~ miscarriage, please help

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Oh ... I'm sooooo sorry that this happened to you. hugs to you

{{{{{{{{{{{{{ KAREN }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

I've only been pregnant twice and miscarried both times. Unfortunately,

I haven't been able to get pregnant since the last miscarriage and now

I'm 47 and I don't think it would be wise both because of my age and my

huge list of medical problems that I'm really trying to work on. My

last pregnancy had me on full time bedrest and progesterone

suppositories, yet is was still not meant to be.

When you miscarry, your body still hasn't gotten it's hormone levels

back to normal so you will feel more emotional right now. It will take

time, but your body will bounce back. As for your emotions, allow

yourself to grieve. You experienced a loss. To me a miscarriage is

still the loss of a child and needs to be grieved for. You need to

grieve for the child, grieve for your loss, and what both of you as a

couple have lost. Your significant other will be in almost as much pain

and sadness as you are, but may not be able to express them the same way.

Don't be afraid to cry and don't be afraid if he does as well... These

are healing tears and I promise you that it will get better with time.

I wish I could give you a massive hug right now as I know exactly what

you are feeling. We are all here for you anytime you need us. Take

care sweetie... and allow yourself this time to recover.

extremely gentle and healing hugs,

Norah

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keen_karen wrote:

>hi all,

> i found out that i was pregnant just in time to have a

>miscarriage. we were not ready to have children, but this is turning

>out to be harder to deal with than i had expected. i know that this

>is a really personal question, and i hope i don't offend anyone by

>asking it, but has anyone else had problems with miscarriages? i

>would like to know if it is normal for people with fibro.

>hugs,

>karen

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