Guest guest Posted September 5, 2002 Report Share Posted September 5, 2002 Hi -- Here's a big moving HUG!! ((())) Well, I have a tiny suspician that Nada MIGHT be moving because she's trying to " escape " dealing with her problems head on!! She sees a problem -- her problem is that she is BPD. She doesn't want to deal with any of that, so she tries to " escape " and physically moves from apartment to apartment. I don't blame you for having many, complicated feelings swarming around in your head like a hive of bees!!! But it sounds like you're figuring it out VERY WELL!! And that is great!! Maintain your boundaries !! Keep posting here and you will figure out what you should do. It really helps me to read what other people are figuring out about their own lives. I've already seen a pattern with my brother than I never figured out before!! Being cruel, and then turning it around and feeling sorry for himself and saying he's in " pain " -- just like Nada!! I think I might have that flea myself and am thinking about whether I do this too. Keep writing and thinking -- be patient with yourself and kind to yourself!! As Edith always asks: " What nice thing are you going to do for yourself today? " Barb > Hi everybody, > My sister tells me on the phone tonight that Nada is planning to move > to Illinois in mid-September. My first reaction was GOOD! Now I a Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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