Time,

KWyman9999@... writes:

<< 2 week cruise to Hawaii from San Diego with my parents who are celebrating

their 50th anniversary. We plan to be married in Hawaii with just my parents

in attendance. With so many wonderful plans, I cannot believe I can't get my

weight under control. >>

HEllo mystery named person! LOL!!! Good luck in your journey to WLS....I have

seen tons of Cigna people get approved. Dont sweat it.....All you can do is

document everything as well as you can...and hope your doc can get it

approved for you...if not..try another doc.....LOL

As far as Hawaii is concerned....WE MUST TALK....RUss and I lived there for

almost 4 years....we can tell you where you MUST go and MUST see...and even

suggest the most popular/beautiful place to have your cerimony!

Good LUck!

Carla =)

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Welcome!! Sounds like you have a very rewarding life now and alot of

fantastic things planned for the future with the wls being one of them too.

Congrats on your upcoming marriage that has always been my dream to get

married on the beach in Hawaii. I'm 29, married almost 12 yrs, stay at home

mom, moved to NH from a brief spell in California and prior to that Canada.

I'm glad to hear your friend is doing well!

Lyssa

open rny 6/22/99

DR. Thayer

Newton Wellesley Hospital

From: KWyman9999@...

Sent: Saturday, February 12, 2000 1:03 AM

To: OSSG-NewEnglandonelist

Subject: New Member

From: KWyman9999@...

Hi! I am a new member. I had my first appointment at Brigham & Women's in

Boston on Wednesday and go back for a surgical consult on 2/28. I am 43

years old, 5'4 " , weigh 338 and have a BMI of 60. I have been overweight

since the 6th grade (from 225 to 400 pounds). My friend Kathleen had this

surgery a week ago (Dr. at B & W) and is doing pretty well.

I am trying not to get too excited as I am not at all sure my insurance will

even cover this (Cigna), but I feel as if I have tried everything else.

I moved to the Boston area from CT last summer after I lost my job of 18

years with a law firm there. I am now working for a computer company (great

job and a 50% increase in salary) and living with my fiance'. Life has never

been better, but I dieted off 100 pounds last year (working at the law firm

and as a pharmacy technician at night and taking Fastin) and have regained

38 of those pounds. I want to live a fuller life and not feel the

limitations of this out-of-control body anymore. My fiance' is originally

from England, and we spent a month in France, Italy, Austria, and

Switzerland in 1998 and a month in England, Wales, and Scotland last year.

This fall we are taking a cross-country trip and then going on a 2 week

cruise to Hawaii from San Diego with my parents who are celebrating their

50th anniversary. We plan to be married in Hawaii with just my parents in

attendance. With so many wonderful plans, I cannot believe I can't get my

weight under control.

Well, I have rambled on enough. Forgive me and I look forward to hearing all

of your life stories as well.

---------------------------

Link to comment
Share on other sites

<<Hi! I am a new member. >>

Welcome to our group. It sounds like you have a very busy year ahead of

you. Just think how much more energy you will have to do it all after your

surgery! It sounds like you have an awesome fiance! I hope he supports

your decision and will be as awesome as Russ is!

Dizzy Di

______________________________________________________

Get Your Private, Free Email at http://www.hotmail.com

Link to comment
Share on other sites

<< From: KWyman9999@...

Hi! I am a new member. I had my first appointment at Brigham & Women's in

Boston on Wednesday and go back for a surgical consult on 2/28. I am 43 years

old, 5'4 " , weigh 338 and have a BMI of 60. I have been overweight since the

6th grade (from 225 to 400 pounds). My friend Kathleen had this surgery a

week ago (Dr. at B & W) and is doing pretty well.

>>

Hi K!!

Welcome to the list. I am a lurker normaly,but I went to B & W also , I had

Dr. s but he's leaving so I have to be transfered to another Dr. and

Dr. is on the list. Do you have Dr also,or some one else.

How is Kathleen doing. Liquid diet weeks were the worst.

