Guest guest Posted January 22, 2004 Report Share Posted January 22, 2004 there's some really good answers to learn, like " oh " or " mmm " or " you don't say, " or imagine a toothpick between your lips and you are holding it in place, preventing your lips from opening. People like this provoke us to re act then their psychic pain transfers to us, leaving us shaking. That is the energy. Last week I woke up with a rash on my face, and then remembered a friend visiting me and provoking me. I forgot and re acted so she won. No wonder she left looking happy and releaved. duh when will I ever learn, take what you like and leave the rest. bye for now Beverley. enough Well, tonight I borrowed the car from the man and when I got back he told me his old girl friend was getting out of the psy ward and would start cooking for him. I was shocked. I said OK and he just started verbally attacking me. " why are you looking like that " . " why are you saying OK? " I said " it is your choice. He started again on me. I finally broke and told him to stop picking on me. I didn't deserve to be attacked everytime I open my mouth. I have been sick for 3 days. I told him I won't cook anymore. I don't want to get into the middle of them. He said I can still use his car. I was shaking for an hour after I left. I just don't need to be abused by him. He treats his girl friend like crap in public. Picks at her. In a way I am relieved. Less contact. this whole relationship has been such a stress for me. I can't be my caring self. He is smothering and gets mad at everything I say and won't let go of the fact that me(52) doesn't want him(87). I don't like him as a friend or anything. I am telling myself that wonderful things will happen. I am worthwhile and miracles will happen. They've happened before.......and enough of him. I'll eat not as good but it will be worth it. I won't have to bite my tongue every day and feel belittled anymore. He isn't a nice man. I took abuse my whole life from my parents, my ex husband. ENOUGH! ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2004 Report Share Posted January 23, 2004 I agree with Charlene's response ine. I think you are better off without the stress that he was giving you. Keep up with the positive thinking, it is working already! Love & Laughter, Andie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2004 Report Share Posted January 23, 2004 thanks, I keep telling myself I am free now. ine Original Message: ----------------- From: Tilley andrea.tilley@... Date: Fri, 23 Jan 2004 12:26:18 -0500 To: AffirmationstoDe-Stress Subject: RE: enough <html><body> <tt> I agree with Charlene's response ine. I think you are better off<BR> without the stress that he was giving you. Keep up with the positive<BR> thinking, it is working already!<BR> <BR> Love & Laughter,<BR> Andie<BR> <BR> <BR> </tt> <br> <tt><hr width= " 500 " > <b> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 Dear ine, Sorry to be getting in on the message thread so late -- I've been sick -- but, I'm proud of you for making this decision! You deserve better! You are a caring, special person and I'm hoping that just as this " door seems to have closed " in the respect, that it is time to move on and be more independent from your neighbor, I'm praying that god will " open another window " to give you some relief, and so you will still have your independence!! Taking care of yourself, loving yourself -- is always correct!! Good for You!!!! Love & Hugs, PJ shreiman wrote: Well, tonight I borrowed the car from the man and when I got back he told me his old girl friend was getting out of the psy ward and would start cooking for him. I was shocked. I said OK and he just started verbally attacking me. " why are you looking like that " . " why are you saying OK? " I said " it is your choice. He started again on me. I finally broke and told him to stop picking on me. I didn't deserve to be attacked everytime I open my mouth. I have been sick for 3 days. I told him I won't cook anymore. I don't want to get into the middle of them. He said I can still use his car. I was shaking for an hour after I left. I just don't need to be abused by him. He treats his girl friend like crap in public. Picks at her. In a way I am relieved. Less contact. this whole relationship has been such a stress for me. I can't be my caring self. He is smothering and gets mad at everything I say and won't let go of the fact that me(52) doesn't want him(87). I don't like him as a friend or anything. I am telling myself that wonderful things will happen. I am worthwhile and miracles will happen. They've happened before.......and enough of him. I'll eat not as good but it will be worth it. I won't have to bite my tongue every day and feel belittled anymore. He isn't a nice man. I took abuse my whole life from my parents, my ex husband. ENOUGH! ine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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