Guest guest Posted September 6, 2001 Report Share Posted September 6, 2001 YVONNE & JO, AFTER 41 YRS OF MARRIAGE, U HAVE TO LIKE YOUR MATE FIRST!!! THEN THE FRIENDSHIP, THEN THE LOVE, THEN THE PASSION, AND SOMEWHERE IN ALL THIS, IS ACCEPTANCE OF THE PERSON'S FAULT'S, 'CAUSE THERE AIN'T NO WAY A MAN CAN CHANGE A WOMEN, AND LIFE HAS GOT TO OF TAUGHT U MEN WILL NEVER CHANGE!! THEY ARE WHAT THEY ARE FROM THE FIRST DATE UNTIL DEATH!!! NOW TO SAY SOMETHING ON HERE THAT I DO NOT TALK ABOUT IN FRONT OF STAN AND THAT IS, IN MY FIRST MARRIAGE HE WAS A PIMP (I KNEW NOTHING), HE WAS AN ALCOHOLIC, AND HE FOOLED AROUND WITH DRUGS!!! AND THAT'S HOW HE DIED!!! I DON'T TALK ABOUT IT NOT BECAUSE HE DOESN'T KNOW CAUSE HE DOES, BUT 'CAUSE IT HURTS HIM TO KNOW WHAT I WENT THROUGH!!! HE WILL EVEN CRY IF I MENTION IT!!!!! SO FOR 41 YRS. I NEVER MENTION IT WHEN HE'S AROUND!!! AND ANOTHER REASON WHICH IS THE MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL, BECAUSE I LIKE THIS MAN, AND HE IS MY FRIEND FOR LIFE I WOULD NEVER ON PURPOSE HURT HIM!!!!!! NOW WHEN U PUT ALL THAT TOGETHER IT SPELLS " LOVE " !!! LUV YA' MOM THANKS YVONNE BUT I AM A FIRM BELIEVER IN THAT YOU HAVE TO BE FRIENDS FIRST TO STAY MARRIED. CAUSE IF YOU AREN'T FRIENDS THEN ONCE THE ALL CONSUMING PASSION ENDS THERE HAS TO BE A BASIS FOR THE RELATIONSHIP TO WORK. EVEN AFTER YEARS AND YEARS RIGHT MOM AND BIRDIE? LUV JO http://community.webtv.net/jowaca/JOSFAVORITEPICTURES Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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