Re: Digest Number 1566

[Guest guest]

hi guys... i got this problem with my boyfriend.. well u know men they

sometimes are unfaithful and yes i found out. We are in a cool-off period

now.. but i love him...

U can say im weird .. but i want him back... Im praying so hard for

enligthenment and for us to realized how much we love each other... Please

pray for our intention too..

thanks...

[Guest guest]

Hi, Cherry -

Prayer and intentions are two very important aspects of this situation

.... for both of you. I believe you should have a sincere heart to heart

talk with your boyfriend, talk about the situation as openly as you can,

but don't expect any resolution from talking about it the first time.

This whole situation is going to take time to work through. He may not

have lost your love, but he's lost your trust and only time will tell if

that trust can be restored.

Do you love him enough to give him a chance to regain that trust? Do

you love him enough to give your relationship the time it needs to

heal? Do you love him enough ... to forgive him?

You may not have it in your heart right now to forgive him, but that can

come in time AND through prayer. You need to have both.

Does he have the kind of qualities you're looking for in a lifetime

partner? Is your relationship only based on love? Or are you the best

of friends as well? The best and longest lasting marriages started with

the best of friendships as their foundations and then built their love

on top of it. That way, no matter what struggles you have through your

life, you can still look forward to facing them and working them out

with your very best friend. The love is and added bonus to make it a

bit easier.

Is your boyfriend sincerely sorry for what's happened and willing to do

anything and everything to make things right? Or is he just sorry he

got caught?

I may have asked a lot of questions, but I hope I've offered you some

serious food for thought.

Remember ... it's going to take time, so be patient with him and yourself.

And pray!

Jace Carlton

Co-Moderator

cherry t. wrote:

> hi guys... i got this problem with my boyfriend.. well u know men they

> sometimes are unfaithful and yes i found out. We are in a cool-off period

> now.. but i love him...

>

> U can say im weird .. but i want him back... Im praying so hard for

> enligthenment and for us to realized how much we love each other... Please

> pray for our intention too..

>

> thanks...

>

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