Guest guest Posted July 3, 2002 Report Share Posted July 3, 2002 Hi : Maybe invite the neice over when other people will be visiting that you also don't like? Ha, ha --- but honestly -- that works sometimes!! For instance my in-laws were totally obnoxious!! So, I invited them over when my parents came over -- I figured maybe they'd all gross each other out!! Ha, ha!! But maybe be an " actress " with your daughters and see the neice once in a while -- FOR A LIMITED TIME!! Like, invite her for dinner at 4:30 p.m. so she'll leave by 8 p.m. at the latest. something like that. Just an idea! Barb > Hi All, > I am needing help with a niece issue girls. Niece is 18, will be 19 in July, has a baby soon to be 3. I honestly don't want to see her anymore, she has used my husband and I and we gladly helped her out when her father wasn't around and the noam hated her. She is used to getting free haircuts and such since she lives on her own and > doesn't make much money - I always felt obligated to help. My > husband says she is a user and a manipulator just like her parents - > true - I see this. She doesn't need us now, so we don't see her. > But I don't want her here anymore since she can not treat us the > same as she did before her father and the nom didn't help her. The > problem is, my youngest and her do things together and both of my > daughters will tell me: be nice mom and why be mad at her mom and > she is your niece mom and ....I'm sure you can fill in the rest. My nieces baby cries so much, she has never allowed the child to " feel safe " so he is constantly crying after her, she rarely puts him down to walk and do things on his own. I hate seeing that behavior and I tried to help her out when he was a baby because she conditioned him to cry after her - so young and all, no parent to help her, so I tried to encourage her. So, she knows everything and is the " bestest " grand daughter now (noam never liked her before), so > she is in her good graces. How do I be nice, yet let my daughters > know I don't want her here etc.?? I am tired of being used by her. > She never comes around unless she wants something!!! Thanks for > input. I hope you can make sense of this!! > Hugs to All of you - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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