Guest guest Posted July 20, 2008 Report Posted July 20, 2008 Hi Everyone.....this is a very sore subject for me, too, since last Nov. For those of you who don't know Gareth and I that well, Gareth has grown up traveling on airplanes and crossing the US with moves every 2-4 yrs. He knows what to do and what to expect. We have used a wheelchair for over 5 yrs now and he knows that he goes through security and gets 'waned' down. We have never had a bad experience till last Nov on a USAir flight from Philly to Phoenix. We were seated in 3 seats across next to the emergency doors mid plane....something we have done for yrs. Well, right before the plane was to depart, two of the front stewards (ess) came back and talked to the people 3 rows behind us. DH had his nose in a book and G was just sitting there. I glanced around to notice that they were talking about us. I said to Ter " they are going to have us move. " The next thing I know is that the family of 3 was standing up to come to our spots. The head lady said " we want you to move. This is an emergency door and your son has special needs. " I said " no way. What is the problem? " " Well, if there is an emergency, can he open the door? " " Yes....he's been on planes and knows the procedure. " Well.......that didn't cut it with her. She and the guy started throwing out questions, bam, bam, bam, to Gareth and he just sat there totally flabbergasted. We ended up having to move so the plane could take off. Man............I was so pissed I couldn't see straight!!! Sooooooooooooooo, at the end of the flight, I take Gareth's PSU ID card. When we get to the door way, I go to the two SOB's and show it to them right in front of their faces. Very calmly, I said, so everyone could hear " See this. This is my son's PSU ID card. He is a freshman at Penn State University this fall. My son has DS and Autism. He stutters badly and you two never gave him a chance to respond to your questions. You insisted we move because he couldn't respond to you fast enough. You took one look at him and ASSUMED he was brainless. " I turned and walked away. The next thing really surprised me......... I hear the USAir lady YELLING at me down the ramp " Don't you talk to me like that. My boyfriends' son has DS. " I never turned around to respond to her because I would have said " then, I feel sorry for that kid. " The whole time we were in Phoenix I figured we would be banned from flying home, but we didn't. If nothing else, the airlines definitely need some education on developmentally delayed individuals. Sorry this got so long. I usually don't write long letters. Take care, Everyone. Margaret **************Get fantasy football with free live scoring. Sign up for FanHouse Fantasy Football today. (http://www.fanhouse.com/fantasyaffair?ncid=aolspr00050000000020) Quote
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