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Jayne,

I feel that if you have a gut feeling that more is going on than just DS,

then you need to get a thorough evaluation done by a pediatric psychologist.

Based on his activity level, you should probably ask for an ADHD eval too.

Unless your son is hearing impaired, lack of speech is reason enough for an

Asd eval. A lot of professionals simply label a DS child without speech as

severely developmentally disabled without looking for another reason. The

fact is that most kids with DS talk. If they are not, there is a reason.

My daughter was not diagnosed until 11 yo. Partly due to my own lack of

knowledge about ASD. She is also non-verbal. She had some pretty blatant

ASD behaviors such as head banging, self stim with dangly objects, rocking,

spinning, difficulty with transitions or change in routine, fleeing the

home. It took a new teacher and a new school one day to recognize these as

symptoms of ASD.

I think every special ed teacher in America ought to have to take a course

in ASD in order to recognize the kids, like ours, who are slipping through

the cracks and not getting diagnosed because their behaviors are getting

chalked up to their congenital disability.

Therese Mom to 13 yo DS PDD

> Hi,

>

> I am new to this group...my son is 9 and is a twin to his sister

> who has no problems.

> is diagnosed with Down Syndrome, but I have always felt that

> something else was going on.

> I believe he has some form of autism, I believe PPD, however, we were

> just at Sick Children's Hospital and they said because his social

> skills are so strong they did not feel he met the criteria.

> He can't speak, maybe 10 words, he signs most of the time, and

> gestures.

> He is a social little guy, and likes to be around people and be

> cuddled but he has other characteristics that I think are not DS but

> autism such as: reluctant to try food, bolts from us all the time and

> takes off, little speech, high tolerance to pain, hates sirens and

> certain loud noises, like to watch lights, extremem over activity,

> just to name a few.

> I feel that wanting to socially be around people and try to

> commincate with them, especially with an over ambundace of hugs and

> kisses is largely due to the DS.

> I am very fustrated, and my husband and can hardly keep up any more

> and he is just into everything every minute.

> Does anyone have any comments or suggestions.

>

> Thanks,

> Jayne

>

>

>

>

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Jayne: I had somewhat of the same experiences you have with our Tori, 4.5 yrs.

She was just dx with ASD in Feb. The best way is again to have her evaluated by

a pediatric psychologist. Observation of behaviors is the best way. Tori

showed much more than just sensory issues and my gut feeling was she had ASD.

Unfortunately, I didn't want to be right this time and was. But the sooner you

get the diagnosis, the quicker you can get the extra services the child needs.

Liz-Mom to Tori

Re: My son

Jayne,

I feel that if you have a gut feeling that more is going on than just DS,

then you need to get a thorough evaluation done by a pediatric psychologist.

Based on his activity level, you should probably ask for an ADHD eval too.

Unless your son is hearing impaired, lack of speech is reason enough for an

Asd eval. A lot of professionals simply label a DS child without speech as

severely developmentally disabled without looking for another reason. The

fact is that most kids with DS talk. If they are not, there is a reason.

My daughter was not diagnosed until 11 yo. Partly due to my own lack of

knowledge about ASD. She is also non-verbal. She had some pretty blatant

ASD behaviors such as head banging, self stim with dangly objects, rocking,

spinning, difficulty with transitions or change in routine, fleeing the

home. It took a new teacher and a new school one day to recognize these as

symptoms of ASD.

I think every special ed teacher in America ought to have to take a course

in ASD in order to recognize the kids, like ours, who are slipping through

the cracks and not getting diagnosed because their behaviors are getting

chalked up to their congenital disability.

Therese Mom to 13 yo DS PDD

> Hi,

>

> I am new to this group...my son is 9 and is a twin to his sister

> who has no problems.

> is diagnosed with Down Syndrome, but I have always felt that

> something else was going on.

> I believe he has some form of autism, I believe PPD, however, we were

> just at Sick Children's Hospital and they said because his social

> skills are so strong they did not feel he met the criteria.

> He can't speak, maybe 10 words, he signs most of the time, and

> gestures.

> He is a social little guy, and likes to be around people and be

> cuddled but he has other characteristics that I think are not DS but

> autism such as: reluctant to try food, bolts from us all the time and

> takes off, little speech, high tolerance to pain, hates sirens and

> certain loud noises, like to watch lights, extremem over activity,

> just to name a few.

