Re: Friends, thanks for listening

[Guest guest]

Kim I did not know you live in Nashville. I just moved away from

there last yr.

Donna

>

> to my rant about my husband. ly, I don't know what the future

> holds for us, if he is just taking out his frustration about my

> illness on me or if he is serious about leaving. I am too sick and

> exhausted to fight right now (meaning a divorce and big legal

> battle). His family is very wealthy (we don't have any of the money

> though, or I would work a lot less) but they would help him pay for

> the best attorney in Nashville, even though they know he is a real

> stinker sometimes. I can't afford to pay $5000 as a retainer for a

> good attorney, which is what a good one costs in Nashville (average

> is @ $350/hour for a top notch atty).

>

> Right now, I am behaving passively I guess, as I don't have much

> fight in me, and am still reeling from these new illnesses. I am

> definitely still stuck in the greiving stage and having many pity

> parties.

>

> My husband is not all bad. He is good with the kids now that they

are

> older, and has taken them for their shooting lessons today and then

> they are going to this great Christian skateboard park in Nashville

> afterwards. He even took them to chirch for me last Sunday as I was

> in the bed most of the day.

>

> I am not the doormat-type though, and will not put up with verbal

> abuse for long, if it doesn't get better quick. But divorce is

> something I do not want, after almost 20 years together, but if it

> ends up being the best thing, I will know when it is time.

>

> I appreciate all of you so much for listening and caring:)

> Love, Kim

[Guest guest]

Kim,

When I was divorced (in Nashville) my lawyer's fee was $500.00, flat fee.

I don't know what it would be now. She was really good, and she's the

type to go for the throat. And she wins.

Her name is Helen S , here's her url

http://www.helenrogerslaw.com/

.. She used to be in the L & C tower, but I guess she moved since then. Here's her current info....

Helen Sfikas

Attorney at Law

The Wind in the Willows Mansion

2205 State Street

Nashville, Tennessee 37203

Office:

Fax:

Email: helen37203@...

cyn

At 04:53 PM 11/6/2004 +0000, wrote:

to my rant about my husband. ly, I don't know what the future

holds for us, if he is just taking out his frustration about my

illness on me or if he is serious about leaving. I am too sick and

exhausted to fight right now (meaning a divorce and big legal

battle). His family is very wealthy (we don't have any of the money

though, or I would work a lot less) but they would help him pay for

the best attorney in Nashville, even though they know he is a real

stinker sometimes. I can't afford to pay $5000 as a retainer for a

good attorney, which is what a good one costs in Nashville (average

is @ $350/hour for a top notch atty).

cyn

clmerritt@...

" Not bad for my first time with a gun. I shot that sucker right in the gumpy. "

-J. Evanovich

[Guest guest]

> Kim,

> When I was divorced (in Nashville) my lawyer's fee was $500.00,

flat fee. I

> don't know what it would be now. She was really good, and she's the

type to

> go for the throat. And she wins.

> Her name is Helen S , here's her url

http://www.helenrogerslaw.com/

Thanks Cyn, I will save her info just in case.

Kim