encouragement thanks

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Thanks for the words of encouragement it helps.During the last month Mic has

started hitting me and shoving me. Yesterday he shoved me and I was at the top

of the cellar stairs and down I went.He is constantly shoving me and if I tell

him no he hits me.Needless to say I am black and blue all over. Maybe something

is going on with him maybe hes getting sick or maybe since hes grown so much in

2 months hes just throwing his weight around.I am hoping this is just a phase he

will get over.Talked to the director of his school and as soon as we get settled

in the city they will send a behaviorist to the house and see if I cant get some

kind of control over him.I wish I was a bigger person and a stronger person. Mic

has grown so much I just cant handle him. He will hit me one minute and the next

minute he hugs me, I just dont get it. He saw me crying after the cellar fall

and he knew something was wrong because he hugged me he just didnt realize it

was his shoving me that made me

fall and cry.He doesnt seem to understand he causes pain his behavior is up at

school to and hes shoving the other kids and hitting, so they are implementing a

behavior plan.Just frustrated and worried Ill get thru this.I just dont

understand it or why hes doing it. He knows because he looks for his Dad before

he lets me have it if Dads around he doesnt do it as much. Even my dh is worried

hes trying so hard to teach Mic he cant shove and hit.Thanks to all of you for

your kind words I was having a really bad day and just got overwhelmed. Laurie