> I feel that wanting to socially be around people and try to

> commincate with them, especially with an over ambundace of hugs and

> kisses is largely due to the DS.

> I am very fustrated, and my husband and can hardly keep up any more

> and he is just into everything every minute.

> Does anyone have any comments or suggestions.

>

> Thanks,

> Jayne

>

>

>

>

> --------------------------------------------------

> Checkout our homepage for information, bookmarks, and photos of

> our kids. Share favorite bookmarks, ideas, and other information by

including

> them. Don't forget, messages are a permanent record of the archives for our

> list. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/

> --------------------------------------------

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Therese,

You are right, I think most Dr.'s are to quick to diagnose DS kids

that are non-verbal has having a more severe development capability.

The thing with is that he is very social, but I think that is

because of the DS, but he does have some other traits.

Just when I see other DS kids, that only have DS, is not like

them at all. It took him to be involved in a special needs hockey

group that really made me see this.

I go back to Sick Kids Hospital on the 20th and I just want to armed

and ready to go ... it is hard to want to convince some one that you

think something else is wrong with your child, I am not looking for

problems but I know there is something else going on with .

Thanks for your comments.

Jayne

>

> > Hi,

> >

> > I am new to this group...my son is 9 and is a twin to his

sister

> > who has no problems.

> > is diagnosed with Down Syndrome, but I have always felt that

> > something else was going on.

> > I believe he has some form of autism, I believe PPD, however, we

were

> > just at Sick Children's Hospital and they said because his social

> > skills are so strong they did not feel he met the criteria.

> > He can't speak, maybe 10 words, he signs most of the time, and

> > gestures.

> > He is a social little guy, and likes to be around people and be

> > cuddled but he has other characteristics that I think are not DS

but

> > autism such as: reluctant to try food, bolts from us all the time

and

> > takes off, little speech, high tolerance to pain, hates sirens and

> > certain loud noises, like to watch lights, extremem over activity,

> > just to name a few.

> > I feel that wanting to socially be around people and try to

> > commincate with them, especially with an over ambundace of hugs

and

> > kisses is largely due to the DS.

> > I am very fustrated, and my husband and can hardly keep up any

more

> > and he is just into everything every minute.

> > Does anyone have any comments or suggestions.

> >

> > Thanks,

> > Jayne

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > --------------------------------------------------

> > Checkout our homepage for information, bookmarks, and

photos of

> > our kids. Share favorite bookmarks, ideas, and other information

by including

> > them. Don't forget, messages are a permanent record of the

archives for our

> > list. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/

> > --------------------------------------------

> >

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Hi Liz,

Is your daughter verbal? Does she show the classic signs of ASD or

PDD?

I feel like I am taking this crash course in autism trying

deseperatley to figure out why my son is different from other DS kids.

I think the hard thing with is that he is so socialable, and he

signs, and he wants to try and communicate and he makes eye contact.

But there are so many other observations, like his speech especially

and his high energy level and of course the bolting, that is just not

normal DS behaviour.

thanks for your comments

Jayne

>

> > Hi,

> >

> > I am new to this group...my son is 9 and is a twin to his

sister

> > who has no problems.

> > is diagnosed with Down Syndrome, but I have always felt

that

> > something else was going on.

> > I believe he has some form of autism, I believe PPD, however, we

were

> > just at Sick Children's Hospital and they said because his

social

> > skills are so strong they did not feel he met the criteria.

> > He can't speak, maybe 10 words, he signs most of the time, and

> > gestures.

> > He is a social little guy, and likes to be around people and be

> > cuddled but he has other characteristics that I think are not DS

but

> > autism such as: reluctant to try food, bolts from us all the

time and

> > takes off, little speech, high tolerance to pain, hates sirens

and

> > certain loud noises, like to watch lights, extremem over

activity,

> > just to name a few.

> > I feel that wanting to socially be around people and try

to

> > commincate with them, especially with an over ambundace of hugs

and

> > kisses is largely due to the DS.

> > I am very fustrated, and my husband and can hardly keep up any

more

> > and he is just into everything every minute.

> > Does anyone have any comments or suggestions.

> >

> > Thanks,

> > Jayne

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > --------------------------------------------------

> > Checkout our homepage for information, bookmarks,

and photos of

> > our kids. Share favorite bookmarks, ideas, and other information

by including

> > them. Don't forget, messages are a permanent record of the

archives for our

> > list. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/

> > --------------------------------------------

> >

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