I live in Mass. near the N.H. border. I never lived anywhere else. I've

traveled

plenty though. My honeymoon was a three part trip ,first San Fran. for5 days

then Hawaii for 2 weeks then Las Vegas for 5 days what a trip. I slept for 2

more

days when we got home. Well let me know how you make out as your adventure

proceeds. Let me know about Dr (if you can take some time and talk

if you can joke with him) I will miss Dr s but his family are getting

older

and he will be closer at the hospital he's going to be at.

Norma

post-op Dec.8th

4'10 "

259/220/112

Link to comment
Share on other sites

somewhere with just the closets

family members

Dawn -- you didn't tell us before that you had CLOSET family

members.....

Hugz, Sandy in MA

Dawn wrote:

>

>

> Welcome KW...what's your name? lol!

>

> Good luck on your appointments, we're routing for you!  Also, congrats

> on

> the upcoming marriage!  I would love to go somewhere with just the

> closets

> family members and do the wild thing!  My friend is getting married in

> May

> in Maui on the beach...what more could a person want?  Have fun on the

>

> cruise, they're amazing if you've never been...HIGHLY recommended by

> me!

> LOVE THEM!  Also, the drinks (if you drink), are the prettiest lil

> things,

> that you almost don't want to drink them!

>

> Dawn

> Open RNY 8/9/99

> Dr. Sheldon Randall, Lawrence Memorial Hosp.

> Down 117 lbs! :)

>

> New Member

>  

>

> From: KWyman9999@...

>

> Hi! I am a new member. I had my first appointment at Brigham & Women's

> in

> Boston on Wednesday and go back for a surgical consult on 2/28. I am

> 43

> years old, 5'4 " , weigh 338 and have a BMI of 60. I have been

> overweight

> since the 6th grade (from 225 to 400 pounds). My friend Kathleen had

> this

> surgery a week ago (Dr. at B & W) and is doing pretty well.

>

> I am trying not to get too excited as I am not at all sure my

> insurance will

> even cover this (Cigna), but I feel as if I have tried everything

> else.

>

> I moved to the Boston area from CT last summer after I lost my job of

> 18

> years with a law firm there. I am now working for a computer company

> (great

> job and a 50% increase in salary) and living with my fiance'. Life has

> never

> been better, but I dieted off 100 pounds last year (working at the law

> firm

> and as a pharmacy technician at night and taking Fastin) and have

> regained

> 38 of those pounds. I want to live a fuller life and not feel the

> limitations of this out-of-control body anymore. My fiance' is

> originally

> from England, and we spent a month in France, Italy, Austria, and

> Switzerland in 1998 and a month in England, Wales, and Scotland last

> year.

> This fall we are taking a cross-country trip and then going on a 2

> week

> cruise to Hawaii from San Diego with my parents who are celebrating

> their

> 50th anniversary. We plan to be married in Hawaii with just my parents

> in

> attendance. With so many wonderful plans, I cannot believe I can't get

> my

> weight under control.

>

> Well, I have rambled on enough. Forgive me and I look forward to

> hearing all

> of your life stories as well.

>

> ---------------------------

Link to comment
Share on other sites

closest....duh

New Member

From: KWyman9999@...

Hi! I am a new member. I had my first appointment at Brigham & Women's

in

Boston on Wednesday and go back for a surgical consult on 2/28. I am 43

years old, 5'4 " , weigh 338 and have a BMI of 60. I have been overweight

since the 6th grade (from 225 to 400 pounds). My friend Kathleen had

this

surgery a week ago (Dr. at B & W) and is doing pretty well.

I am trying not to get too excited as I am not at all sure my insurance

will

even cover this (Cigna), but I feel as if I have tried everything else.

I moved to the Boston area from CT last summer after I lost my job of 18

years with a law firm there. I am now working for a computer company

(great

job and a 50% increase in salary) and living with my fiance'. Life has

never

been better, but I dieted off 100 pounds last year (working at the law

firm

and as a pharmacy technician at night and taking Fastin) and have

regained

38 of those pounds. I want to live a fuller life and not feel the

limitations of this out-of-control body anymore. My fiance' is

originally

from England, and we spent a month in France, Italy, Austria, and

Switzerland in 1998 and a month in England, Wales, and Scotland last

year.

