on a need to know basis

[Guest guest]

How much do you tell you OCD children? My mother has been ill from cancer for

three years now, my dd knows. But now my mother has taken a turn for the worse

and my dd is just doing so well at the moment that I do not want to tell

her.Today she is at her first birthday party without me ever.... (hip hip hurra)

My plan is only to tell her if I can see that grandmother is going to the point

of now return.......?

I should probably talk to her dr. about that I know, but what are your

experiences?

Ivalo