Guest guest Posted April 23, 2006 Report Posted April 23, 2006 Hey Bill, I'm glad you can come to us with questions too. As you know I've asked some very embarrassing questions regarding my numbness in my private area and was hard for me to talk about since it seems no one wants to talk about it, but it doesn't go away. I've had some great responses to people that made feel much better , thank you all, you know who you are. The SEX### lovemaking questions never really get talked about but as a lot of us MS'r know, MS does affect the female in that department with not having the normal sensation and yes it is frustrating cuz I'm not a freak but this is how MS has affected my life with it. I'm very fortunate like you with Juday, my hubby is soooooo very understanding and having an intimated relationship isn't just having intercourse and havving a "O". Just hugging, tourching, kissing, holding hands is in this same category. I feel so lucky that hubby is always affectionate in those ways and he know it is not my fault with MS and I tell him ALL the time that it is not HIM that isn't pleasing just the good old no feeling sensation. So YES, keep the chocolates coming. It is good too talked to a loved one with intimated problems in details as to how it affects MS because since we always comunitcate very well it has helped trememndously, he doesn't feel he isn't pleasing me and I tell him how he does when he calls just to say he loves me and we joke around about poor ( as Judy calls it) and we have nicknames too. Humor is definitely the best to have. Yes we have our moments all right but It is amazing how I have friends that do not have MS and have a completely normal sx life but they are not happy and I know why, to them it is wham bam thank you mam...and I notice a lot, not everyone doen't get the cute hugs, hand holding foot massaging or whatever that makes it up. Hey you know what is real good to do and is intimate. I will give my hubby a nice body massage. I put oil on his back and had a hand wood massager and he loved it. It made him feel so special. BUT that is for him for that night, they we will trade off another night and he cane give me a nice back/neck leg massage. It's nice this way cuz you feel special and when you get the nice massage after being nice and relaxed you don't have to go massage the other person, cuz after relaxing who wants to have to get up and start putting oil/massage on a back when your all drooly with relaxation. Anyway, all of you, it is a great way to relieve stress and to keep a nice intimated relationship with your spouse without having to assume it will lead to others. Just that and it's a blast. Hugs Darlene Kickin Cane covers WWW.canecovers.org --* Something's wrong... > > I am so upset! Seems like I'm starting to lose my mind! I used to be a > really good speller. But for some reason, I can't seem to remember how > to spell even the simplest words. It's a good thing I have spell check > on here. And even with that, I still have problems occasionally. I'm > having problems keeping on track also. I can be writing a sentence, > then forget what I'm writing before getting to the end of the > sentence. It wouldn't be so bad, except the sentences aren't that > long! I'm forgetting everything these days. I'll start the wash and > forget to put it in the dryer. It will sit there until I happen to > think about putting a load in to wash and find that the washer is > already full. > <http://www.incredimail.com/index.asp?lang=9 & version=5002206 & setup_id=7 & aff_id=101 & addon=IncrediMail & id=95202 & guid=63556C7C-A6F7-4A8F-A658-063E7288FF73> > I put food in the microwave to heat up. If I don't stand there and > wait for the food to heat up, I'll forget and it will sit there until > I happen to open the microwave door heat something up again. > > Is it just me? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > FREE emoticons for your email! click Here! > <http://www.incredimail.com/index.asp?id=96846> > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > YAHOO! GROUPS LINKS > > * Visit your group "MSersLife > <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/MSersLife>" on the web. > * Quote
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