This fall we are taking a cross-country trip and then going on a 2 week

cruise to Hawaii from San Diego with my parents who are celebrating

their

50th anniversary. We plan to be married in Hawaii with just my parents

in

attendance. With so many wonderful plans, I cannot believe I can't get

my

weight under control.

Well, I have rambled on enough. Forgive me and I look forward to hearing

all

of your life stories as well.

---------------------------

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 2 weeks later...

Welcome !!! Glad you joined us.

My background. Married, 2 kids, 2 cats, I " m 29 and live in Merrimack ... so

hope to meet you soon!

I had surgery the day after you too which I thought was neat .. June 22.

Mine was done by Dr. Thayer in Newton Ma but so far I haven't had any probs

.... I hope you get that revision approved asap along with your hernia

repair.

Apprx 27 list members are getting together on Sunday the 27th at Chilis in

Burlington at 2 pm .. casual meet. You are MORE than welcome to attend. Im'

bummed out a bit because I won't be able to make this one but I have a good

excuse. I'm flying home to visit my parents in a total surprise visit shhh!!

lol so it will be worth it.

What sort of dogs do you have?

Take care, talk to you soon & looking forward to getting to know you better.

Hugs

Lyssa

New Member

Hi everyone. I'm a new member...

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Carla, I't's a good thing that Mr. Grabass isn't attending on Sunday...you

know I love him...but that comment about everyone being younger than Jo and I

has to be avenged!!!! The Unmasked Avenger - Annie

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Annie

Don't worry about revenge, Russ is having his surgery in May. I can't wait.

I'll have to try to remember how much it hurts to laugh with that cough pillow.

And ya know Carla will be right there helping us. I know we can get Diane or

Dr. Randall to order a few extra tests for him. How does barium enema or

colonoscopy sound.

Jo

Re: New Member

From: AnnieC1953@...

Carla, I't's a good thing that Mr. Grabass isn't attending on Sunday...you

know I love him...but that comment about everyone being younger than Jo and I

has to be avenged!!!! The Unmasked Avenger - Annie

------------------------------------------------------------------------------

------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Link to comment
Share on other sites

<< I'm 31 and live in Manchester. I'm single and have two kids (Chico

and Freckles...yup they're my dogs! LOL) It's been a lonely 8 months.

I didn't use the internet much before and live too far away for the

Boston Beth Israel/Deaconess support group. I'm glad I'm finding you

guys now! >>

Welcome !!!

I am and I too live in Manchester. Glad to see you join the list.

SHANNON

Link to comment
Share on other sites

In a message dated 2/25/00 6:21:27 PM !!!First Boot!!!,

huggybuggy@... writes:

<< You just gotta watch out for Carla, Russ, , Jo, and Annie....they

talk too much we can't hear anything :)

Blondie (Dawn)

OH COME ON, I WAS AS QUITE AS A MOUSE. HE HE HE!!!

SHANNON

Link to comment
Share on other sites

In a message dated 2/26/00 7:25:19 PM !!!First Boot!!!, AnnieC1953@...

writes:

<< A barium enema or a

colonoscopy....they are both so horrible that I vote for both!!! >>

I'LL HAVE TO REMEMBER TO STAY ON EVERYONE'S GOOD SIDE. JO AND ANNIE- DID I

TELL YOU HOW FABULOUS THE TWO OF YOU YOUNG LOOKING BEAUTIES ARE???? I HAD A

C-SECTION, I REMEMBER HOW I HATED TO LAUGH!!! UGH

SHANNON

Link to comment
Share on other sites

In a message dated 2/26/00 7:41:20 PM Eastern Standard Time, ssavoia@...

writes:

<< Send in a male nurse to start washing him up..lol He wont enjoy that quite

as

much as the female nurse...lol

>>

AHHHH RIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGHT

Link to comment
Share on other sites

In a message dated 2/26/00 8:38:49 PM Eastern Standard Time,

theenaildoctor@... writes:

<< No he wont like a male nurse thats for sure. I remember being in ICU and

they

came in in the morning and started moving me all over the place...i thought

i

was gonna just pop open! NOt a fun time! OUCH!

Carla =0)

D >>

Sorry ladies, it is part of my pre-op tests ..... no gay, i mean guy nurses

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Loading...
×
×
  • Create New...