Up-Date,Doctor Visit. and vent :( (long sorry)

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HI Everyone:

Went to the doctor today..

he put me on Bextra. for the pain says it is an anti-inflamatory medication..

I told him I have been having terrible Migraines. he told me there is two possivle cause's for this.. 1. I may have an anuriziam(sp?) 2. I may have MS.. Great way of keeping my stress level down...

I do not have MS. and I am absolutly positive I do not have MS.. any ways.

He want's to send me to the Nurologist.. thank goodness I know this Doctor very well. he is my hubby's and his brothers. Nuro..

He took a bunch of blood today.. is checking for Arthritis. which he knows I already have. RA. and I think he called it Osteoarthritis. I'm not sure on that one right now.. and says he is checking to see if I have MS. OMG. do I look that stupid!!!! You CANNOT determine if somebody has MS by a blood test!!!!

there is ONLY 2 sure way's of knowing if a person has MS. well actually 3. MRI. of the Brain. Brain Byopsy.(No Fricken way!!)and a spinal tap.. I know they have been trying to perfect other ways of testing people for MS.(Multiple Sclerosis) but to my knowledge they still do not have a blood test for it..

Most of you know I was signed up for Jury Duty. and for got all about (wounderful Fibro Fog) and I have a hearing set for Dec,2. at which time I am supposed to show up with an excuse from my doctor. explaining my condition and why I didn't show up for jury duty..

The ass refussed to give me an excuse of any kind.. so that mean's come Dec, 2. I will proble end up in county Jail for two weeks. My stress level and BP is on over drive..

DH and I have not been speaking.. he is being a royal pain in my rear end.. All he want's is SEX!!! I am so sick of it.. ok ok don't get me wrong I enjoy being intimate with my hubby. But not when that is all he want's 24/7.. If I do not give him sex. he refuse's to pay the house hold bill's. by grocrie's and so on.. needless to say. our light bill is behind. I got a shut off notice today.. and last month he begged me to get a loan on MY blazer (yes it's mine not his) to pay "HIS" phone bill.. so I did believing him when he promised me that he would make sure the payment's got made.. well the payment was due last week.. they called me this afternoon..he didn't make the payment and I know he has the money. hell he didn't pay anything else. so he has got to have the money...

Guesse I should clear someting up.. jake and I was married in 92. after years of verbal abuse..and tired of the BS. I got a divorce in 2002.. after I left he and I started dating again and worked things out or so I thought. we got back to gether but NOT married we was supposed to go to vegas and get married in July but we couldnt afford it and well I can't eave dad alone that long.. But I still consider him my husband. we have been together for 14 years.. It has been a long and very hard 14 years..

Oh my goodness I have been rambling and rambling..

Thanks for letting me vent

Gentle Hug's to all

Marie

pretty_n_cute2002@... messanger same name'smarieava@...my_blue_eyes67@...

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He doesn't pay the bills if he doesn't get sex?? When you dumped him the first time you should have left him dumped. Promises mean nothing when they're not fullfilled. Sorry, but your post really got me angry. I couldn't imagine living that way. I never would. My dh came home in a bad mood tonight and I told him if he didn't like the way things are (the kids were out of control) when he comes home, then damn it, don't come home. Just make sure you send your pay check here. I never was one to put up with any abuse of any kind.

Good luck!!

Margaret,mom to the monsters

Up-Date,Doctor Visit. and vent (long sorry)

HI Everyone:

Went to the doctor today..

he put me on Bextra. for the pain says it is an anti-inflamatory medication..

I told him I have been having terrible Migraines. he told me there is two possivle cause's for this.. 1. I may have an anuriziam(sp?) 2. I may have MS.. Great way of keeping my stress level down...

I do not have MS. and I am absolutly positive I do not have MS.. any ways.

He want's to send me to the Nurologist.. thank goodness I know this Doctor very well. he is my hubby's and his brothers. Nuro..

He took a bunch of blood today.. is checking for Arthritis. which he knows I already have. RA. and I think he called it Osteoarthritis. I'm not sure on that one right now.. and says he is checking to see if I have MS. OMG. do I look that stupid!!!! You CANNOT determine if somebody has MS by a blood test!!!!

there is ONLY 2 sure way's of knowing if a person has MS. well actually 3. MRI. of the Brain. Brain Byopsy.(No Fricken way!!)and a spinal tap.. I know they have been trying to perfect other ways of testing people for MS.(Multiple Sclerosis) but to my knowledge they still do not have a blood test for it..

