Guest guest Posted October 29, 2004 Report Share Posted October 29, 2004 What made me feel really bad was that he didn't call me all day long to see how I was doing. His excuse was that he figured I'd be sleeping and he didn't want to wake me up. That doesn't wash, because usually he calls me several times a day, and if I'm not awake he leaves a message on the answering machine. It is true that I sleep all day and I'm up all night, but still, he could have called. And, he actually guilt-tripped me into ironing his clothes to wear to work today. As you said, MEN!!!!. I left a really nasty message on his voice mail at work before took me to the hospital.....I said I was going to the hospital and not to bother staying home from his other job to come to the hospital because would be staying with me; I still can't see out of my left eye today, but I'm hoping that once the swelling goes down and the pressure on my eye lessens the vision will come back. I can see bright lights, so I think it's starting to come back. cyn At 11:02 PM 10/27/2004 -0700, Lianne Crisci wrote: Please go to the ER, this is serious and I can not believe your husband is acting like this, well, on another thought yes I can...MEN!! Lianne cyn clmerritt@... site mod for Neo-Slither site mod for Humourists site mod for List-Helper site mod for HerpChat site mod for Herp-Photography site mod for Fibromyalgia_Support_Group owner & mod for Creamsicle owner & mod for HerpMods Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2004 Report Share Posted October 29, 2004 Cyn, I know what you mean about men. If I had to do it over again (getting married) I am not so sure I would. I feel like all my hubby has really cared about all along since diagnosed with Hashimotos and FMS is how much less often we have sex. It is his only issue with me being sick I think and really hurts my feelings. So I can empathize about having a partner that doesn't seem to care. I am so sorry yours is behaving like a jerk. But I know how you feel. It hurts. Love, Kim (your TN neighbor) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2004 Report Share Posted October 29, 2004 Than you, Penny! my son came over (he works about 10 minutes away) and took me to the hospital, and stayed with me until they got around to tests that he couldn't be there for. But it made me feel really good to have him there. He said he was really going to rag on about neglecting me, but I told him not to. I don't want bad feelings between my kids and husband. If I ever do need an ambulance, the fire dept is less than a mile away, and the hospital is also a mile away, in the other direction. There is a woman across the street from me who is BiPolar (as I am) and has Fibro as well. I've seen the ambulance there a few times. I can't believe we've lived so close to each other and never met. I don't know if I should walk across the street and introduce myself, or if she wants to be left alone. cyn At 06:18 AM 10/28/2004 +0000, pennylutwyche wrote: , I just spoke to my ex husband in the US and he tells me you can ring 911 and an ambulance will take you to ER. Won't you do that? Penny cyn clmerritt@... site mod for Neo-Slither site mod for Humourists site mod for List-Helper site mod for HerpChat site mod for Herp-Photography site mod for Fibromyalgia_Support_Group owner & mod for Creamsicle owner & mod for HerpMods Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 6, 2004 Report Share Posted November 6, 2004 , He told me he figured I was sleeping and didn't want to disturb me. Our answering machine has an annoying beep that sounds every time someone leaves a message, and it wakes me up and puts me in a foul mood, because I have to get up and listen to the message or it'll beep all day. I was ready to stomp the thing into tiny shards when I noticed a small switch on the back that said " message alert " and I switched it off so now it doesn't beep at me. So now he has no excuses. cyn At 08:05 AM 11/2/2004 -0800, Tarvin wrote: Oh Cyn. That is just terrible! Did he ever apologize? Site-Mod Merritt wrote: What made me feel really bad was that he didn't call me all day long to see how I was doing. clmerritt@... yahoo im id cynmerritt site mod for Neo-Slither site mod for Humourists site mod for List-Helper site mod for HerpChat site mod for Herp-Photography site mod for Fibromyalgia_Support_Group site mod for FSGMODS owner & mod for Creamsicle owner & mod for HerpMods Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 7, 2004 Report Share Posted November 7, 2004 I was ready to stomp the thing into tiny shards OMG Know this feeling very well... when my phone rings all the dang day long and I have to get up to get it or find it or whatever and then there is no one on line.... or they just like breathe... I have definitely felt like taking the dang phone and tossing it clear to china .. but then i would hurt worse.. BUT it would be worth it Huggles you lots Sophia -- Re: Scared/cynthia ,He told me he figured I was sleeping and didn't want to disturb me. Our answering machine has an annoying beep that sounds every time someone leaves a message, and it wakes me up and puts me in a foul mood, because I have to get up and listen to the message or it'll beep all day. I was ready to stomp the thing into tiny shards when I noticed a small switch on the back that said "message alert" and I switched it off so now it doesn't beep at me. So now he has no excuses.cynAt 08:05 AM 11/2/2004 -0800, Tarvin wrote: Oh Cyn. That is just terrible! Did he ever apologize? Site-Mod Merritt wrote: What made me feel really bad was that he didn't call me all day long to see how I was doing. clmerritt@...yahoo im id cynmerrittsite mod for Neo-Slither site mod for Humourists site mod for List-Helper site mod for HerpChat site mod for Herp-Photography site mod for Fibromyalgia_Support_Group site mod for FSGMODSowner & mod for Creamsicle owner & mod for HerpMods 1. While it is wonderful to share our experiences with everyone on the list as to what treatments do and don't work for us, pls always check with your dr. Some treatments are dangerous when given along with other meds as well as to certain health conditions or just dangerous in general.2. If you are in a difficult situation (doesn't matter what it is) pls don't be afraid to ask for help. It is the first step to trying to make that situation better.Have a nice day everyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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