Re: CFS & Divorce

[Guest guest]

I was sorry to read your post, is a divorce I sure thing? Is there no way to

work things out? Is he living because you are sick? If so ,well I will keep

those thoughts to myself.

I recently stepped out on my own and I was scared to death but I made it,

now that is stress. So many things to think about, where to live and how to

pay for it? If I can be of any help, please let me know.

Kate

Also new friends to make

In a message dated 6/12/2006 10:56:12 PM Pacific Standard Time,

poodiejoe@... writes:

Yes, I am not the same woman he married 15 years ago. In some ways

worse and in many ways better. I can't make him stay with the 'new' me

but I also don't want him to leave. It's a helpless and hopeless

situation. So how do I survive when I have no family nearby? Where do

I go, how do I live on my own?

I'm scared and sad. But worst of all clueless about getting divorced

when I have CFS.

P.J.

[Guest guest]

P.J.

I'm so sorry you are going thru marriage difficulties along with CFIDS. I

know it puts a terrible strain on the marriage. Has your husband told you he

wants a divorce?

Jane

poodiejoe wrote:

Yes, I am not the same woman he married 15 years ago. In some ways

worse and in many ways better. I can't make him stay with the 'new' me

but I also don't want him to leave. It's a helpless and hopeless

situation. So how do I survive when I have no family nearby? Where do

I go, how do I live on my own?

I'm scared and sad. But worst of all clueless about getting divorced

when I have CFS.

P.J.

[Guest guest]

Hi,

Try to see if you have any support groups in your area for divorce or

bereavement. They are very helpful. You will get there, one day at a time..

Jeanette

CFS & Divorce

Yes, I am not the same woman he married 15 years ago. In some ways

worse and in many ways better. I can't make him stay with the 'new' me

but I also don't want him to leave. It's a helpless and hopeless

situation. So how do I survive when I have no family nearby? Where do

I go, how do I live on my own?

I'm scared and sad. But worst of all clueless about getting divorced

when I have CFS.

P.J.

[Guest guest]

--- wow a double wammy

bad enough the disease

will you take some suggestions for the problem

if you are willing i do believe we might be able to improve things for

you ....

if yuo are not willing or resistant to trying a few things ....

not what else can i do

buthaving a n attitude of i am willing to try almost anything and

realty try

then you have reached a point where new seeds may germinate

phil

then In CFAlliance , " poodiejoe " wrote:

>

> Yes, I am not the same woman he married 15 years ago. In some ways

> worse and in many ways better. I can't make him stay with the 'new'

me

> but I also don't want him to leave. It's a helpless and hopeless

> situation. So how do I survive when I have no family nearby? Where

do

> I go, how do I live on my own?

> I'm scared and sad. But worst of all clueless about getting divorced

> when I have CFS.

> P.J.

>

[Guest guest]

Phil, I would be very interested in what you have to suggest also. Most days, I

feel my marriage is teetering on the brink. Not sure where to turn, my husband

is strictly against any kind of counseling and I know in my heart, we cannot

continue on the path that we are on.

Jane

pjb12345uk wrote:

--- wow a double wammy

bad enough the disease

will you take some suggestions for the problem

if you are willing i do believe we might be able to improve things for

you ....

if yuo are not willing or resistant to trying a few things ....

not what else can i do

buthaving a n attitude of i am willing to try almost anything and

realty try

then you have reached a point where new seeds may germinate

phil