Most of you know I was signed up for Jury Duty. and for got all about (wounderful Fibro Fog) and I have a hearing set for Dec,2. at which time I am supposed to show up with an excuse from my doctor. explaining my condition and why I didn't show up for jury duty..

The ass refussed to give me an excuse of any kind.. so that mean's come Dec, 2. I will proble end up in county Jail for two weeks. My stress level and BP is on over drive..

DH and I have not been speaking.. he is being a royal pain in my rear end.. All he want's is SEX!!! I am so sick of it.. ok ok don't get me wrong I enjoy being intimate with my hubby. But not when that is all he want's 24/7.. If I do not give him sex. he refuse's to pay the house hold bill's. by grocrie's and so on.. needless to say. our light bill is behind. I got a shut off notice today.. and last month he begged me to get a loan on MY blazer (yes it's mine not his) to pay "HIS" phone bill.. so I did believing him when he promised me that he would make sure the payment's got made.. well the payment was due last week.. they called me this afternoon..he didn't make the payment and I know he has the money. hell he didn't pay anything else. so he has got to have the money...

Guesse I should clear someting up.. jake and I was married in 92. after years of verbal abuse..and tired of the BS. I got a divorce in 2002.. after I left he and I started dating again and worked things out or so I thought. we got back to gether but NOT married we was supposed to go to vegas and get married in July but we couldnt afford it and well I can't eave dad alone that long.. But I still consider him my husband. we have been together for 14 years.. It has been a long and very hard 14 years..

Oh my goodness I have been rambling and rambling..

Thanks for letting me vent

Gentle Hug's to all

Marie

pretty_n_cute2002@... messanger same name'smarieava@...my_blue_eyes67@...1. While it is wonderful to share our experiences with everyone on the list as to what treatments do and don't work for us, pls always check with your dr. Some treatments are dangerous when given along with other meds as well as to certain health conditions or just dangerous in general.2. If you are in a difficult situation (doesn't matter what it is) pls don't be afraid to ask for help. It is the first step to trying to make that situation better.Have a nice day everyone.

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You truly deserve a long vent.. I am so sorry that things are bad. What on earth is wrong with your doc? I know mine would give me a letter at the drop of a hat. I hope someone else in the group can think what you can do. Was that your PCP? Is there a specialist who could provide you with a letter?

Then to get no support from your husband.. ugh.. there are some nasty people around and he seems to be one. Every Fibro sufferer should be issued with a really nice soul mate by way of compensation, lol.

Hugs

Penny

On 16/11/2004 01:58:01, fibromyalgia_support_group wrote:>> > Most of you k I was signed up for Jury Duty. and for got all about (wounderful Fibro Fog) and I have a hearing set for Dec,2. at which time I am supposed to show up with an excuse from my doctor. explaining my condition and why I didn't show up for jury duty..The ass refussed to give me an excuse of any kind.. so that mean's come Dec, 2. I will proble end up in county Jail for two weeks. My stress level and BP is on over drive..DH and I have not been speaking.. he is being a royal pain in my rear end.. All he want's is SEX!!! I am so sick of it.. ok ok don't get me wrong I enjoy being intimate with my hubby. But not when that is all he want's 24/7.. If I do not give him sex. he refuse's to pay the house hold bill's. by grocrie's and so on.. needless to say. our light bill is behind. I got a shut off notice today.. and last month he begged me to get a loan on MY blazer (yes it's mine not his) to pay "HIS" phone bill.. so I did believing him when he promised me that he would make sure the payment's got made.. well the payment was due last week.. they called me this afternoon..he didn't make the payment and I know he has the money. hell he didn't pay anything else. so he has got to have the money...Guesse I should clear someting up.. jake and I was married in 92. after years of verbal abuse..and tired of the BS. I got a divorce in 2002.. after I left he and I started dating again and worked things out or so I thought. we got back to gether but NOT married we was supposed to go to vegas and get married in July but we couldnt afford it and well I can't eave dad alone that long.. But I still consider him my husband. we have been together for 14 years.. It has been a long and very hard 14 years..Oh my goodness I have been rambling and rambling..Thanks for letting me ventGentle Hug's to allMarie

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Marie,

A healthy person should have that much going on in their life. You definitely don't need that. 14 years is a long time, but he sounds like a jerk. Pardon me for being candid. And as for the Dr, they always seem to try to blow off our problems. I have had all of the tests for those things also and I think that is their way of shutting us up. I have yet to find a Dr that I trust completely.

I will pray for you. Vent all you want. You definitely have just cause.