OT/ Ain't life grand...starting over sooner than expected.

[Guest guest]

I knew it. I have brought this subject up before and it seemed to

take on a life of its own back then. But I knew this day was coming

and I tried very hard to prepare for it, but there is only so much

preparing you can do with RA. I took on contractor work from home

to get prepared financially and the next thing I knew is that I was

in the hospital with blood clots in the lungs, fluid around my heart,

cat scratch fever, failing kidneys, etc. It has been a long recovery

and I am still recovering, but I was just told by a very upset

husband on his way from work that he is considering leaving his job,

getting a divorce, then finding something he really wants to do. In

that order. I knew this was coming. There were just too many

hints. He paced like a mad man while I was in the hospital. He

didn't want to be there. Not everyone is in agreement with the vow

that says through sickness and health. And I knew that, so I tried

to prepare but looks like the rug has been pulled from underneath

me. I am not shocked and devastated but I do need to get myself

together and I rather not wait until the last minute.

Okay, the house is not paid for, so that means I will be starting

over with very little means to start over if he will be quitting the

job first then divorcing, strange isn't? You can e-mail me

personally with how you started over with little cash.

Thanks.

Ebony