work on core belief

[Guest guest]

Thank you, Margaret. " I need someone to love me. " Yes, that's

definitely a belief that's causing turmoil. Always, as far back as i

can remember. It's ancient.

-heidi

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" I need someone to love me. "

1. Yes! Of course it is! (The #1 question makes me angry right now.)

2. I'm supposed to say NO here.

3. Needy. Desperate. Clinging. Grasping. Pathetic. Ashamed. Little.

Dependent. Tight chest and heart. Obsessive thoughts. Fear. Panic.

Afraid of being alone. [i must say i'm better than i used to be b/c

in the past--years ago--the taking away of love or my perception of

losing it from key people, made me want or try to end it all. I think

it's a testament to a core of love for myself, or something greater

than my ego-self, that i don't sink to that depth anymore. But, the

underlying pain is still there, intensely so. Has anyone worked on

such underlying beliefs and moved on from them in freedom?]

4. Free, so free. Oh-so-free. Light in my heart and chest. Soft

thoughts. No thoughts? Warm. Love.

TA I don't need someone else to love me.

I need to love myself (and give love from that free place)

I need to love others.

> > " I'm afraid of being unloved, losing love, not

> gaining love.

>

> I would like to hear from you... wisdom, comfort, thoughts on where

> to start, if you can relate... "

>

> Heidi,

>

> My thought is it's not a question of knowing where to start, you're

> already fullblast into it. You are living the pain of not having a

> secure source of love on the outside -it's a good place to be

> sweetheart. It comes in waves, intense at times, I don't believe

> there are any shortcuts through this pain and I could be wrong.

>

> I need someone to love me. That seems like the belief that's

causing

> the turmoil. Maybe you could do the Work on that and it doesn't

mean

> the pain will leave because this is such a core belief but it will

> give you clarity and direction.

>

> The crucifixion and then the resurrection......you loving you.

>

> Love, Margaret